Swedes Want Women to Pay for Them on First Date 🇸🇪

Swedish men are not against women paying for them on the first date. And this is why...

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[chloeanastasia]

It’s a different culture, they have a different perspective. Their men don’t pay for the dates but they surely respect their women more than other parts of the world.

[JuJuBijoux]

I went on a date in Stockholm with a Swedish man and he was extremely gentlemanly, paid for everything, took me to a Swedish restaurant explained all the different food,
waited for my cab. Followed up as soon as we got home and picked me up The next from my apartment bought me dinner again and didn’t pressure me to do anything at all. It was one of the best most gender adhering dates I’ve ever had

[johngonzalez]

Happy Friday, Marina ❤! If the woman offers to pay on the first date and if everything is going well with her and I throughout the date, I would absolutely go on a second date with her. It's always a nice move

[theoblivionlord]

They respect women more in that regards

[Trekatterochjag]

I think us swedish women feel that we don't want to use men and for us the polite thing is to not take for granted that he is going to pay. It's not polite in our culture. We want to contribute. That is a big part of our culture. Then again if a man insists of paying he would propably be seen as generous but we don't take it for granted. Over all - this is not abig thing for us. Don't make it a big thing.

[CheburashkaGenovna]

Yeaahhh! AUTONOMY !! No female submission! 💪

[mattnobrega]

It's 50/50, but I guess it depends on the culture. We are all adults here

[ramonadraws]

I got me a part swedish/part finnish man. He is kind, got great humor, very strong and he likes the sauna. 🤣 I myself don’t like sauna that much, I melt and die… 😅

[DanikAl_GEIR]

ok guys i am going to sweden, equal rights=equals payings .

[eamari]

First dates should be free and a time to get to know one another...museum, park, beach, etc.

[AceAtheist]

i love smart educated independent women

[aimyah]

They seem defensive. Or starkly reject other types of gender roles

[ppa]

They don't want, that's a lie. But I don't think that I must always pay for women. I am rather greedy. Why should I pay for a stranger girl? But I don't want woman to pay from me, because I don't want to be a freeloader.

[MsMinoula]

I like this additude overall, I will argue that the one who invites is the one who pays. If swedish society is such that both men and women invite on first dates equally, then great. :)

[_MC]

One of the few truly emancipated countries

[RafelMoran-ogmr]

🤣they are so gassed about getting free meals Brevv

[tweet_safe]

Swedish women are by far the best women so it makes sense why their men respect them so much... feminist is not about having 100 of boyfriends, being loud and agressive.. gender equality is about working equally for the development of society..most swedish girls are beauty in and out...more reserved and they tend to balance working outside as well as being a wife and mother and yeah they can pay for themselves.. independent women..swedish people are amazing

[veronicapichardo]

I like traditional roles but i am dying breed

[malinaahmad]

God I love swedish men ❤❤❤❤❤❤😢 l am going to Sweden ❤❤❤❤❤l wish all men around the world like them 💗

[MCPunk]

BOOM! Since the woman is an adult, she's expected to be self-sufficient! My man just spoke the frigging gospel!