weigh in | trauma made me fat

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[obvlit]

It's not a "conspiracy" that you were 600 pounds. You got to 572.4 then didn't weigh yourself for a bit while you were admittedly bed bound. You could easily have reached 600 in that time. Don't act like it's completely out of the question.

[obvlit]

You were 520.0 pounds on January 1st. How'd you gain 3.6 pounds since the start of your WLS journey? You've been telling us for months that you no longer binge, that you're easily able to "sit in discomfort", and that your relationship with food is much healthier now. You've clearly been lying about how much you're still struggling.

[Baby.Annihilation]

So you've gained 4 pounds since starting your WLS surgery journey?

Love that for you

[brandenhill]

She has so many videos of previous weigh ins, she can put anything up on the screen and claim that is what she weighs. Personally, I think it is more than that.

[avamarson]

That’s not a weigh in, that’s a screenshot. Probably an old one. I highly doubt you’re under 540.

[caitlinc]

Didn’t she get to like 469 on ozempic or something? It’s a tragedy that she quits everything that actually works.

[s.m.]

Im not one to believe conspiracies but im like 99% sure that picture of the scale is just a random one she took a while back. Like... the quality and way its zoomed is how she used to take them. The grain...idk looks exactly like a photo shed taken a while back

[phreakzilla]

She’s been “fine with it” for 32 years now. Nothing new.

[horrificromantic]

At some point, Amber, you gotta move on from the trauma and heal. You lean so heavily on the past, it’s like you’re still living there and you like it? It’s not good.

[rqtcqhe]

Your trauma is not your fault.

However, the way you deal with it is 100% your responsibility.

[mandygenericname]

Amber, I found you in 2018. Your videos showed me I needed to change. I lost 63 lbs. I'm healthy now! You're still making excuses. I hope it changes one day, but I worry you'll pass before that happens. Quit buying scales, food containers, water bottles...count calories. Exercise, girl.

[owensmart]

Trauma caused you develop food addiction which isn’t your fault.

But your failure to seek help for your addiction certainly is. You’re an adult. You’re responsible for your decisions.

[KatD]

No way I believe you’re 523. You look as big as you did when you were 570s. Also that picture doesn't show you fully in view you are probably leaning on something.

[glooper]

When you continually blame past trauma for what you are going through, you are denying responsibility to heal yourself - you have given that trauma power to control your life.

[pearlsonaplate]

I think the ship has sailed on this journey. It’s been years and she remains pretty much the same. This will be a repeat of LifebyJen and then we will move on..

[kiwimaniac]

It’s the scale’s fault. The scale is fatphobic.

[giragira]

I CAN't with this victim mentality. Many people on this earth have trauma and, newsflash, they are actively trying to improve their life quality. My whole family and I are carrying trauma with them. We fled from literal war. We had to life in a whole new country far away from everything we knew. We went to therapy, I still have my therapist, and - surprise - it helps to get through trauma. You just have to stop this "I am a poor victim" excuse and start to be open for the work that comes with changes. Get better and dump this useless mentality of yours. When will you finally realise this will get you nowhere???

[raphaelabrum]

"And who better to ask than the audience" GIRL WE NEED TO GO OUTSIDE

[laurenvanraalte]

My therapist once told me that people will do what ‘works’ for them. And that only when it stops being enough for them, will they change. Clearly being 500+ lbs works for Amber. She is fine with it, per her words… and therefore must be fine with everything that comes with it.

[abcdefgeffort]

So people were branded as fatphobics and trolls for pointing out that she looked the same way she looked back in 2019, plus the dietician was okay with her drinking soda and she was doing everything right. We love you for that amberlynn.