6 Things All Single Men Need To Do

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CourtneyRyan
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One thing all single men need to do: STOP WORRYING ABOUT WOMEN.

TheEliminator
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Being single does have some benefits. Here's the summary folks:

1) Enjoy your hobbies (or try out new ones)
2) Prioritize physical fitness (staying healthy is good, but it's better to become healthier)
3) Join a club and meet new people (don't forget about the friendships you currently have)
4) Learn something new (skills, musical instruments, languages, etc.)
5) Get your money right (financial independence and stability are key because inflation is a pain these days)
6) Establish goals, priorities, and healthy habits (This allows you to better focus on who you want to be, and process the qualities you look for someone when you choose to enter the dating scene)

Here are a few items that I will add to the list:
1) Travel (It's cheaper to pay for one ticket than two)
2) Improve your mental health and personal attitude (Life can be emotionally draining at times, so make sure you keep emotions in check)
3) Take care of your skin
4) Take care of your hair (sorry if you are bald)

lawrence
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Courtney is slowly restoring my faith in humanity. So refreshing to hear a logical, level-headed person give advice on personal character rather than what we see in the majority in regards to accountability. Great info.

machinegodhelios
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I am proud to realize I am already prioritizing all of these things. If I had any additional suggestion it would be to use the period of life in which you feel alone to engage in spiritual seeking, whether religious, philosophical, or strictly personal. I think being single is the easiest time to cultivate awareness in regards to your world view and that ends up being important when finding a partner. Loneliness itself can actually be the catalyst for self realization if you embrace it.

atomsk_arson
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I would add: Live to impress yourself; do not expect anything in return just because "you're doing everything right"

"It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life."

joebikes
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This video should be titled “6 Reasons Why Men Should Stay Single” absolutely love it

kuruptflip
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My youth minister told me "you can be content where you are, AND strive for what you want". Workouts make me feel much better about myself.

We should fear complacency, which is the theme of this video.

JaredHassell
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Courtney, if I listened too all the women in my life about where I can or can't approach women I would only be left with bars, clubs, and dating apps -- funnily enough it's where women receive the most attention. So there's nothing wrong with meeting women at the gym, grocery store, retail store, etc.

joaquin
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Single 34 year old male. Been through the ups and downs of dating for years Courtney. Really want to thank you for this specific video and helping met set some clear mindsets when it comes to growing as an individual and becoming a full individual that will in turn bring so much more joy in a relationship. Appreciate the great words always!

AmosofTekoa
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Important things: 0:47 First Thing - Enjoy Your Hobbies; 1:11 First reason for having a hobby; 1:22 Second reason for having a hobby; 1:30 Third reason for having a hobby; 1:42 Fourth reason for having a hobby; 3:22 Second Thing - Prioritizing Physical Fitness; 5:06 Third Thing - Join The Club / Meet New People; 6:07 Fourth Thing - Learn; 8:02 Fifth Thing - Get Your Money Right; 10:18 Sixth Thing - Set Goals, Priorities, And Healthy Habits; and 11:25 to summarize all the told here.
What a coincidence that we post videos on the same day, each on our own channel as well 😉😊🙃🙂.
I agree with what you have told there Courtney, cause all of these things are true, and like you have told it can apply to either men, and women.
I can share some of my experiences when meeting new people. I had a chance to meet one person from Japan that was making one model kit. And that model kit (or mock up; call it whatever you want) what that person assembled I have liked, and I also like the way how he putted that much details, and effort on doing that model kit. We have done the meeting via You Tube, a couple of years ago. The person had a struggle to find the decals (the decals are some kind of stickers, for those who don't know what are decals), and I said I have them. In return the person asked me what I want in return. I asked for one little model kit that I don't have in my collection. And we help each other. Also we have subscribed to each others channels.
The best anti stress therapy is doing model kits. It can really solve those 4 reasons that you have mentioned. Also playing music instruments can be good hobby as well. I like playing guitar (acoustical, and electric guitar as well), and doing model kits (and my channel is dedicated to the model kits hobby; you can visit it if you are interested), like I have mentioned it a couple of times. Also that person from Japan taught me some techniques about the model kits. Beside's meeting the person from Japan (in this case man), I had a chance to meet on social media some women that are enjoying doing model kits.
All of these things can mostly help you two things. And those are:
1. To be yourselves in a healthy way;
2. And to be with the person and with people who give you support.
I remember that I saw one quote that goes like this (someone can correct me if I made a mistake): "Don't give up on your goals. You have no idea who are you inspiring."

