I Let My Best Friend Down On His Wedding Day 😒💔 Reddit Stories

[papasmurf]

OP handled this extremely well. I was expecting to hear how OP ruined his best (?) friend's wedding. Glad he simply said, "no".

[blakec.aarens]

Never ceases to amaze me when folks do the bare minimum for you, yet turn around and expect your very best.

[mujtabaomar]

Shame on your best friend for not making an effort
It's your wedding day
It's an important day of your life

[riibuns]

absolute respect for you to turn down his request for you to be his best man. its actually crazy he asked you anyway, knowing how much he failed you as yours. you're doing yourself a huge favour saving your energy.

[maddmaestro]

At least you had the guts to say no. He wanted to but instead decided to ruin your special day. Really a crap friend.

[lynneshively]

You get what you give. He gave no respect and lost a friend.

[raspyraspberries]

My best friend was in love with love, had she lived, I know she would have been the best maid of honor in the world. I couldn't even fathom being chosen for my best friend's special day only for me to half ass it or be lazy about it.

Shame on the worst best man.

[Cookiechip]

my best friend made me her maid of honour and hearing this I am so sorry for this dude. Being asked to be the right hand on the most important day of someones life is one of the highest honours you can get as a friend. So you should show that on that day.

[Undersing]

What goes around comes around like bud found out that karma is a bish

[ktown]

Fair. You can still hold up your head with dignity.

[sirblack]

The friend was probably jealous. I have a former friend who was jealous that I met my now spouse. 25 years of friendship down the drain.

[ellydf]

No. He let YOU down. You refused to put more energy than he was willing to give.

[Seraphera]

I agree with the rest of the groomsmen you shouldn't have made drastic changes at the wedding but it was awesome when you decline your involvement to be his best man

[alicia]

Either jealousy or insecurities with that friend. With his actions, your seeing red flags.

[jamesbush]

My best freind got secretly married. Her freinds attended. On the make up ceremony I was told to be best man by his parents. My toast was 15 seconds.😂😂😮

[TerrificTetris]

Ok honestly I would be petty and accept the best man role BUT I’d do the exact same things he did when he was best man

[ancadiamant]

The perspective is clickbait because OP was the one with the wedding and after that the friend wanted OP to be at his wedding. This is the problem with a lot of videos with having clickbait perspectives since it goes in another direction.

[kkmn]

Honestly it's so great to see that OP declined the request. He shouldn't have to do more work for the "friend's" wedding than his "friend" did for him, and he most likely doesnt want to take revenge cuz it would be a pain for the other groomsmen and he's seen firsthand how irritating it is

[trisheales]

I would of gone to his wedding and acted slopyer than slopy

[broiamtellingyouthatyousuck]

I literally don't even know my friend's last name after 7 years of bromance