Ex Said Maybe to Meeting Up

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What does it mean if your ex said maybe to meeting up with you?

Why can't they just give you a straight answer one way or the other?

The truth is that your ex is struggling with mixed emotions if they said this to you. There is a part of them that wants to meet up with you and feel close to you again. There is also the part of them that remembers why the two of you broke up.

And this emotional tug-of-war is causing them to say maybe to meeting up. Part of them wants to say yes, part of them wants to say no. Combine these two together and you get a maybe.

Understand, however, that this is an emotional issue with your ex. If you're going to get your ex to say yes to meeting up, you have to understand their emotions.

When you can speak to your ex's emotions and show them that you understand and relate to how they feel, they are much more likely to open up and be interested in meeting up with you.

[caseygoodwin]

My ex and I were texting catching up after 5 weeks apart. I asked if she wanted to grab a drink or lunch. She said I don’t think we can just eat lunch and be friends do you? I told her I was just being friendly and I’ve moved on . I said I like you but you don’t wanna be with me so I’ve moved on... she said well maybe you can find someone that makes you happy. I responded by saying you made me happy but that’s neither here or there. She said she doesn’t think we are ready for drinks this week but maybe soon..

[namegoeshere]

After a year of daily communication, I told my ex I had developed feelings for him again and I was going to take a break from communication to get over it. I also mentioned that it was probably very obvious and off putting that I had started to carry a torch for him again. He replied, "it's not off putting, I'm just terrible" yikes 😕

[senorachampagne]

My ex said she didnt feel ready to meet yet, but that maybe we could meet in a few months when shes made it through some difficult life changes.

[ChordsForU]

I sent my ex an apology after a few months of no contact and she went from what seemed to be hating me to saying we can meet up with our friends but she said she doesn't want anything else between us

[onelife]

After 3 months of texting she still won't meet. Every time she agrees to meet then bails last second. The last time she just ghosted all together. I am about to give up. What can I do if she won't meet?

[keikykinku]

Video is very old but Im hoping you see this. Recently contacted my ex to apologize for my faults in the relationship. She said she appreciated it and not many people do that. She apologized for her faults as well. I asked her to catch up sometime when we are healed if shes open to it. She didn’t respond at first. Couple days later I was moving out of my apartment and she left some stuff there. I asked her if she wanted her stuff. She then replied “Im not sure, Ill have to think about it” regarding the catching up and then said i could throw away the stuff she left. Was not expecting her to reply to the meetup question bc she didn’t respond at first. Any insight of what this may mean?

[briteidea]

So after 3 months. Should I reach out?? It’s only been 2 months of no contact.

[yiye]

Hi my ex initial texted me yesterday “do you have time to chat tomorrow “ since no contact day of51.what should I text him back?i know he only wants to chat with about our townhouse and when he can come over to move his stuff to get our townhouse to rent or for sale. He won’t want to chat anything else thinks he mailed me a letter that we will never ever/ can not get back together due to his anxiety and he feels relief after3 months separation, due to negative more than positive in the past 3 yrs lived together. How can I break down his barriers to let him believe that the past is history, a better of me is coming, we can create new and more happy memories than ever, coz we will treat each like treasure coz we had lost it before .
How can I make him to initiate to meet upon person? Any Tripp’s ? Please advise .

[ericyao]

she just doesn't want to spend time that's all