Diagnosed Sociopath Dates a Woman with Borderline Personality Disorder #Shorts

Diagnosed sociopath (ASPD) Kanika Batra reveals her experience when dating a woman with borderline personality disorder.

#aspd #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #foryou #sociopath

[cguibcx]

Weird how a literal sociopath speaks more compassionately about people with BPD than the general population. Makes you think maybe we're not the fucked up ones after all. 😒😒

[sumbunniii]

She understands more than most when it comes to BPD 👑

[Laineyraider]

When a sociopath has more compassion for people with BPD than neurotypicals do

[katllaurado]

Fucking love this cluster b personality disorder solidarity

[votepurple]

The fact that someone with sociopathy which a neurotypical would assume would torture someone with bpd, is more accommodating, educated and sympathetic to someone with bpd than the average supposed neurotypical, really says a lot! A lot of people are just cold out of the pure choice of being an arsehole

[christopherarce]

I have BPD, thank you for speaking like this about us. It moved me to tears

[resurgam]

What a poisonous world (some of us) choose to live in. She's talking about kindness, understanding and warmth, and because people see the word 'sociopath' they give themselves a pass to show who they really are under their masks.

[claracatlady]

Someone once said to me:
“People with BPD are similar to children (stick with me) in the sense that they have trouble regulating their emotion and something really small might be very very important or upsetting to them. Now when it’s about children we accept this and accommodate it because we know they can’t help it but when it comes to people with BPD we are often insensitive despite it being the same thing.”

[Lea_and_Henry]

This is the most compassionate take on bpd that I’ve ever heard. This is an impossible thing to explain to a man.

Looking lovely & fresh faced today too 🙂

[JessieInTheSky]

I love the way you always love on people with BPD when you talk about it. Consistently protective and compassionate. Must be the fierce loyalty your fiancé was talking about you having. There is something special about being compassionate even though you might not feel the empathy.

[KitsunekoOwO]

As someone with BPD who is very self aware this is a really good description and advice☺️
People with BPD can be hard to handle sometimes but we will love your more than anyone

[galaxywanderer]

I have high functioning BPD and I wish I had heard this more supportive tone when I was low functioning.

[a.b.]

… instead of judging and calling them “crazy”.
You’re so sweet, in many ways.

[EllaEllaEh]

I think because she doesn’t experience guilt, shame, anxiety, etc. she can handle someone who is very emotional, because it won’t upset her. But at the same time, she is very understanding for someone who doesn’t feel and maybe understand those emotions.

[victimofpsychiatry]

She is way kinder to people with BPD then psychs are. Psychs will even take up insurance when they have BPD patients. At the ward, one of my ward friends had BPD, the nurses ganged up on her and tied her for no reason. They didn’t shower her the next day and they kept her tied for days and days. They didn’t care that her wrists were red and swollen, they just kept yelling at her and telling her “no one likes you” like seriously wtf. And when I went to console her, they yelled at me instead and threatened to tie me too. I hate psychs so much! They are pure evil and malicious.

[ChezzaOuttaNowhere]

I love my friends with BPD extra hard. I also don’t ride anyone else’s emotional waves so I’m fine in their storms and they know I’ll never abandon them. But they also have never lashed out at me because they don’t feel abandoned and harmed by me.

[barbellerina]

You are so gorgeous here. Also, not me being like “sounds like I should date a sociopath” 😂😂😂😂

[wafflegabba]

I have BPD and it's so refreshing to hear a take like this. We often get painted in a bad light, but the truth is, we literally cannot control the intense wave of fluctuating emotions that happen everyday. It's pretty exhausting. Speaking from my own experience, we tend to love too much and are capable of being highly empathetic towards others. I love how you make it sound fun to be around us, we're not easy to handle when we spiral, but this explanation is so humanizing and wholesome.

Thank you for this, it's the best advice for people dating people with BPD ❤️

[sunmoonstars]

I have BPD and this was damn good. My partner of 21 years is ASPD and he is the one who put in maximum effort to understand me, he completely lacks emotional empathy but has high cognitive empathy whereas I completely lack cognitive empathy and have high emotional empathy, there is alot of learning and growing on both parts. When I need emotional empathy I call a girlfriend, of all of my friends we have the best relationship, completely in tune yet non competitive because our funtions are so different. Neither of us are low functioning tho Ive had my moments 3x over the last decade and only 2 of those where with him. Funny he told me it turned him on but he doesnt take advantage of that, he is very mature and likes being with me when we are both in good head spaces.

[ericap]

As someone with BPD this made feel like someone finally understands what I’m going through. ❤ so much respect and love for Kanika