Matt & Abby Podcast | Matt Should Not Have Said That Out Loud!

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[awise]

Let’s be honest—Matt got married to have sex. Abby got married for love. Dude has the creepiest vibes.

[rebeccaplatt]

Listen, if your woman needs donuts after she just pushed your baby through her body- DRIVE AROUND UNTIL YOU FIND SOME!! Try harder.

[catsav]

Its great that abbys parents moved in but maybe Matt's should move in too so they can continue raising him.

[can-dance]

Maybe this is just me but does anyone else think Matt comes off as EXTREMELY fake. Something about him really rubs me the wrong way.

[nicolelavigna]

I hate the way he’s making fun of abby for crying and such. I really don’t care for this couple at all, but I feel so deeply for abby. Matt is a douche, but so are you for making fun of a mother struggling postpartum.

[itsamemuffins]

Honestly, Abby was speaking a lot of sense here. Postpartum blues don't care how much support you have. If I asked my husband for a bit of alone time to rest and he went to get coffee and didn't bring something back for me I would have been upset too. An oversupply really sucks. Donating milk is great but you're totally negating that the donor goes through pain, has to constantly pump, and risks mastitis. You really minimized legitimate struggles of postpartum mothers throughout this video.

[kierstenhale]

Abby made a lot of sense in this episode, I hate to say. Pregnancy is hard, birth is hard, breastfeeding is hard, and I could not imagine doing it with a partner that isn’t supportive.

[catsav]

I feel bad for abby because matt is immature. She is so sweet and has so much patience, bless her honestly.

[Randomtiffs]

Um thats creepy to think ur child breastfeeding is "hot". Noo no no no who thinks that is appropriate to say

[Onedaycloser]

Matt has always struck me as being incredibly immature. I hope he can get it together for the sake of his family

[priscilla]

Josh nooo.. baby blues doesnt at all have to do with the help or support you have. Its so internal and out of control that its hard to manage. I had help. I still found myself hiding in a locked bathroom crying in the fetal position and not knowing what provoked it. It comes over you like a wave and you just go through it. My husband walked in on me ones and freaked out and asked what happened!? Literally I just said, “ I just love her so much!” But with ugly snot face as if someone ran over my dog. 😂 the hormone drop in a woman’s body causes the baby blues. Outside factors can definitely add to the stress load but having 100 hands of support doesnt save you from that emotional part of post partum

[emilyneal]

He's asking her questions on purpose that he knows are going to make her cry on camera. It's awful.

[Alimarie]

I’m on Abby’s side with that fight. She just had a baby and was struggling and he needed to just let his ego go and be there for her and be supportive. He shouldn’t have left the hospital, leave the room walk the hall for a minute to cool down and then come back and support her however she needs.

[morgancurt]

As a breastfeeding mom to a 5.5 month old, I personally think Abby had every right to feel as she did when Matt literally said she was starving their son. In their video he said she was starving the kid to her and that is a big no no… I struggled with breastfeeding due to ties and when my daughter’s pediatrician said she wasn’t gaining weight fast enough, it was a hit in the gut. I broke down in front of the doctor. To go from feeling like you are enough for your child to be told you aren’t enough is devastating, also he is too ignorant to have a say so with breastfeeding. I worked mother/baby for over 5 years and baby’s tummy freshly after birth is only the size of a cherry, it slowly expands as your milk comes in. Colostrum is enough, your milk is enough. I don’t think Abby was trying to take a stab at moms who need to use formula, she has a goal, and she has every right to stick to it however much she wants or needs to. I have never used formula for my daughter, but that doesn’t mean I am shaming other moms who do. Breastfeeding is hard, hence why it’s called a journey, and isn’t for everyone, but I don’t think Abby was in the wrong with that. I DO think she was in the wrong for expecting Matt to know what she wanted without telling him exactly what she wanted. I would also like to add I agree whole heartedly that baby blues is a big part of the hormonal shift BUT is definitely more manageable if you have more support. With my first, my hubby had to go back to work the Monday after I delivered where as this last baby he stayed out 5 weeks and the effect of that was AMAZING for me!!

[Sydneyg]

Josh you need to talk about Matt’s “baby blues.” This was HUGE on the snark page. He stopped talking to Abby for like two days after coming home from the hospital.

[Stargazer]

You skipped the part in the podcast after Abby talked at 12:18 about her irrational fears, Matt said that when they were driving home from the hospital, he put the Tesla into self-driving mode so he could look back around into his newborn's rear facing carseat to check on him rather than pull over! Matt admitted that was probably the wrong thing to do but he did it anyway AND he admitted it on the podcast!

[sophiasouthern]

Abby if you’re reading this (or any new mom): you had every right to stand your ground during recovery. The fact that your husband wasn’t your biggest advocate in your choice to breastfeed speaks volumes, and he’s diminishing it by calling it a fight when in reality he stomped on your autonomy as the mother.
Your milk can take FIVE days to come in normally. It is not ever a risk for the baby to not be getting milk during those first few days. They lose weight, but they bulk up in the third trimester specifically for that reason -it’s why they come out chubby!
Ugh I’m so sorry she had that experience and it angers me that, as a second time parent Matt should have known better, yet he was completely ignorant about these things.

[andreyuh]

I swear when Matt comes out as gay it’s going to be a whole thing for them and no one will be surprised or care lol

[cierawilliams]

Abby is well spoken and is trying to get across to her husband the severity of how she felt in this whole situation. he dosent stop smiling or laughing the whole time. He down plays her feelings. She looks defeated. It’s sad.

[susank]

14:59 she said she wanted him to step out of the room and realise it wasn't about me right now, Abby is really going through it. Josh paused in the middle of it and got lost in his own snark.