Having a baby with a narcissist

Do Narcissists change when you have a baby? Yes they absolutely do. What has your experience been? 

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[MomTube-iw]

All of the responsibility on you is right

[MomTube-iw]

Y'all better listen 😢😢😢😢 They are very jealous of their own children

[shaepayne]

Ooh girl, I'm glad you got away from that situation!

[PeacefulChaoticGoddess]

Yep. He started abusing me because he was jealous of the bond I have with my daughter. He's now coaching her to tell me she dislikes me with the help of his mother who's also a narcissist

[seanoverall]

And this gets worse when the child grows up and steals the attention, poetic justice

[whitneytravels]

I needed to hear this. I recently had a nightmare not a dream, that my toxic ex and I had a baby and we recently broke up. I was left alone during delivery. He also left me after I didn’t accept his silent treatment for 10 days, this is confirmation.

[iampisces]

Omg, yes, so much worse. He actually told me he was jealous of our kids. I'm glad I left

[fancyfeast]

Sadly, the more you forgive to try to make things work, the more respect they lose for you. It gets worse every time you come back! WTF! 🤬 There is no way out. You’ll die trying.

[JanetMitchell-yi]

Wow!! Just when I think the level of stupidity hits a high, your abuser went above and beyond. I am so glad you got away from the narcissist.😢

[fancyfeast]

I live with a covert narc. I work full-time. He always conceals what he’s watching on his iPad or phone. I always gave him his space but one day I was able to enter his iPad and saw another side of him I did not know. It’s bullshit when people tell you your partner should have privacy on computer or whatnot. What a joke. After seeing some images on his devices, now I know where his behavior and thinking stems from. When I confronted him, he made it seem like it’s no big deal. I cried. He was stoic. Showed no emotion. He ghosted me for weeks after that. I done. I’m grey rocking him now. I have never felt so much peace. I want to run away but I have three kids at home.

[TheArtistDolly]

This is why im scared to have children with the wrong guy xx

[Joe-brww]

We all deserve freedom of spirit from these individuals. I'm sorry you had to deal with that, you deserve much much better hot lady.

[freemysoul]

My ex "asked" me one night to cuddle the baby less loudly so he could get his sleep.

[emmadrummond]

Everytime I would confront him about his behaviour he would perceive it as a personal attack so his go to was to always attack my Parenting and tell me I don't care about my kids. When I'd ask him for help he'd tell me "you're the default parent you do it, it's your job!" But then proceed to give me unsolicited parental advice.

[LinMeulen]

Yeah they get indeed worse. Jelouse to at the baby. He looks not after his child. Does not care or do a thing.

[tryingsurvive]

Mine also told me that he was sensitive when I would touch my son's hair and caress his head. Sick!

[karenp]

Wow!! Such a difficult situation! I hope you’re not together the baby’s father anymore. As hard as it sounds it seems like like would be easier as a single mother

[rosieE]

So right on many fronts starting from pregnancy. They could get pretty childish. After birth you feel more helpless with need to care for your dear child and lower hours of work causing income to drop. They are not understanding of that. It's all about them and their immature needs. Then the control. They see your new responsibilities as vulnerabilities and opportunities to blackmail you for control. You are praying for the narcissist to magically turn into 10 babies so your life could be enjoyable!

[Shanana]

Narcs are stuck in childhood themselves, so it would be just like raising an adult baby. It was better for me to remain childless. A sad lonely life awaits me😢

[laurynCzech]

YEP.
Their levels of EVIL, go up 10000%
after:
1- The Wedding Day... literally the day after you're married!
2- When your Baby is born... starting the day you get home from the hospital!
↗️*Another fun fact with this one. The Affairs+Infidelity becomes Far Worse/More Frequent.

Oh Yes. It. Does.
Smeh...😒🖕🏼🤔🖕🏼🤮🖕🏼🤬🖕🏼😮‍💨

~Stay Strong, Loves. 🙏🏻
Leave... and start Healing.
Find Your Light again... it IS Still Within You.💜•°💛°•💜.
You are Not worthless, you're the beautiful pure light this world Needs. The "good & love" you think you've seen in him, IS NOT REAL.
He/She, are vampires... abusing, using, draining, and stealing Your Light.
Do Not Believe the heartless words they say. Nor believe the things you tell yourself while sad & alone, after days/weeks/months of their Silent treatment and withholding all love+affection... please, Leave beautiful one. 🙏🏻💜🙏🏻
If you do, someday You Will Understand. With Strength you'll reflect back on this dark, sad, alone, numb, painful, confused heartbreaking time, and it Will All Make Sense.
•This is Not. Your. Fault•
Nothing you keep trying to "fix" or "change" can/would make it last. Nor bring happiness as they made it seem in the beginning.
This is Not you, "needing to compromise" more.
You are Not expected to, "just keep Persevering in the hard times"... like I told myself almost every day for 11 years.
No, Love... you are being Abused. Abused in the most disturbing, insidious ways.
Find the Strength & Courage within, Leave them, and Never Look Back. 🤍💪🏼💜🙏🏻💜🫶🏼🤍
I believe in You.
May God, protect us all 🙏🏻that we be overcome with his undeniable love, strength, and light.❤️‍🩹🤍♥️
Lastly, I pray all Support, True Friendships, and for the Healers we so desperately need, be quickly guided to+surround each of us. 🌌
Getting preyed upon and abused by a NARC, Psychopath, or Sociopath. Means experiencing the destruction, torture, and eventual Death of your Souls light.
BUT... if you have the strength & courage to leave?
You Are Reborn, more Resilient than ever, a pillar of strength for other survivors. 🙏🏻💜🫶🏼💜🙏🏻
Your Growth, Your Light, Your Life, and so much more are Forever Changed, for the Better.

Love, Lauryn. 🙏🏻🫶🏼💜