8 Ways To Get Over A Break Up

"I know I should be fine, so now it's time to start being fine."

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[brianawiggins]

I just found out that my boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on me with multiple girls while we live together.
I know it’ll take a while to heal but this video is giving me great advice.

[skippycat]

"go live your life, it's going to be ok honey"
needed that

[TheBriBoat]

My boyfriend broke up with 4 months ago. Time does heal and I’m very grateful for that, but sometimes it feels like it happened just yesterday.

[SmurfyJCK]

You’ll get through this... I promise 💜✨

[mybusylife]

I love how they didn't try to force their ideas on each other when they had different opinions. Just very respectful and understanding. Thank you for that.

[SmithyZ]

1:16 It's Okay to be sad.
1:34 Exercise to help distract yourself
2:06 Meditate on the relationship
2:41 Take good care of your body.
3:09 Block or unfriend them on social media
3:49 Talk to friends and family
4:38 Pamper yourself
5:17 Allow yourself to love again

[kidney]

It is ok to be sad. Our love for other people is the reflection of who we are and what kind of love we want to receive most.❤️

[vaassen]

When you’ve been single your whole life so you don’t know this type of pain, LOOONG LIVE THE SINGLE LIFEE

[souldy]

Is Buzzfeed monitoring my life or something?...cuz this is the video I needed at the right time.

[jordanspringer]

It is so much harder when it's your first time feeling heart broken, because you have not yet realized that there is indeed light at the end of the tunnel. And as much as you're hurting now, you're also healing and learning to be happy again and enjoy life without that special person, just as you did before you met them. It just recently happened to me, and although I am really hurting right now, this is not my first time feeling this way and I know that I will be happy once again in the near future. For now, it's okay to not be okay.

[kenmakozume]

The last time I had my heart broken: last night 😭😭😥

[kiacatherine]

I feel like this also works for a toxic/ falling out friendship as well

[GlowingFirefly]

We weren’t together even a month before he said he needed to get better mentally. I respected that. I promised I would be here when he was ready for a relationship. We would still text and hang out as if we were dating, this went on for several months. He would say he loves me, call me Mrs. (Enter his last name here), he always said he was so excited for the day he was finally ready because what he felt for me was so real and so genuine. Last night he said he found someone else, that he had feelings for a different girl and that he wasn’t interested in being romantic ever again. He said we can still be friends but he just likes this girl more than me. I feel like my heart was just ripped out. I waited for nothing. I’m currently trying not to be sad but ohhhh boy

[neelm]

"I will write down the Pro's and the Cons of this relationship" Damn this is starting to sound like an Language Arts assignment.

[YeonLee]

I’ve been keeping myself busy by picking up a new hobby (guitar), part time job, volunteer, work out... I’m doing okay now but then there are days I feel as all the pains come back and hit me hard again... that’s what hurt the most, when you still love them deeply but have to let them go for their own good 😔

[sheleko]

Just give your self a time. You will be okay.

[GTTwincam]

Does Nate get his hair done at the same place as lord Farquad?

[tsts]

He’s so into listening to others and is so respectful! What a great role model

[victoriaa]

Dont worry, when I finally get my first boyfriend and breakup with him two weeks later at around the age of 50, I will come looking for this video😂😭😭 I'm 20 btw

[TheJazzMan]

Nearly 2 months after a breakup and I found myself doing most of the things recommended in this video. It really does help!