Why Didn't They Love Me??? (WHAT YOU NEED TO HEAR!)

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[RickP-yw]

I'm not mad, I'm not hurt. Im wiser, and I have truly learned my lesson to never give my heart, soul and unconditional love to the wrong person ever, ever again.

[beckyvegalifecoach]

He came into my life to show me how I wanted to be treated and to thrust me into my purpose . I just became a life coach ❤️

[Freverblessed]

Heavy on the “what was I going through that I attracted this person” NOT “what was (wrong) with me that I attracted this person”. Perception is everything! Not everyone is meant to stay in our lives and that isn’t always a bad thing.

From a self love content creator to another- great tips Stephanie! Loved it!! 💕

[garycordle]

Stop worrying about them, and get on with your life, set goals, and that person was brought in your life to teach you a lesson, so if you do find someone who really love's you, you won't take them for granted, great video.

[Alicia-gpnh]

Helped me realize that I am the keeper of the gate and I needed to find out not only "how" he got in, but "why"? My codependency issues and rescue mindset had to change.

[law.c.]

3 toxic relationships in one lifetime...lesson: there are too many toxic people in the world; how does one find a soulmate in a society based on material accumulation? everyone I seem to meet has an agenda! Maybe I have one too... to find true love...starting to doubt if this even exists!

[solidcatink]

He appeared into my life to teach me to be more careful with my love. To only give love once someone proves he deserves it. To not give so much, and to let him give to me more. He also taught me that socio-economic clivages should be avoided. Stick to my own kind, sorta thing. He taught me that my judge of character is warped, and that I need to take things very slowly with people before sharing my generous heart with them.

[lonerider]

Perfect👏 I always believe some people come into our lives to give us a "blessing", and some people come into our lives to teach us a lesson. Not everyone stays in our lives, but they all come to teach us something and become part of who we are. All we have to do is learn who we allow to stay in our lives, and who we have to let go of no matter how much we love them and no matter how much it hurts.

[ifeanyi]

I was utterly abandoned. She blocked me and my important papers are being sent to her prior to this. I've tried to reach out and she moved on like she never cared and now acts so cold and malicious where I can't get a response if she will send it back or not. Your advice was helpful, she taught me that I can be creative and giving and can trust during that time.

[NenaLavonne]

Beautiful and powerful ♥️ The different people in our life serve different purposes. It doesn’t mean we are any less worthy 🙏

[WarmandHardy]

What they did will always suck. I realized one day that the trauma never goes away, you just learn to live with it.

“What they did was never about you.”

-Steph

[cookiemichelle]

Some people are a lesson and not a blessing. Great video and points!!!

[carinmanfong]

Agree! After those toxic people left, It free up space for more good people to come into my life. But I still feeling the high n low of mood swings with emo flashback of they discarded me everyday. It has been 3months now..i do hope this will end very soon...

[judymagazine]

Great video! It's hard to get your head around being in a marriage for 30 years ending up divorcing and believing it had a purpose other than staying together for life.

[brianboyd]

"No makeup, no lipstick, perfect"!!!

[kathymastel]

This video is spot on. I’m not yet to the place where I’m glad it went the way it went, even for the sake of good growth. I still wish things had been different! However, I did go through that process of identifying my part and I am happy for the growth in me!

[brianboyd]

"We look very pretty to day/with you all the way"!!!

[Imso_fierce]

Seems to me my ex was brought in my life for me to teach him...and when he discarded me, all that I taught him, he's giving it to the new supply. I'll NEVER trust a man again

[sher]

BOOM! You nailed it! God used my ex and my 33 year marriage to him to bring tremendous personal growth to ME! There were things that God wanted to mend within me and He used that time in my life to accomplish it. Although I would not want to go through it again, I'm eternally grateful that I came out of it a much stronger, healthier person!

[leepop]

It's been 3months since the break up! I can say I loved her unconditionally for 6yrs I thought she loved me unconditionally the same way I was wrong"... she walked out of my life after I recovered from covid 19 I didn't see it coming, I guess the world changed and she with it changed too.. I feel she just use me for my money