FTM | Am I Being Groomed By This Older Man? 😵‍💫

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[finallyrob]

If you have that odd feeling and from what you're saying, it sounds like a bad idea to meet up with him tbh. Especially with him continuously bringing up sex when you clearly said, you're ace and you don't want. Doesn't sound worth spending the time and energy on him.

[BobDeGuerre]

I've been on this ride. Hard pass {if i were ace} but you do you. Always trust the hair on the back of your neck.
Grooming is subtle. What you've described is an older man overstepping your clearly stated boundaries, an older man invalidating your own experience of your own sexuality, an older man repeatedly directing conversation to sexual topics, an older man bringing up "gifts and travel" to someone he's known 3 weeks... an older man who wants to have sex with you.

Speaking as someone who is highly aware of the progressive loss of muscular strength and muscular stamina between taking T regularly, taking low-dose T, and being off T completely, what I find especially worrisome is the possibility he could be much stronger than you, and put you into a "situation". But, in your judgment, if the perceived rewards are worth that particular risk to your overall well-being, guard your drinks, stay alert, and be prepared to defend yourself.