LET THEM JUDGE: Why You MUST Stop Caring What Others Think | Mel Robbins

Mel Robbins delivers a powerful message about the importance of focusing on yourself and letting go of what others think. She explains that you can’t control other people’s opinions, judgments, or negative thoughts, so there’s no point in trying. Instead, Mel encourages you to redirect that energy toward what truly matters: your thoughts about yourself and your actions that make you proud.

The key to confidence and happiness, Mel shares, is to focus on what you can control. By prioritizing your own self-respect and the steps you take every day to align with your values, you build a strong foundation of self-worth. When you know who you are and are proud of the way you live your life, the opinions of others lose their power over you.

This simple yet transformative advice is a reminder to stop giving energy to things outside your control. Let people think what they want and stay focused on your own journey. Your power lies in your actions, your mindset, and how you choose to show up every day.

[shiromithuraiaiyah]

I think if someone did wrong, speak your mind and let them think what they want. Speaking your mind give you peace.

[Jyfullydance]

Thank you! Your words are what I needed, much appreciated

[michellemooresings]

Well said. They're not worth our time anyway. There's too many great people out there to spend our lives with.

[Marcycat]

It's none of my business what others are thinking of me. 🎉❤😊

[twigsoflife]

Mel.. its good to hear this.. I am doing this since I was in my 30s😅.. love my peace..

[PSYCHDEGREE]

AMEN, I haven't cared since 2016, I keep it pushing 👍🏽👍🏽

[JackiAndrews]

I really need to do this! It’s hard when it’s your grown child. But I need to take my life back!!!

[bluered]

What if I think very negatively of myself then what ?

[abovethegrind]

This does not apply to people taking advantage or manipulating us.

[yesiltarla]

Strangely.. I never ever worried about what other people think of me!
Is there anything wrong with me?!

[melissaroot]

Do you give credit to the real creator of let them?

[N-li]

I disagree. You CAN control what others think about you, to some extent, by the impression you give to them. If you’re always late for example, a friend could judge you for being disrespectful/unorganised/be irritated. But if you change your behaviour and start being early - the same friend will think better of you.

So, you can control people’s thoughts and opinions of you to a degree. What you can’t do is make people like you, be your good friend etc. That requires a lot of effort, continuous effort. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.

[SomeOne-icp]

You see how many people you one of them everybody I control everybody’s brain nobody can control mine. That’s my choice the good things not a bad way. Nobody bother me. My nerve is really down to me. Take a lot to check my nerve up.

[SomeOne-icp]

You see how many people you one of them everybody I control everybody’s brain nobody can control mine. That’s my choice the good things not a bad way. Nobody bother me. My nerve is really down to me. Take a lot to check my nerve up.