Single Women Need To Hear This

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[peterwilliams]

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

[huhhuhhuh]

I’m going to push back here and say, do not date someone to whom you have no raw sexual attraction. You do not want to build a long term relationship with someone only to find out he/she didn’t find you attractive in the first place, and just settled for you.

[ManFinest]

Fellas 1 thing I learned is, make sure she’s attracted to you before you do anything. If not then whatever you do after has minuscule affection towards romance with her.

[asdax]

I'd rather be rejected directly than to be breadcrumbed into a possibility. I hate playing games, especially when they waste my time.

[Robbielazar]

Guys, if a girl is not excited to be around you. Leave her alone

[rico]

"They're not your type, they're your pattern."

Perfect reason to date outside your usual preference

[togotfury]

I actually hear this all the time. "Youre a great guy and i had a good time, but i just didnt feel a spark." Its one of the reasons i gave up on dating

[unappealingundesirable]

I'm male. I had a date with a woman named Michelle. We learned a little bit about each other beforehand. We seemed a great match, on paper. We both love cats. And, I found her attractive. Unfortunately, there was no spark, on our date. Nothing bad, but it suddenly felt "forced." I think that, we both put each other "up on a pedestal" beforehand, and both thinking "she/he could be the one!" With high expectations so soon, there's only one way to go: Down. Talking out of both sides of my mouth, I think we should have had a second date, where maybe we were both more "at ease" and more "naturally comfortable with each other." Unfortunately, the way courtship goes, you HAVE to have your A+ to AAA Game on the FIRST date, or she may be done with him. I think that if more people would give second and third dates a chance (working out the kinks, on both sides), more potential great relationships could come to be.

[johnnyapplesmith]

What I think she means is "While I typically find myself attracted to brunettes with long, flowing hair and striking features, I'm open to exploring a connection with a cheerful blonde who has a vibrant smile and curly locks.'" Someone can still be not your type, but attractive.

[familyengineering]

If a woman wants to serial date, she needs to be up front about her intentions and needs to pay her share of the date. Women will "date to date" just to get free meals and drinks. Its embarassing.

[Swearengen]

This "get back out there dating" is only justified if she's upfront with the guy that she's not looking for anything serious. It's pretty damn unfair to expect a guy to invest time, creativity, and possibly money on a woman who is using you just "to get back out there". Too many women will date for fun, knowing the guy is looking for a long term relationship potential. Dating sites for example, if a woman has "Short term" or "Haven't figured out my dating goals", it's a no from me. I won't be one of the many she's talking to or dating, nor will I waste my energy on a "maybe".

[RockNRecipes]

Absolutely, goes for both sexes. Took a chance after a first date I felt unclear about by asking her on a second, and that winded up leading to a really wonderful relationship. The more I got to know her, the more attracted I was. I call it “latent attraction.”

[Redpill_]

Women tend to love idealistically due to all the Disney movies /romantic comedies they grew up watching... remember ladies, your league is the guy who's willing to commit to you, not the one who's willing to sleep with you..

[facelessman]

I'm just not a flashy guy, not super active on Instagram, but I have a really amazing well rounded life, you just wouldn't get to know that off of a first impression. I've gotten rejected for 'being broke' because I drive a CLEAN, well kept economy car... it's just the first car that I ever bought.. I could afford whatever car I want. Sometimes I feel like modern dating really does lead to a lot of false negatives.

[RonaldGibson]

There have been a few women who I didn't think of "in that way". Then, they will tell a funny or interesting story, smile, or laugh, and suddenly attraction develops!

Hope that your week is going well, Courtney!

[rossdaveni]

That's all easy to say when you're not the one that has to pay for the date.

[wizeguy]

I have a friend who was dating a girl for a few weeks who said to him "I can just go into my DM's and replace you instantly" every time she found something to complain about. This included him trying to help her with breakfast and she accused him of thinking she can't do it herself.

[charlesrobitaille]

Lot of single women not much to offer today !
The biggest attribute for a women is that she hadn't had a long list of previous partners !
It tells a lot about there character!

[samnair]

Single women need to hear a lot of things.😂

[XaloGunner]

With the greatest amount of respect...this fairytale/Hollywood "spark" thing is a very womanly attribute. Of course some men too, but lots of women get tricked by movies or songs into thinking this is what you're supposed to feel when you meet "the one" and anything less means the guy is a dud.

Expectations ≠ reality with this mindset.