6 Things You Do That Are Ruining Your Life

Are you unknowingly engaging in behaviors that are sabotaging your life? It's time to take a closer look at these common habits that might be holding you back from self improvement. Join us in this video as we uncover these detrimental patterns and provide practical tips for personal growth.

0:25 trying to be perfect at everything
1:05 the unhealthy expectations placed upon yourself
1:21 getting stuck in relationships
2:12 your work environment
4:21 spending excessive amounts

Let us know if you've been doing that are actually ruining your life in the comments! If you are, don't worry, we're here to guide you on the path to positive change!

Disclaimer: This video is for informative purposes only. If you can relate to any of these signs, please do not take this feedback as an attack on your character. This video is meant to be a self-improvement guide for those of you who have been feeling a little stuck.

#selfhelp #life

Researcher/ Writer: Sidney Thompson
Script Editor: Kelly Soong & Dawn Tan
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Production Assistant: Thomas Kang
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[LorenziHeartz]

0:24 1) Trying to be perfect at anything.
1:21 2) Being stuck in relationships.
2:11 3) Your work environment.
3:10 4) Maintaining a fixed mindset over a Growth Mindset
4:21 5) Spending excessive amounts of time alone
5:30 6) Not Changing

Have a lovely day folks! ❤

[Gbislifeless]

Let's see what i will overthink at 4 in the morning

[XxkuromixX_XXVALE]

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[mecqt]

timestamps to help you out ; i love this video cause it came right after i procrastinated for 4 hours
0:24 trying to be perfect at anything
1:20 getting stuck in relationships
2:12 a positive/negative work environment
3:12 maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset
4:22 spending excessive amounts of time alone
5:32 not changing diet/attitude/habits

[mikiyasanaa]

1. Trying to be perfect at everything
2. Getting stuck in relationships
3. Your work environment
4. Maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset
5. Spending excessive amounts of time alone
6. Not Changing (something such as diet or routine)

[Vantitas]

#4 hits too close to home for me over the past few years. Because a growth mindset is limitless while a fixed is limited, so reprogram your mind by always striving to broaden your horizons and live the kind of life your future self will benefit greatly from.

[miken]

Great video. I can relate to these things. First I think being stuck in a relationship is one way that I stopped socializing outside of the relationship and contributed to being more alone. Meeting new people has helped me see the world differently and realize that I can grow and change. I have been stuck in my ways and routines and falsely assume what I am capable of and my limits. I have done so many things that I thought that I would never do. Mainly watching other groups of people do things like parties, events, concerts, group rides/hikes. I am choosing to be more social with “my people” and am enjoying it. I have come a long way this past 18 months and I have learned to celebrate and savior my growth.

[AstroxSpace]

Timestamps:–
0:24 - Trying to be perfect at anything
1:19 - Getting stuck in relationships
2:12 - Your work environment
3:12 - Maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset
4:22 - Spending excessive amounts of time alone
5:31 - Not changing
Hope this helps you! Have a Miraculous day! ✨

[nadillasakinah]

Amazing video as always

Sadly I relate to most of these! In a future video, can you make one on what makes people so bad tempered/ irritated by the slightest thing?

[MimiPearlbaton]

As a man with Borderline Personality Disorder the last point is crucial to me. With hard work and managing emotions I can change! Thanks for great content psych2go

[borkeborke]

Hey! Ive been watching you for a while and I really apreciate you, I really do. Youve helped me figure out why I feel like this or why I do this, not as a diagnosis but being able to try and ask those questions to my doctor if any of that would be a possible explanation of why im doing it. Its been really hard for me lately, and I dont really have anyone to talk to, so coming to youtube or listening to music is really my only way of feeling not so alone.

I dont know if you did a video on this or not, I looked but i could have searched it wrong lol. I was wondering if you could make a video about wanting attention but not wanting attention. Like, sometimes doing things for attention but also other times you hate being noticed, and you hate that you want attention. I have this problem, and a couple of times ive said things that gave me attention because I was feeling alone. It wasnt harmful, just smth like "Oh yeah I did this cool thing" to try and relate with others. But at the same time I hate being the center of attention, it gives me high anxiety and it makes me feel guilty for wanting attention. I dont know if this makes sense, but I hope you know what I mean lol.

I hope you all are doing okay, and im sure you do but i hope you all know that work/self balance, you guys deserve a vacation xp

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). Trying to be perfect at anything 0:22
2). Getting stuck in relationships 1:18
3). Your work environment 2:11
4). Maintaining a fixed mindset over a growth mindset 3:10
5). Spending excessive amounts of time alone 4:21
6). Not changing 5:30

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[phoenixfeathers]

I relate to most of these. For quite a long time, I was in a toxic friendship where the other person stuck me in a cage, not allowing me to change or really be myself - like a flower covered in frost hindering it from blossoming. They then dumped me like a sack of rotten potatoes and I arrived in a very, very dark place.
I’ve been trying to work on myself for a while and especially have been trying to raise my self-esteem.

[siennaprice]

Trying to be perfect. This is something I can relate to. I expect myself to get things right on the first try. And if I don’t, I get so hard on myself. But, I do keep trying the task. I also feel like I should have it all figured out being that I’ve been working on my healing, and I’ve found peace, happiness and joy. So I don’t allow myself to express that I’m sad or anything like that, because I feel like I should have it all figured out. I wonder if perfection can make you limit yourself.

[steveguti]

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[mr.ghetto]

These are the best ❤ i need to share these to help out my friends

[steveguti]

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[LoneWindtheWolf]

i am guilty if having a fixed mindset, being lonely most of the time and doing nothing to changing cuz i believ i can't be changed, otherwise i'll lose what makes me "myself". i also feel like i have nothing in commom with my friends which some are religious, some are hard workers and some are adults with either work, family or both. i feel like they're all different compared to me, an alien and a nobody in this crazy world which keeps burning every single day.

[mrchaoslordlol]

Me now at my 42s hour of work thats barely paid: Hm Work envronment. Sounds like something I might have.
Its a really harsh world being an architect!

[robertomolina]

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