Want to be Successful? Be Delusional

Have you ever met someone who had both a raging sense of entitlement and delusional levels of confidence - who get everything they want. In the meantime, you’re questioning if you’re good enough at your job, ready for the next level, and constantly reality checking yourself about the lifestyle you deserve to live.

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[SP-ltxr]

Exactly, when I started convincing myself 'why I could' do the job and not why I couldn't, I started making connections as to why my experience was relevant, which in turn has given me the confidence to apply.

[jahjah]

I was just telling my sister yesterday that I want to practice being more delusional. Delusional people seem to have a better life lol.

[knowledgeisthepower]

“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.” —Charles Bukowski.

[Catcatcathat]

Since I started being delulu about my own skills and achievements, some people started being jealous of me even though I wasn’t achieving that much. I just realized that I was faking it while I was making it, and people around me actually believed that I’m better/more competent than them. It’s crazy

[siobahnhurley]

In many ways, this also explains high school clicks. The queen bee is also delusionally confident they are all that. Everyone is drawn to them, even if you hate them.

[micampbellart]

I love to paint, and thought I'll share it online when I'm good enough, yet i saw artist on the same caliber as mine proudly show their artwork, and sell it at prices that got me choke on m coffee... and I asked myself, "What do they have that I don't? I can paint that! And I hit me, they believe in themselves enough to proudly share it. So I'm starting to be delulu, and sure enough, I had commissions requests, and I am loving it! I still have to work on my skills, but I decided not to wait to be "there" cause I might never get there if I don't push myself!

[shoshanakirya-ziraba]

Break every big goal into 10 small steps. Only look at the step that is next.
Can you do this one step? Yes!

[Hamyhamster]

She’s very right. I was super dululu during covid and basically made an 180 on my career. Turns out I’m good at this new thing and loves it.

That said, if I wasn’t delulu…I’d probably stay put at my old job with no growth lol

[mariavic]

I used to be delulu. Coming from a middle income family and a poor country, I used to believe I could travel the world. Not even being the best student, I got 2 scholarships (one at 16 and other at 18) and I was able to travel to Europe and Asia.
Somewhat in some stage of my life i became the total opposite. I'm not negative but I'm "realistic". I believe that the risk of having that much self-confidence is that when you start to fail, you fall to the conclusion that everything you tought about yourself was wrong and you were wrong to dream above your expectations. That you must not dream too high because you fall harder. I know this is not a good mentality, but it's so hard to get out of there! Especially when your material situation tells you the opposite 😢

[Inkironnrum]

Me going delulu: I’m going to be a successful writer and filmmaker. My goals to become that I am working towards has zero impact or anything to do with my current job.

The toxicity in my workplace is bombarded by those with unchecked egos. I have coping skills to skate through each shift, however, my patience is running thin as of late.

Am in a good place now, which has a potential to make my writing and filmmaking process full time. In the meantime, I will continue to project positive energy throughout my work day, knowing that my days to work on making my dreams come true are nearer.

[kaunainkhan]

when you said "Being delulu about you you" I subscribed 😂

[ZJDB]

You just convinced me to apply for a position I had sort of given up on. There’s no reason for me to give up, really. I have what I need to be hired. I’m going to just do it

[JaCaraKM]

I have been a delulu type person for a couple of decades now. I agree with everything you said about having self belief and then working towards your goals with all the self confidence and vision of your better self. I have achieved great things with this and hope to continue to achieve more of my goals and dreams. Right now I am delulu that I will be a successful, well paid artist and content creator. Is this my current reality? No, but I can see it and feel it and believe it will happen. You can call me delusional but I don’t care. I believe the universe has my back and that I can achieve almost anything I want. It is a happier way to exist.

[davidellis]

Good Morning Jennifer ! All my life, when I have had success I have visualized it. I might not actually have a ton of actual self confidence but I project it amongst my peers at work or & in general interactions. I try to be prepared to deal with calmly & firmly any situation. That preparation comes in handy. Have a wonderful day !

[eml]

This is hard to unpack like I have low self esteem and deep self hatred it's hard to be successful when I actually have a really great job. I struggle so much and it has a lot to do with my confidence. I really needed to see this

[jec]

I subscribed just bc of this video! Delulu all 2024

[Rayowag]

Dreaming big, not judging the part of you that dreams big, while counting your blessings in the present. Hard combo to stay on track with, but it does improve outlook on life. I always find it helpful to write down what success means to me every year or so, because that definition can change a lot too.

[krissywhiskiart]

I work for my self as an artist and lately I had been in a bit of a rut. I watched this video and it inspired me to start filling out grant and residency applications to give me more opportunities for growth. As a traditional artist I need to be more delusional. Thanks!

[camadams]

My confidence mainly stems from: If I botch this [date, job interview, opportunity, position, etc] there are 1 million targets around me to aim for next.

I frequently question my own competence & I view that as a good thing. It lets me reflect if Ive achieved success in a similar endeavor previously, remember what I did wrong last time, and evaluate what additional things I need to learn to succeed. Then I go for it. Knowing new opportunities are infinite, I readily give myself permission to fail. I don't want to fail, I will do my best not to fail, but if I do... oh well

[stoddard]

Excellent video. I see it more as a radical form of self-love. You love yourself so much that you end up infecting yourself with that positivity, and because of that, you also infect others with the same form of positivity. This can explain why these people are pleasant to be around - even if we look at them as kind of "delulu". If anything, we all need this delusion in our lives. We need to believe in ourselves.

Records are meant to be broken. Everyone says it's impossible until it's been made possible, then suddenly, everybody wants to achieve it. Break down the word impossible and it just means "I'm possible". So, when someone says it's impossible I'll just go "thank you, I know I'm possible" and smile.