Harikejn
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Great video C. Having hobbies is huge. Staying busy/ having healthy habits in general is super important. Don't piss away your time! Watching TV, playing video games, etc can still have their place, but in moderation. Use your time wisely. At some point you'll look back at your life with regret. Take the initiative and push through wtv is holding you back! Godspeed!

Biscuits
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I practice martial arts twice a week and with the exception of two women, my dojo has only male students.
It's a great way to clear your mind while at the same time finding mental and physical balance 👊🏻🥋

remcs
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I love being single. Meeting women is a by product of my life. I could care less if one girl isn’t into me, there’s always others who feel the same way.

toddgoogle
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I also want to say I subscribed! This is so wonderful you are doing this. I have relationship trauma and I let it get really toxic in the last one. Done everything I could before we finally separated forever. Of course I have ADHD depression and stomach trouble, but I used to be a chain smoker in stress.[now I've been 1 in a half year without a cigarette] I used to be in that bad crowd until I woke up to the insanity. I became a born again christian. Have been repenting for pornography use and lustful temptation just being so lost with why I crumbled in it for so long. Why couldn't I ever find a women that has faith in Jesus? A women that is not narcissistic and gives into the evil pride! Some men really do fall into a trap and that is for sure how I feel at times. I'm alone but I have god #1 first thing, and I have the gift of creating with sound(My Hobby). With these things I do not fear anything but am aware there is probably a 1% out there that is dying to be with me and understands me. But I don't force it, I just wait for it to come in god's time, and if there is no woman for me. So be it. I just believe I can't change myself for someone else. I'm not going to get in a relationship until I am fully healed and ready. Which could be in a few years. We really shouldn't rush it. But women don't pop up to me like they used to, mainly because most of them come off as sexually immoral, all of the good women are already taken.. SO that leaves me with the hope in my 27 year old life, I still have plenty of time to find her 🙏

tecmowbeats
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You hit it right on the head with the hammer... I enjoy and am pursuing all of these things. Staying on point with ones self will possibly attract the right partner. But from my experience there too many women that believe themselves to be said partner and once a man has ran into or interacted with enough of these women they tend to remain focused on themselves and living their lives. Not completely leaving women out of the picture but not taking anything serious and just focusing on the most basic needs when it comes to women. I'm no player by no means, I'm actually somewhat conservative but not unwilling to be free if you get me, and for some reason I've been told that I am really handsome. I personally don't agree, I'm not ugly or anything but there's just another factor when trying to let some one in your life. These modern day societal adjustments that men have to make to not be single kind of make it not worth the effort.

LorenzoSilmon
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Gents, one thing that I have learned in my life is that friendship for us, true friendship (not the guy who you chat with at the bar every time you see him, or spot each other at the gym), TRUE friendship for us only comes through mutually shared triumph or failure.

Your true friends don't always need words, but they always will know your insinuations. Guys in the military, sports teams, high competitive environments, brutal workloads, physically punishing jobs all know exactly what I'm talking about

CatharticMunitions
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What I have been doing since my divorce has been reconnecting with family. My exwife really kept me isolated from my family and thankfully they haven't held it against me for getting out of touch. I have also been working on my career a lot. And I have been enjoying my hobbies without derision from my exwife. So I guess my advice is to do what you weren't allowed to do easily when you were stuck.

darrenskjoelsvold
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Don’t worry about women! I’m single and I ain’t worried about women because I’m trying to become the best version of myself. I’ll be going to the gym soon to get bigger, I’m trying to get a part time job because I’ll be entering my first year of college in September. I’m focusing on myself first to level up as a man.

TSierra
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What I would add is that it's good to go by yourself to new restaurants, music venues, comedy clubs, movie theatres and theatres where plays are performed. This will lead to men getting to know the city they live in, and the ability to propose a lot of dates when you do meet a woman you'd like to ask out

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