NARCISSISTS FUTURE FAKING: Don't Buy Into the Illusion

Narcissists future faking technique may be the most powerful weapon they have because they're essentially using your dreams against you.

in this video, we explore the narcissists future faking and how to put it all behind us.

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*In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

[buyerbware]

Narcissist : Give me what I want NOW. I will give you what you want soon.. . I mean later... I said "later. . ." I never said I will give you that! You're selfish.

[MR-trfz]

So spot on, it's all fake, these people cannot love. Even if they do intend to marry you, it's not for the right reasons, they're only looking for a domestic servant, an emotional punchbag, an accountant, a bank, etc, in short they'll use you. The present is the only accurate indicator as to how the future will be!

[glink]

The saying "actions speak louder than words" is doubly true when dealing with narcissists.

[ellobo]

This should be mandatory high school curriculum. I was with a female sociopath for 10 years and married for 7. It is indescribable how much she tried to ruin my life and relationships in every way possible, while telling me I was her soul mate and that she loved me more than she had ever loved any man. I also saw the future faking ! I could write a book on all the evil things she did to me just for her entertainment. These people are truly demons among us. Educate yourself about narcissism and sociopathy and psychopathy. It will be one of the biggest favors you could ever do for yourself. Thanks for the great video !

[camilleharris]

Of all the lies he told the future faking was what hurt the most, they basically stand in the way of your dreams just to punish you. It is pure evil in my opinion and i wouldn't wish it on anyone. That is a good point about the goal post always moving, that is exactly what he was doing. Also outright sabotage in things i was trying to achieve on several occasions just to throw a wrench in what i was working on. It also keeps you stuck in the relationship because you feel close to achieving that dream with the person. Great video!

[yeahtbh.]

"marriage, babies, live together, soulmate, forever love you"
she said it all, then lied, cheated, said very vicious and callous things, lied about pregnancy / abortion, stole $1000 from me.
I ended up in hospital unable to walk from her toxicity, unable to walk for a week, massive breakdown.
took me 3 years to make a physical recovery.
she discarded me after 2 years probably thinking she had destroyed me / i was no longer useful.
funny thing is 3rd year when i didn't see her at all is when i made the recovery.
trust your gut instincts people, these maniacs will literally try to kill you.

[nadiacavallini]

Everything comes back into alignment once you dump the narc!

[jamie]

the future you wanted, you wanted it before you met them. they sold your plans to you, but it still belongs to you. you'll have your future in the alignment that the universe intends you to have and you already know it. it will be with someone much better and however much time you lost with the narc, you are already that much closer to the real eventuality!

[kayh]

My response all the time now is "I believe what you do not what you say" infuriates him. LOL

[LG-vhgs]

On our 5th month The Narc promised to get married with me in Australia and in the US. Not one materialized. He even booked a trip for our AUS trip, but before we turn one year, he’s been consisntently devaluating me and discarded me after our 1st year Anniversary.

These people are sick AF and they will make you believe you’re the crazy one, and they’re soooo evil that you will believe it.

Recovering is not easy, better stay the hell away from these people, and I can’t emphasize this enough, TRUST YOUR INTUITION.

[Airelda]

Yep my last “boyfriend” promised it all to me - never ending love, marriage and children. I was 41 and on the pathway to have a child as a single mother when we met. He convinced me to stop, saying “don’t worry darling - we will have a baby of our own.” He totally fooled me and I put my whole heart into our “relationship”. 18 months later I was suddenly and coldly dumped. He did a complete 180: “I never wanted marriage - I don’t think I ever want to be married. Kids? What are you talking about? No way!“

After he dumped me I realised I was too old - my own eggs could no longer make a baby :( After 3 rounds of IVF with my own eggs I was lucky enough to get pregnant with my precious, beautiful donor egg daughter. I gave birth to her at 45. She’s nine months old and just perfect! The baby I was always meant to have. But I don’t think I will ever seek out a relationship ever again. Burned and duped too many times.

[evemcfarland]

Realizing the relationship with a narc has been a complete fiction for over 2 decades really messed with my mind, but I know it is true.

[SilentFigure]

When you reckongnize "future faking" it is a great tool to tune out certain conversation lines while making distance.

[NHRebelsthoughts]

"It was never real to begin with" I did not know if I will ever get over that realization

[shawnadeyo]

It was in every aspect of my relationship. Mine kept me in such a state that I didn't even care about the future anymore. That's when I knew I had to get away from him. This reality of present tense is all we ever get from a narcissist. The future to them is right now.

[coraluru]

Yes. He told me when we first got together that if we were together a long time we’d get married. When marriage was my end goal I was so into whatever he wanted knowing we were working toward that. Kept moving the carrot and 5 years 10 years 12 years. No marriage. As time went on he kept saying he never said that etc. I know he would have done it just to keep me (he always came around last minute to what I wanted just as I was leaving just to keep me) but eventually I realized he’s not someone I want to be married to and it would have been hell! Got out and healing and now marriage doesn’t mean much to me. I found self love and that’s a gift that he never intended to give me but did. ☺️

[deborahfairbanks]

You're absolutely spot on, and wonderful. I gave 18 years of my life to my 3rd husband. Hoping for that "future" we slowly split apart year after year and now are divorced. It took another 14 years. But now at 68, I own my future. It's completely different from what I was dreaming for, but where there's life, there's hope...

[brethunteresq.]

I went thru 4.5 years of future promised plans that never materialized. The time frames kept getting punted even for vacations or family trips. This was so powerful for me to watch.

[CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I really like this one! I can feel some relief already. I am one happy cat.

[kikyaaakun]

Omg this is just in time.
I got hoovered these days and I picked up the call ytd. (Curiosity will kill me)
He said he’s sorry, and future faking the hell out of me. So obvious he was almost like a sales person, tried to sale me something he could never offer🙄
It was all lies and gaslight.
Although I didn’t buy it at all, I feel awful later on for gave him the supply.(being used again) So I blocked everything now.
No contact all the way is a must guys!!

And thank you for the video, it’s super accurate:)