When You Have Value, People Will Test You... (HIGH VALUE TRAITS)

Most people try to avoid this, but they really shouldn't... In this video, you will learn how to demonstrate your value!

Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.

Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!

His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!

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When You Have Value, People Will Test You... (HIGH VALUE TRAITS)

How to improve your social skills! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to pass congruence tests while remaining grounded in yourself. This is one of most important traits of a high value person and is extremely attractive!

Discover how to learn social skills and how to improve your social skills.

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[JulienHimself]

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[petermorgan]

Recently this stuff has been clicking for me. For years I avoided socialising and put on a restrictive front to hide a lot of my personality. It's been mind-blowing to now see that authentically sharing things I previously hid in fear of rejection has had the opposite effect of making people more approving and attracted to me. Thanks so much Julien, it's taken years but the changes are amazing.

[pavlostamiolakis]

"What will get you ahead is self-encouragement, not self-attack". Thank you🙏

[focusedallday]

Couldn't agree more Julian. Men have been lead to believe that they need to change themselves to get the women and then wonder why months later the situation is toxic and she ain't cooperating. To pass all test you have to accept who you are and stand on it! Stay Focused Guys!

[healingingrace]

“Be inspired by what’s possible but don’t compare and self attack” 🙌🏻 thanks for the video, I really needed this!

[KalkiAvatarATWAR]

Exactly, you draw attention naturally instead of seeking attention, a completely different paradigm

[nickp]

I know this subconsciously (and now consciously lol) and I think it’s a big part of the reason why I don’t put forth my best effort in life. Serious self honesty time right now. I don’t like confrontation, I don’t like being uncomfortable or making other people uncomfortable. So I don’t wanna put myself in a position to where I’m gonna be confronted and get tested everywhere because it adds too much stress. It’s not a way that i wanna live. So I’d rather people think I’m sub par and not on their level so that they leave me alone. I’ve experienced it, when i put myself in high value situations, people get fucking brutal man, and that’s when I dip. I don’t wanna deal with any of that. It’s a cold, cold world we live in. I know this is something I have to work on in myself, because I have to reach my potential, but I just don’t like being stressed out all the time and having to keep my guard up. It’s so much more relaxing down at the bottom lol

Though I’ve realized recently that when im at my best im 100% a sigma type male. I can put someone in their place just by calmly and assertively talking to them, and I know how to diffuse conflicts really well. I’ve been practicing this to get better at it in the past six months or so and it’s worked out really well. I told a guy who’s above me at my job to grab his balls and start being a manager by getting his crew together. I didn’t yell, I didn’t get angry or emotional, I had a conversation with him, told him something needs to change because decisions that he’s making is making my job harder. We talked through it and he basically kept giving me the runaround so I told him “listen, your guys don’t respect you. That’s why nothing gets done the right way. So I think what you need to do is grab your balls and start being a manager”. I said it to him like I was his counselor lol. And holy shit, things actually changed.

I used to think that being loud and aggressive like the stereotypical “alpha male” was the way to go, and for some personalities that is. That can work for some people. For others though, not so much. I have such a calm personality, nobody would take me seriously if I acted all macho and started yelling when I was pissed off. You gotta find what type of assertiveness works for you.

Making progress!

[cosmicpork]

I work in a barbershop and more then 50% of the time everyone mostly talks bs super exaggerated. I’ve been speaking truth and people don’t like it and they try to get me to judge them so the attention will be on them but I check myself and not get suck and it gets easier to control myself. This is a clear reminder I am on the right path.

[viniciusestrela]

The collaborative frame is really powerful.
Started using it in the gym and my comfort level tripled.

[Sasquatchbones]

Testing people you don’t know can get you killed from my life experience… listen to this guy, you better be ready for anything.
Use respect and courtesy instead of “shit testing, ” you’ll find out far more with less possible dire consequences.

[fitforfreelance]

Taking responsibility /ownership for all of yourself and using compassion is a major step!

[nimakal]

The choice vs the reaction. Pure gold Julien. Been watching since the RSD days. Crazy to think "shit testing" is the old term. Literally love you bro

[stephanielupercio]

"people don't want perfect" this took a huge load off my shoulders

[onetimeiateanindonesianguy]

Honestly man every time I see you my eyes project to me the image of a psychopath and it may be an accurate lens but this video provided me with immense value, this is the most genuine you’ve come off to me yet. I respect you.

[StephanP]

Ego is the reason people feel threatened and become competitive. When you're humble and get rid of your ego, you forget about yourself and make it about others.

[indie]

Thank you. This is the first time in my life I've heard exactly what I needed to hear; everything I've been experiencing and having problems with for all my life were in this video and it's the first time something like this has clicked for me. I don't idolize, but I'll give praise where it's due, just before 22 and I finally heard what I need, thank you

[SilentNinjaaa]

Damn I needed to hear this. Relationship failed, family failed, friendships failed and I sincerely thought i was the problem. Then i found out these ppl would go behind my back and say that i was better than them and i was a really good hearted person. Dont know why they are so malicious with me but I’m learning how to handle the shit testing of life.

[fisi]

I guess that's the best video about something like that on YouTube. I've needed 3 years to understand it while I worked on it.

[BoBo-pekv]

Tested is a good sign of the type of person that you are willing and able to be. However, once you understand why you’re always being tested. It will never, not be, annoying to put up with. Yet the frustration that often goes hand in hand with the topic is eliminated.
It is common to feel insecure or doubtful. That’s what others want you to feel like, whenever they confront you with a test.
Because subconsciously what you have done, or are able to do- has made them feel insecure. Because they see in You, what they realize they do not possess in themselves. These type of people have a habit/cycle of taking their own personal mental insecurities and turn them into feelings of inferiority. ON THEIR OWN. In order to compensate for those feelings. The emotion will change into anger…. Even tho the anger is truly with themself. When this occurs, For some people it can become an involuntary action to lash out at other people. as if the whole confrontation was the other persons fault in the first place.
So don’t waste time feeling upset by these peoples misunderstanding’s of you. The fact is, they have poor mental habits and are unaware that they should/could behave in a different manner. If they understood this, they definitely would have already made the adjustments. Because there are plenty of other people similar to them, they don’t feel like any personal improvements are needed. Even though the whole time, they are feeling confused at the way people treat them during a CONFRONTATION. The correlation is never made that they are the only person responsible for their ill feelings- not the people they Test!)

[CHAZMOTO]

I started tapping into this. Especially with my lady. I always say what I mean & it shakes out relationship for the better I believe. If its challenging that means you're growing. All of it is fun. Even the bad. Stay cool yet open to you first. Some of my personal base presents