7 Things You Should NEVER Say to an INFJ

Never say these things to an INFJ.

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[FrankJames]

❓What are other things that you should "never say" to an INFJ?

[annam]

Worst thing to say to an INFJ: Omg you’re still thinking about that?!

🥺

[laurenmonica]

The worst thing you could say to an INFJ:
“You’re too sensitive.”

[mb]

As someone who have got INFJ almost everytime I've taken mbti test, I've understood that we infjs care for our loved ones so much that we even are brave enough to stand for them but when we need such a support, no one stands for us. Life as INFJ is very lonely and we get misunderstood and judged for everything we do.

[alyannan]

“Don’t be so sensitive it’s not that deep.”

Yeah to INFJ it’s all deep.

[kenny-psxb]

i really hate being told i'm selfish when i'm always considering other people's opinions, likes and dislikes lol

[sheyna]

"You should be ashamed of yourself"
Infj: Dies of shame and thinking about it for the rest of their life.

[randomasshumanbeing]

“I don’t think I know who you really are”

Neither do I.

[shank.]

It’s very hard for me to open my mouth so when I feel like people don’t care about what I say by not paying attention to the conversation, trying to stop me half way, not listening to me until I finish the sentence etc., I will just stop talking immediately and automatically shift my head to somewhere else. I’d rather talk to myself than talking to someone who doesn’t truly care about me.

[KC-lisv]

I'm an infj and I don't like being blamed for something I did not do.

[Thicc]

Never tell an INFJ anything negative. Because if you do that they will remember that dreadful moment for the rest of their me

[directioner]

I’m an INFJ who grew up with a very critical and shaming father. He used to refer to my younger brother and I as Danny and Dora dumb shit. This has plagued me my entire life. I did very well in college and went on to obtain a Masters degree in Oceanography, but never believed I was worthy or smart enough. I am 60 years old and still hear my fathers voice in my head sometimes.

[darkspice]

You INFJ's are so pure and precious. Literal gold in my opinion. Never stop being kind my loves. You all have my heart. Even tho we might seem a bit insensitive and heartless at times just know we INTJ's appreciate you ❤

[geensjc]

“You’re so quiet”
“Speak up”
“Get involved”
“Come on, socialise”
“Consider coming out of your shell more”
“Why are you so quiet”
“You’re so fussy”
“You’re so picky”
“ Put yourself out there more”
“You need to be more confident”
“How are you going to have kids if you’re so anxious”
“Don’t be awkward”
“You’re a quiet achiever but we need to focus on your brand”

[avsambart]

Let me just add:

When people lie in front of INFJs and they think they're getting away with it. NO. We know you lied. We're just not pointing it out because you've just lost any and all respect and effort from us.

[karenreiter]

This is a great list for sure. I would also add: Don’t tell an INFJ that you are disappointed in them. We take all kinds of measures to prevent people from being disappointed in us. This statement would be truly hurtful to us.

[psalms-]

Ive been in a relationship where gaslighting was used on me, and it used to work really well on my personality type until I happened across a gaslighting infographic online and realized I was a victim. I think INFJ’s are very susceptible to being told theyre wrong, theyre misremembering or missing details or their judgement isn’t solid or theyre too emotional. When I finally woke up to the gaslighting I was forced to re-learn how to trust myself, my judgement, my logic, and my thought processes.

[MitchiiNeonz]

I feel like INFJs are both the most popular and least popular at the same time in school lol

[wutt]

I hate when I get ignored when I try to talk about something that is bothering me or just when someone acts uninterested in general when I share something about my personal life. I never talk to them about myself again.

[alexandrialeonora]

For the INFJs here, I have a question about when you were a child. Did you used to get bullied in school? Also, did you always stand up for your friends when someone tried to bully them, but find that no one stood up for you when you were the one getting bullied? (And you didn't stand up for yourself either, thus taking the bully's words to heart?) Just wondering if that's a common experience we INFJs share.