Things you HATE when you're an INFP

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[luisa]

I find the stereotype that INFPs are these cuddly adorable bunnies who experience no hate or negative emotions so funny cause if someone could take a look into my thoughts, depending on the circumstances there's a good chance they'd run away screaming lol

[Fikamar]

INFP sees beauty in imperfections.... and also sees the flaw in perfections. But again, everything is just a matter of perspective ;)

[-xorxito-]

We Hate to HATE and sometimes we hate ourselves the most.

[Darren_S]

The word "hate" is not strong enough to express how I feel when something goes against my values and morals. ☆INFP☆

[onipot]

INFP pet peeve : When someone says 'Just be rational' - in relation to high emotions. INFPs are capable of critical thought, we are often quite cerebral, we just value the heart and soul a lot more.

[opotoyem]

As infp i hates :
- Always attracted to infjs
- Easily affected by emotion
- Unambitious
- Unrealistic
- Only doing things that i like
- Easily got trauma
- Realy hard to move on

[NkosiCebile]

I think my biggest frustration is that I accept people as they are and even defend people's individualism BUT they refuse to accept me as I am, constantly telling me things I should change or work on so "I CAN FIT IN", but no one gets that I don't want to be anything but myself...

"I don't like small talk, why must I change or work on it"

[airnessquilaneta]

The 'small talk' one is so accurate. That's probably the reason why no love interest stay long enough for me. I just don't like talking to them on a daily basis if all they could talk about is the weather and some lovey-dovey gestures and salutations. I don't like checking on someone to check if they ate or not.

I want to connect with someone on a deeper level. I want to know their wicked desires, aspirations, and beliefs. I want to talk about politics, theories, music, and weird interests. I want our conversations to be meaningful

Also, talking is just exhausting. Can't we just love each other without talking much? Lmao. I just simply want to be there for him/her—breathing and in love.

[abel]

As an INFP I can agree that i sometimes turn Mob Psyco 100

[EngelsLawliet]

Small talk or not, that sweater looks comfy af.

[rosettesionne]

Communication is one of my greatest problem as an infp each time I try to express my mind, even in the most peaceful way, people often misinterprete my words or my intention even when my intention is to help, Some people can take it personally and start insulting me for no good reason. I some time have the impression of talking in another language with these peoples

[whoanellynelnel]

Me: hate? That's such a powerful word:(

Nathan: feel free to replace the word with dislike if that works better for you.

Me: well ok then nostradamus

[pizzadohpaz]

I'm an INFP who has been dating an ENFJ for 4 years. He actually loves small talk! I thought he was insane! But I realized that he does the small talk at first to help the other person feel comfortable and then all of a sudden you're having a deep convo without even thinking about it... It's truly amazing!


Plus, super useful at social events because I barely talk at all! ;)

[mehwhatever]

What do INFP hates about themselves: Everything

[evelinke]

"It's like throwing energy into the abyss and being aware of that every moment that passes." Yes, exactly. I couldn't explain why I felt that way but you said it for me.

[christineherrmann]

"Summer in the UK has come and gone... I think it was on a Thursday this year."

SO glad I was done with my coffee.

[AbigaleKirsten]

About small talk. We sometimes like it and sometimes don’t. Say we are not in the mood to talk, or get energy from this person that they are not that interesting, we only hope if such people approach us, they will speak for a minute and go. If someone wants to talk deeply with us, usually deep convos are our thing, but their version of a deep convo doesn’t match ours, we won’t be interested. I like talking about spirituality, how to grow and question norms, how to break from conditioned ways. But let’s say someone has a deep conversation about politics to me; i won’t be interested. Unless you tell me how politicians should change and reveal what goes on behind closed doors, i won’t be interested in which party stands for what or whose running the election. So we like small talk with people we find boring, because they will walk away sooner. We like deep talk with someone who brings topics unheard of, the progress community, and let’s face it, we hardly get those out of box thinkers on a daily basis.

Side note: i actually love when a plant grows through a cracked rock. Absolutely fascinating.

[Kokola-qhwp]

Can we appreciate how cute/handsome this man is 😅

[Kashi_Mochibean]

The small talk thing is interesting. When I hear "shallow" vs "deep" I'm not sure I'm thinking of the same thing as everyone else.
Sure, I like to have conversations of "substance" (especially with people I actually enjoy) but if things are too "deep" that is uncomfortable. I don't want to talk about the weather cause that is uninteresting and impersonal. But I'd still rather talk about "things" than "feelings". I can talk to friends and family about zombie apocalypse plans for a while but I don't want to talk about my deepest regrets or awkward touchy-feely stuff or death of a loved one. I prefer emotions with real people to be at a comfortable surface level. I rather awkward things be reserved to my fictional characters and situations that don't involve me. My friends and I have trust and are able to confide in each other if need be, but usually we just have dumb fun. It's better to be entertained and not bogged down. Let's play video games and talk humorously about stupid theoretical nonsense. "Deep" doesn't seem like the right word for that.

[andytheindividual]

One thing I hate as an infp(but love at the same time, 😑, is being doubted of my capabilites to actually do something. I take challenges very seriously and break things down to the smallest step, master that something, then 5 years later go up to the same person who doubted me and say "thank you".