What Is It About You That Ticks Off A Narcissist?

Dr. Les Carter is a best selling author and therapist who has semi-retired to Waco, TX. For 40+ years he maintained a counseling practice in Dallas, conducting more than 65,000 therapy sessions and many workshops and seminars. He specializes in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder. Since creating his YouTube channel, his videos have received more than 115 million views.

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[rosieE]

They are ticked off too if they think you are happier than they are.

[rllght]

Narcissists are imprisoned by their internal chaos, yet we are to suffer for their cowardice and weakness.

[kristahackleylmt]

What aren't they ticked off about? They are jealous of everyone, anything. Like little 2-3 year olds, where everything is about them.

[MarkLupson-itxu]

Everytime I listen to this guy my life gets better.

[IzabelaWaniek-ix]

Spot on. Narcisists are imprisoned by their own internal chaos and are ticked off by love, goodness, truth and peace. Thank you dr Carter ❤

[StillAwakeAwareDiscerning]

My light triggers their demons. They hate me because I am and because they are not me. I don’t mean that in an ego way, but as an objective truth.

[BaraSchmidt]

What ticks THEM off?
Everything! Yeah, that ain't Healthy!!

[JenGable-Justeson]

They suffer from childish malignant jealousy, and if they actually went through what others have gone through, they would fold like a house of cards....

[a.wolfgangcrowe]

Loving yourself is one thing that a narcissist cannot give you. Peace be with you.

[StoneWaterGlass]

They hate that you can be a real person, and that they can not

[Aseeyah-vtkl]

They are ticked off due to you merely existing in peace.

[rosepyatt]

They're unhappy because we are sweet.

[Debbie-eg]

I would add that they are jealous easily as well. If you have a nicer house, greater favour with others, more friends, and ticked off of you don't agree with them or praise them for being "wonderful". You name it. Very sad. 😔

[caroleminke]

Authenticity is like a cross, garlic or light to a narcissist

[michelepascoe]

They love to see you writhing in sorrow, humiliation and confusion, but they're still ticked off with you.

[Artlover]

They are ticked by your capacity to be happy easily. They need grandiosity to be happy while your happiness is internal.

[patriciahilburn]

Their jealous, petty, passive-aggressive, hold grudges, unforgiving, raging, judging and just mean.

[pattiewoodall]

The day my ex said "You love yourself too much" I finally realized I was dealing with a mental case...and that he had failed his mission. 😊

[LaFloridaHemingway]

You are correct. They are unhappy with their own life and sadly jealous of their target's life. If they would spend their energy on improving their own life instead of attacking us and ours, they may achieve their own happiness. Very sad.

[dailyequanimity]

So true, Dr. C, and I guess we could say they are like “ticks” and something we don’t want near us. 😂