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[vampire-sympathizer]

Thanks Dasia. ❤ I picked up roller skating a few months ago after going through something really traumatic earlier this year and it's one of the few things keeping me going, to see myself grow and learn and be proud of something is really something beautiful, despite the hurt and shame I'm coping with. I'm self taught and have used a lot of your videos to help me learn. This video had me in tears with how validating it is for my current state of mind. True true true. Ilu girl. Stay well 💕

[catlady]

“The one who broke you, cannot heal you” 💯😮‍💨

[aliciaknott]

Powerful words, when heard and accepted can be impactful.

[bennu]

I’m not disagreeing with you. But especially for cases like gaslighting, hearing an “I’m sorry” does help validate your feelings. Especially for something like gaslighting that’s so confusing to navigate sometimes. It’s just good to have that confirmation that yes your feelings were hurt and it makes sense that you were hurt. It is VERY important to say sorry when you hurt someone. But not everyone is going to do that like you said. And especially not someone who brainwashed you to think that you’re the problem. They ain’t gonna apologize

Ultimately it is up to you to pick up the pieces of your broken heart and put them back together again. Maybe someone else comes in your life that will help you do so. It’s still important to apologize to the people you hurt. But that won’t always be the case. Getting validation does help you move on and heal. Still it’s up to you to focus on your healing and be around people who don’t make it their day job to tare you down

I’m definitely not saying you’re wrong. What you’re saying is healthy. However the power of a genuine apology is still monumental to help you heal. You’re not always gonna hear it. Most of the time you won’t actually. It’s still important to set healthy boundaries to know when your line has been crossed. That you deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. And if someone messes with that, fuck them

[tamanebp]

These are hard words for me to hear but I know it's true. I've been trying to let go of a need for closure for a long time after my wife of 15 years cheated on me and married the other person a month after our divorce was done. I'm getting closer to some sort of peace little by little.

[hikariMoth]

Ooo i resonated with this, where is the audio from ? it looks like youre having such a relaxed skate session 😌

[darrylmartin]

Who's got lessons in Columbia SC ????

[JuanLopez-nwxj]

True and only God can heal that pain and take that person out of your life who doesn't truly appreciate you nor honors God and you are beautiful may God bless you and your family and Jesus Christ loves you and may the Holy Spirit guide you ✝️😇❤️🙏