7 Rules To Get Your Ex Back - Understanding What Your Ex Really Wants

The majority of guys make the mistake of going "No Contact" after a breakup. No Contact aka radio silence will make your ex forget you and get closer to someone else. It will convey disinterest, low-value and low value behavior.

You can tell if your ex misses you or forgets about you based on six factors. If you do the right thing at the right time and say the right thing you will be able to get her back before it's too late. Other factors play a role as well.

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[martinfoy]

yo, let me give every guy here a little bit of information and I’m only speaking from experience I’m telling you now it does not matter if you show low value behavior or if you go, and as they tell you to live your best life and get your shit together like it there should be no reason for that shit she fell in love with you as is, so why would she want a better version when she already fell in love with you as you were. Regardless, I’m telling you now even if you’re needy and call and text her and beg which is bullshit and I’ve made that mistake, but even if you honor them the break up and don’t call or contact and give them space and do all kinds of impressive shit let me tell you something life is not a movie no one ever ever comes back to you they just don’t I am suffering with my heart fucking ripped out and I have no one to blame but myself for getting caught up in the emotions and I will never make the mistake again of anything more than a hook up but never letting emotions or feelings or any of that shit touched me because the fucking pain and depression and agony of losing something and suffering. The consequences of what I don’t know but to lose something that you love them not scale I’m just not cut out for it.

[martinfoy]

my whole thing is why when i told her 24 hours after i met her ALL of my faults and i said everything to make her run. she was so happy and in love she still says how happy she was. i don’t understand how someone could have exactly what they want and i showed extreme low value behavior. i will always be completely fine with random hookups. this is worse than opiate withdrawal. i feel like a piece of me is missing. there is no fuckin way she even loved me. i would love to know what goes on in a woman’s brain

[charlesfinley]

Hey Ben. Ask a favor. Can you timestamp. At times like to focus on one part. Thanks. Keep up the work.

[brianoswald]

How do I get information about your coaching.

[martinfoy]

yeah, basically if you don’t come into the fucking relationship as absolutely perfect by their standards, then you’re basically shit. When I met the love of my life before I knew that she was I wasn’t even into her that much in 24 hours after meeting her IYA told her every negative thing about me to help push her away. I wasn’t that into her and I didn’t wanna hurt her. what does she do? She runs towards me well the short version of the story is, she grew on me to say the least. I fell so deeply in love with her. It was like nothing I’ve ever known only two years later on the dot she rips my fucking heart out. I’ll never understand why if she was miserable I can understand and she even told me multiple times after the break up. She never knew such comfort, in such happiness and it’s like why would you fucking throw that all the way? Like it’s not fucking easy to meet people to have that much chemistry and feel that level of comfort it just doesn’t happen every day and to have it and we’re both middle-age we’re both single parents and she pursued me. I don’t fucking understand it.