Real life stuff…

[ArteDeMarte]

Hi Stephanie - i’m a virologist and I support whatever decision you make regarding Sebastian’s medical care. Sebastian is not like other kids and I understand the reservations about vaccinating him. On the contrary, there are a lot of nasty diseases that can harm him due to his compromised immune system, more so than the potential complications a vaccine might cause. But in the end, it’s all up to you and Gio with the advice of his medical team. Either way, I support your decision. You are his mama and his advocate and no one should shame you for whatever you choose.

[Shea]

This is my 2cents. You do what’s best for your son & your family. Me personally we got our kids the least vaccines possible. When they came in the schools to give Gardasil, we choose not to vaccine our kids, pediatricians tried to push it, but we said no. We (as a family) also didn’t get the Covid vaccine, because the unknown side effects, we also don’t receive any flu vaccines. You just have to go with your gut & what you think is best for you & your family.

[MrsJordan-nqje]

We are in the same boat at you in terms of questioning the whole vaccination schedule. It’s a lot for a little body and after lots of research, I skip them until my mother gut says otherwise. With that being said, I whole heartedly, I support each parent doing what they feel is right for their child. In our state, we can do conscientious objections in order to send our kids to school. If you decide to vaccinate him or not, you are his mom. You do what’s best for him. I pray for your clarity! Either way, I still love your family and your adorable blessing of a boy! Thank you for sharing him with us!

[auntiem]

You and Gio are amazing parents and whatever you decide will be the best for Sebastian. Just as an aside, I had two sisters who worked on a Covid floor in 2020. One of them managed the Covid floor. She had many heartbreaking stories of otherwise healthy people, who died in her presence. Yet other people would say that covid was a hoax. You would never have someone other than a cardiac specialist operate on your heart, so I think it's important to listen to what your doctors (the medical field) have to say. They are the experts. Sebastian, being immunocompromised, makes it even more important to be protected. Nothing is perfect, I'm sure no vaccine or immunization is perfect, but we have to do the best we can with the information we currently know. Science really does matter. You have an amazing family! Thank you so much for sharing with all of us! God bless you all!

[Sunnysideup]

Stephanie if there is such concern over vaccines, my advice is to get a doctor to speak to you and Gio on the pros and cons. Personally I would do it only if there was no compromise to Seb’s health. Just thinking, didn’t Freya have vaccines to go to school? Talk to Marcy . Trust your instincts

[cindyfogarty]

You are a great mom and dad. Do what you feel is right. That's all that matters. ❤it will be the right decision for YOUR FAMILY !

[BrendainPA]

Stephanie - whatever you and Gio decide about vaccines is, of course, entirely up to you. I think your idea of talking with health professionals whom you trust is excellent. You will do right for your (our) sweet Sebastian and I will support you all the way. ❤

[carolerae]

Stephanie... I feel you (and Geo)..no apologies necessary. Those of us who have been following you for some time...PLEASE stop judging yourself. You and Geo are AWESOME PARENTS! Don't you dare second guess yourselves!

[tnblueeyes]

Sebastián is yours and Gio's son. You do what you think is safe and best for your little man. Don't worry about what other people think. You are a wonderful mother!❤

[kootieskk]

My youngest daughter is a congenital heart disease kid. She is 30 now but she has had all of her vaccinations with no side effects. As a nurse I was okay with it.

[albavalencia]

My opinion is that if anyone needs the vaccines, it's him. In New York, a certain part of the population didn't vaccine and they had a rubella outbreak that killed a few kids. The mayor had to step in and close their own schools to prevent it from extending to another areas and for their own well being. My concern is that Sebastian goes out and he also interact with other people who might have been exposed to any disease. Also, you both need him to go to school. It will be so beneficial to him and a break for you too. Discuss it with the medical team and decide. Happy holidays!

[karenboouk]

Short and sweet your his parents you know him best what ever decision on vaccinations are completely up to you two. No one else. Sending hugs to you all. Love Sebastian to the moon and back 🌹🌹🌹

[CollectorAtHeart]

Vaccinations should be given to every child with CdLS according to national guidelines . It is common for individuals with CdLS to have recurrent respiratory infections which can affect the sinuses, throat, airways or lungs. Respiratory infections in CdLS are thought to be influenced by differences in anatomy (how the airways have formed), hypotonia (low muscle tone and strength) and poorer co-ordination of swallowing and coughing.

[mirandamccoubrey]

I 100% understand! You're such a great mom ❤ medical decisions are hard. I was really hesitant to vaccinate my daughter after my son had a reaction but I felt pressure from people and anyways, I did against my gut and they forever altered my daughter's life. There are risks either way. You have to do what is best for you. People are quick to judge sometimes . Hugs mama

[michellefrost]

I agree with your doctors.You're putting them at risk by not getting them and I feel that he is a very healthy young man and he can take it

[kimberlyfernandez]

Others may not feel the same way as me but. My kids were born healthy. My daughter started having ear infections at 4 months old and I chose to not give her the vaccines until she was completely well. And my son was also healthy. I chose to give them their vaccines but I spread them way out. I did not follow the guidelines of the doctors. I did what I felt was better and less risky for MY children. So I totally understand and would def be exactly like minded as you. I do believe in most vaccinations but not all and not giving them so young and close together. Maybe people feel that I am wrong. I have worked with doctors for 30 years now and find that nearly all of them are 100 percent science minded. I love that they are wonderful healers but still feel that they and we should take each circumstance in consideration what is good for one child may not be for another. So I applaud you for being an excellent mother and advocate for Sebastian.

[wendysantibanez]

Trust in the team that has saved his life. They have not let you down. They are in the business of “saving lives” and would not send you astray. They know his medical needs/history and complications better than anyone other than you and Gio. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 you find peace in whatever you choose

[misanthropiq]

Dear Stephanie, I love the fact that you think about everything for the best decisions in regards to your son. I wish I could have a mother like you!

[janetdunn]

I was a Mom to a special needs child. This was many years ago. Tracy had her designated vaccinations and yet got measles that nearly took her life. It is hard when the children are normal, but special needs are another walk completely. I am glad that at the time we did vacations. It did help her. Again, this is your decision, so bless you until you can decide. Love to all. 🦋🥰

[WendysHere]

I read that you can bring back a cactus that had been frozen. Don’t get rid of it. When you find out what to do, keep us updated on it’s regrowth. 🌵