How to Show the User Library Folder in OS X Mavericks

OS X Mavericks makes the user ~/Library/ folder much easier to show and access, and you won't need to turn to any command line tricks to make it visible. This video accompanies the walkthrough detailed on OSXDaily:

With Mac OS X 10.9, all you need to do is visit the View Options preference menu from anywhere in the Finder, and check a box to make ~/Library visible again.

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My mac doesn't have the button that says "Show Library Folder" what or where can I go to get the folder?