He doesn’t care about you.The narcissist in your life doesn’t care about you..

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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

Platforms I am on:

[cassiebennet]

It's a hard pill to swallow, but I'd rather believe the uncomfortable truth than a comfortable lie.

[ItsSoarTime]

AT LAST!!!! I'M NO MORE NO MORE I'M I ACTUALLY HANDLED HEARING HIM SAY "THE NARCISSIST DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU" WITHOUT...FEELING HURT AND dude didn't care. ok. THANKFULLY, I CARED!!!! ABOUT BEFORE I STILL CARE ABOUT ME after my two-week HORROR SHOW around

the toaster analogy ONLY STRENGTHENED ME

i NEEDED to hear it to heal!!!!
i'm grateful for THIS TYPE OF RAW DELIVERY OF THE
i'm
PEACE!!!!

[shenika]

Once you come to grips that they did not care, that’s when you can truly be free and live your life! I’m so glad I did. Thank you for all your work.

[crystalH]

Why do I find this so hard to believe I’ve been married 16 years to what I just realize has been an narcissistic abusive relationship, but from what has been told to me, I’m the most important thing in his life he does everything for me ect.. it’s hard to believe that’s all lies coming out of his mouth..

[danablake]

MY pride brought me into this current and my last marriage with the narcissist. I have long believed I could FIX people. I have what you NEED!!! I don’t and I never will. I only wish I had realized this many, many years ago. I don’t deserve the abuse and they don’t deserve to be unaccepted for what they were. I now know to allow people to be however they choose to be and to remove myself and my opinion from the equation when I find a relationship with them against my core values. It was and is a doomed situation.

[Sherrilful]

Thank you for your honesty! I appreciate you using your healing to help others! Much respect to you!

[cassiebennet]

Wow this was a good one Ben. You nailed it. Their image is the only thing that matters to them.

[pjmrees]

Yup, 100%. I hit him in the divorce with a big surprise... he filed for divorce in irreconcilable differences to make himself look good. I countered with adultery and abuse at the last minute surprise Narc! He was ticked off and had to pay for the private investigator for girlfriend #1, 2 and 3

[dclarke]

Noted! Thank you for setting people like me free! 🙏

[kfluhx]

Weird... I've always understood your toaster metaphor as an analogy for being used as a tool for supply. Somehow the way you phrased it this time unlocked a deeper understanding to my situation that had me type up a multi paragraph comment I deleted bc it's too much 🤦 I cut and pasted into a journal for myself instead 😅

Anyway, now you have me thinking about where the toaster is stored and how I was ultimately selected for discard when I refused to let him paint my "toaster/supply" hot pink 🤣 Thanks! ❤️‍🔥😎

[DahliaBrynn]

Told my ex not long before I left that I felt like nothing more than a hole to him. Ooooh was he ever offended 🙄 but the reality is he never cared about me unless I could provide as much sex as possible and he didn't have to actually take care of the kids.

[bestdeals]

if they are in denial and not aware, how can they make a choice to change?

[lilmamaify]

Dm trapped freedom. 12 year marriage. Physical went from a swimming pool to mental and emotional abuse to wear disconnected from my whole family friends

[meloneymoore]

Thank you for pointing this out ❤❤❤-Xclusyph Icon

[jo-annewilson]

Are narcissists born that way or is it a learned behaviour?

[TrumanStalls]

Do you care about your wife and kids? It’s a real question. I’m just trying to understand if it’s possible for a narcissist like yourself, to care.