How to RAISE YOUR STANDARDS and UPGRADE YOUR LIFE ⚡️

Let’s talk about how to raise your standards as a woman, how to level up, and how to upgrade your life!! This chat can apply to any aspect of your life: dating, relationships, health, money, friends, family, etc!

Let me know what you think in the comments!! ❤️

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WHAT I’M WEARING:

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CHAPTERS:
0:00 How to raise your standards and upgrade your life
0:25 Why standards are so important
1:10 It starts with you
3:42 How do you view yourself?
6:33 Should vs must (this is crucial!)
10:57 Letting things go
12:03 This important question makes everything clear

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[Angryoyster]

I know that I definitely allow myself to accept less then I deserve, because I’ve told myself I have no worth. The “would you let your daughter do this” really snapped my thinking around, and made me realize how I’m treating myself.

[blancheb]

I love how this is about self accountability instead of entitlement

[neesemma]

Giirl i love you so much. You literally helped me change my life. I grew up abused and developed multiple traumas so i decided to live in another country alone and i was in a flight or fight mode yet deep down I'm very feminine and the hustle culture isn't really for me. Ever since i relaxed and started to get out of my head and be more in my body and being more feminine. Surprisingly i got more money at my job and had more clients because i became magnetic and believe me I'm already booked for months ahead and i have other clients on my waiting list, and mind you I'm only 6 months in this country. I upgraded my wardrobe and my house and it made a huge impact on my life. Utilize being a woman my dears . Love 💕 🌺🌹 🌷

[stephhielscher]

Wow thank you so much!! Asking myself “would I accept xyz for my daughter” is brilliant and makes the process of raising my standards so much easier. When you explained this, it was like a light bulb moment. Thank you 🙏🏻

[sarasullivan]

Wow such a good video. I needed to hear this. I am always letting people walk all over me. I am so thankful for your videos. You are so young and wise. My husband is an alcoholic and never helps me with my son. He is pushing me to have another child. I know he won't help me. I am exhausted all the time. I would not want my daughter to get pushed around like this.

[mojyoqueen]

I had the opposite problem - I set my standards for other as high as I have them for myself and nobody was able to meet them. Except for me, because I live with those standards my whole life.

[wasikatabassumtasnia]

It's very helpful. I feel refreshed every time I watch your videos.🥰

[timriehl]

I am forwarding this to my sister; she needs to watch it. I want so much more for her than what she is settling for.

[llllimytizhnria-smlll]

Thank you soooo much for your pieces of advice!!! I am I my twenties & I feel so lost recently... I'm trying to reinvent myself, but failed so many times to do so... I finally got a better perspective for myself, thanks to your softness & your openness when you talked. I aspire to become someone as soft & gentle with myself & others, as you seem to be. Thank you sooo much! 💞😊

[blancheb]

Yes I relate with the health issues and diet thing. I also went through an unidentified health issue, the doctors couldn't do anything about it, I decided to take things into my hands and looked into alternative healing, diet, natural food supplements and it has totally changed my life.

Lastly the thing about would I want my daughter to experience this in making your standards crystal clear: if you have a narcissistic mother it might sound cognotively dissonant. I have found out more than anything else having a narcissistic parent can really make a child grow up having low self esteem, performing to be someone else to get love and approval, not honoring one's boundaries and needs because they've been conditioned to live that way by a narcissistic parent.

[HarshitaSrivastava]

Watched this one twice. I’ll come back to it again. That’s how amazing it is ♥️

[olenkagamboadjb]

I was in relationship for over 4 years and I even got married. But I knew I was accepting the bare minimum. I allowed it because I was in love and hoped he would change. He improved but didn’t last for too long. I was so hurt but decided to end the relationship for my own sake. It hurt me but I’m so thankful I did because I feel so much better with myself. Now I know what I want and deserve. I’m gonna be that woman that a real man wants and needs. I’ll be the Queen to my King 🫶🏻

[allisonwolf]

Wow, your video resonated so much with me, you made me cry! My sense of self worth and self esteem has been pretty low lately, but hearing you change things from shoulds to musts made me realize I need to reevaluate how I am treating myself. And the "if this were my daughter" thinking really clicked with me as well. Great video as always ❤

[Dainty]

Thank you for your beautiful videos! I was listening to you with a warm smile on my face as being feminine by nature, I’ve been always living a soft, elegant, well-balanced life, and you very skillfully put into words my thoughts and feelings on the topic of femininity. ❤️

[jocelynmendez]

I just found you on YouTube, and glad I have. I really like how you put things into perspective. The part I enjoyed most of this video is when you were like, go back to your 8-year-old self and think would you want her being friends with those girls who talk behind her back. Absolutely not, your teenage daughter hanging with that boy that just invites her over for Netflix and chill, like ew no, what a waste of time. That helped me look at certain things in such a different way. Thanks!

[Bermudablue]

I love how you take spiritual concepts I align with and ground them on a real-world level. You are so beautiful! Thank you!!

[EFTTappingwithHeatherAmbler]

I love your emphasis on the power of the subconscious mind to determine what we experience in life.

[gabbriellejacobs]

Fabulous stuff as usual. Wonderful advice, Jillz. Needed to hear this on a personal note. Loving yourself and deaming yourself worthy of good things is a struggle for a lot of us. Love this channel.

[iannicollette]

I cried this whole video. I'm so uncomfortable being comfortable. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO

[dewshine]

This is one of your best videos! The MUST concept is awesome and what would u tell ur daughter is brilliant 👍 Much love!❤