Don't Wait, Create the Thing You Want | Acceptance, Rejection, and Contro

You can CREATE the thing you want in your life 💎, instead of waiting for it to come to you 🌋

My BIG DESIRE is acceptance. That magical feeling when someone or something embraces you the way you are, believes in you, and doesn’t want to drastically change you to meet their needs.

In fact, there’s a continuum I use to interpret all things: “Is this [insert thing] trying to control me, reject me, or ACCEPT me.” Even a tree, which is only conscious of you when you’re on mushrooms, seems to ACCEPT. My best friends ACCEPT me. On the other hand, a boss or a partner might be trying to control me, and a potential client might be rejecting me. I have strategies for dealing with all of these three scenarios, but they turn me into a pinball if I’m focused on them, and I forget who I am.

What I discovered, was that I could just create the ACCEPTANCE I wanted to get from others. I could accept me, and then accept them, even if they were controlling or rejecting. I could ride the wave of each situation rather than trying to paddle against it.

If you figure out what you want in life, and how it colors your reality, it makes a lot of sense to focus on creating that thing on your own, instead of waiting. If it’s friendship, be a friend and reach out to others. If it’s money, learn how to create value yourself. If it’s a meaningful life, find the meaning in everything.

What do YOU want the most? How could you create some of it today?

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Remember to lead with the emotion of the dream fulfilled for it is the universe that composes around the heart and not the other way ❤😊❤😊❤😊