Frank James INFJ Compilation / Mash-up

[ahibx]

"Just tell me who u want me to be, and I'll be that" this couldn't get any more relatable lol.

[ilavalolipop]

The worst part of being INFJ is that you overthink everything, write a novel in your head of potential outcomes, make a plan with 3 back up contingency plans— but while you were hyperfixating on that you didn’t notice that the house was already burning down around you and now something is permanently fucked up. 🙃 Here comes the self blame and soul crushing regrets. Woohoo.

[elisabethball]

Dude I relate so hard. That was a perfect representation of my life. Constant imposter syndrome, trying to fix people, not voicing my own needs because I don’t want to be an inconvenience and I don’t understand them anyway, excessively awkward and clumsy… I don’t understand people who want to be an INFJ. It’s a really tough life.

[onaleet]

“I’m freaking out on the inside” MY LIFE. Everyone always describes me as “chill & calm.” NO… you don’t understand…. There’s Outside me and Inside me and they don’t coexist lol

[Justjewels]

Oh man, I’ve been so critical of myself, finding out I’m an INFJ has been the best thing ever…. Also hilariously refreshing

[ShiriTheQueen]

“Is this supposed to be funny… Or depressing?” LOL

[thaoinchicago]

As an INFJ, this video is depressingly funny! And, I’m fine. Totally! Not screaming inside at all!

[OreadNYC]

And I thought it was rough being an INFP...! It sounds as if being an INFJ is something like a "new and improved" INFP with even *more* anxiety and guilt...

[jg]

The "overly sensitive people pleaser" skit in particular made me laugh... then cry. Yup, I can totally relate.

[amalia]

I see the potential, she just needs someone to save her from herself...
This hits soo hard 😂

[luciamazzieri]

James forgot to add the part where infj attract narcissistic people as toxic friends and partners, good thing I know how to be on my own 😊

[Demi.dmi]

Taking care of others at the expense of myself IS the punchline

[missalien]

Ah, I'm an INFP and I love you INFJs. My favourite type. 🥰🥰🥰
Lots of love for you! 💚💚💚

[melissataylor]

My husband and I have been together 11 years and he still is completely confused by me. Thank you for putting together this documentary presentation for him!🤣🤣🤣

[juliel.]

Pretty accurate. Right now I am trying to get out of the vicious circle of helping everyone around me even at my own expense. The best part is I feel like a villain just because I'm finally starting to set healthy boundaries, being an infj is really annoying :(

[reveygray]

Literally me crying and laughing at the same time XD

[jessicanicholls]

Hence why I hide at home... still have massive internal chatter, but without trying to micromanage the emotional environment for others. Way less exhausting.

[bananachachen]

IM SCREAMING ‘THE INTERVIEW’ WAS TOO REAL

[atomictheory]

Ending destroyed my soul because it was horrendously accurate.

[janethammond]

Such an accurate summary...especially imposter syndrome and everything that goes with it! Sometimes we think it's only us that feels that way...it helps to know that it's just part of being an INFJ. The only thing on the list that didn't quite fit was the accepting all invitations...as an introvert I devise ways to NOT have to attend social events! Unless it's from a loved one, then I'm racked with guilt if I don't go. 😮😮