3 Things I wish I knew earlier about facing divorce👇 #reclaim #confidence #afterdivorce

Things I wish I had known earlier about facing divorce. 😟 Trust me—you’ll be fine if you do these 3 things.

1️⃣ Embrace Solitude, Not Loneliness: There’s a huge difference. If you have friends, family, and community, you’re not lonely—you may just find yourself in moments of solitude. Use this time to reflect, journal, and understand who you are. Healing requires stillness and solitude. If you’re always busy, that’s simply a distraction, and it delays your healing. ❤️‍🩹

2️⃣ Reclaim Your Confidence: Start by setting out to do one task and follow through—complete it. This will begin to rebuild your confidence. Maybe it’s cleaning out your pantry, giving away clothes you haven’t worn in 3 years, or tidying up your desk. It doesn’t have to be big. Just do it, and this will put a drop in the confidence-building bucket. 🪣💪

3️⃣ Ask Yourself: How can I improve the situation without my spouse changing or lifting a finger? There’s always a solution, but sometimes it just means you have to think creatively. 🧠"

I know what this feels like because I was in your shoes in 2011, and now I can honestly say life is so good. You have the ability to create a life you love after divorce, too. 💪"

[LaurelCurtis-tf]

I learned that I am more content alone. I found out that peace and quiet are wonderful!😅🎉😅