You'll Get the 'I'm Sorry' when you STOP CARING! #narcissisticabuserecoverycoach

I hate to break it to you, but if you're sitting around waiting for them to own it... you're wasting your time!

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[jamieseiple]

Hopefully a person can heal and grow enough to recognize getting an apology from a narc is worthless.

[tikax]

Strongly agree! I think it’s because your energy changes and you move on from it !

[ddgladiva]

Yes! Once you become unbothered by them & could care less what they do, it’s truly a great feeling! It’s like a magic switch went off or something

[Connorx]

Your channel really helped me get over something really bad. Thank you.

I hope you yourself are doing great. Wishing the best upon you.

[n-joylife]

They just say it to hook you back in energetically. So they don't even mean it, but they lost the energetic coard they had with you when you lost feelings for them. It's a form of control. 😢 Still the only way to go is going and staying no contact, whatever they will say to you or anyone else. ❤🙏🏽🌟

[johannbarker]

Spot on. And that part about most people not owning what they did is something that needed to be said.

[simplyauthentic]

The apology is similar to validation. It doesn't change anything when you finally get it. It doesn't change who that toxic person is nor does it change what they did to you. Stephanie is right.

[Jambenlaya]

💯 forgiveness isn’t for the other person; forgiveness is a Gift that you give to yourself. ❤🎁

[amygerstle]

Apologies don't mean anything if behavior doesn't change

[Dreygo]

So glad i found your channel, your content helped me through some dark times

[eglesankari]

That’s so right. I can recognise every single thing you say in your videos, my only wish is that I wish I recognised the signs earlier before I felt completely insecure and defeated. 15 years later and I still feel disgusted from that relationship from time to time.

[goldenlifelove]

I got a bunch of "I'm sorry's" and "I'm sorry I hurt you" during the sudden breakup, but never the truth. After 8 months of healing, I realize the apology never mattered. I just wanted to be treated right, told the truth & not lied to, manipulated & used for a big portion of our relationship.

[sanjaypaul]

I stay grateful and just work on my own life.❤. Everyone is on their own journey.

[DartmoorPaul]

Wow, this is the point I reached after therapy session this week and yes, it’s taken years. My mum is still a wicked, evil narc but it no longer gets to me this week and I have to take that feeling, bottle it and move forwards. First time this feeling has happened though. Your channel has been HUGE through my therapy. Thank you ❤

[inspiredx]

That's the progress. Great point.

[SergMilli]

Thank you for this. I needed that today.

[ChaiTogether]

Amen, so good! ❤😊 Would love to know in what ways you gave yourself that recognition!

[skevin]

My brother got his after 20 years.
I've been waiting for 2 years.

[Anonymous-zys]

That is so true when I literally told my boyfriend that it was over with I’ve been with him since I was 15 I am 50 years old so basically he’s my husband without papers. Dog papers is what I call them. That’s what my mother still with me found out, some savory things confronted him try to make it seem like it was my fault because I was being nosy only because he got caught came to my room and told me where he was going. I couldn’t understand why told him he never told me before where he was going, when I ask him, he said it was none of my business. I’m not his mother but now he’s actually telling me he’s going I don’t fucking care anymore but what you wanna go do what you wanna do spend your money on who you wanna spend it. Come home whenever you wanna come home at this point I don’t even fucking care now he’s kissing my fucking ass but I don’t care.

[noulez]

thank you, i had to listen tou your post again and again. it hit me in a good way. i am not there yet. but always help me on my healing journey. 🥰