5 Signs A Dismissive Avoidant Is Ready To Commit To A Relationship | Dismissive Avoidant Attachment

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Dismissive Avoidants are known to take a longer time to warm up to the idea of committing to a relationship. In this video, I'll talk about 5 signs that may let you know they might be ready to commit.

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[sshuteandrew]

My DA had me meet his friends in the first month of our relationship when he was still in hot pursuit of me. By month 6 he pulled away, shut down and broke it off. The first 6 months are no indication of their true ability to maintain a relationship.

[TiffanyNicholeCatley]

My current BF definitely leans DA and he had done all of these things from the beginning.🥰 He's become increasingly expressive and affectionate towards me over 9 months. I feel like I'm FA based off of how I present more anxious with an Avoidant and was more Avoidant with an anxious ex-husband. My main concern with my DA is that he avoids any conflict like the plague or he becomes completely triggered & frustrated during discussions. He's gotten slightly better and at least has agreed we'd do couples/marriage consueling as he sees us getting married.

[magicisreal]

My DA, who I’ve been dating for two years but who I’ve known for 15 years, had friends in from out of town this past weekend and we were all at his show. After he performed he hugged me and told me he was going to go hang out with them in the back on the patio. I said, “Would you please introduce me to them?” He said okay and took me back, where I met them and they clearly had never heard of me before and asked me how I know him. 🤦‍♀️

[roshalllambert]

Really like the point about having compassion for the other person and still setting boundaries in the relationship. I have told this to many people in break out rooms.

[GeorgideMarne]

3:32 Most of the time if a DA doesn't introduce you to their parent/s, maybe that's because they're completely toxic. Mark my words. They might do it to protect you, that should be taken into account. A DA does not just become avoidant cause his/her parents.were wonderful people, think about it. Same for sharing on the internet pictures of the relationship etc... there are "egg donors" out there who mock their children relationships or insert doubts or denigrate..

[ariadne]

I’ve been learning so much about myself with her videos as a DA… I was so blind to it

[emangrabogadi]

My ex DA did all of these! He has a beautiful soul.

[CuddleClaw.]

I asked my DA if I can drop off his bday gift in the next week or two. He told me we should go to breakfast and he’ll let me know when. A week went by and no mention of it, so I asked if I can drop off his gift this week (assuming he forgot or doesn’t care or changed his mind, and I was kinda over it and just wanted to get rid of the gift and move on), and he said “no, we’re going to breakfast, you choose, this or that day.” I was so surprised, I was like holy crap, he does actually want to see me. And it was really hot the way he phrased it. So we made plans a whole week in advance.

He’s also been keeping in touch better than he ever has been before. For every 2x I reach out, he responds at 1.5x. He’s even apologizing for things. And he shows me empathy and kindness.

But, I know he isn’t ready for a relationship beyond friendship. And may not ever be ready. And I’ve made peace with that.

[damianlebuda]

it is tricky one, because I'm dating DA, I respect her "space"(which is ok), she is very committed (she is very analitical) when she meets me. She loves supportiveness and acceptance. She's kind and charming.

[Bensaur]

Y'all this channel is spooky. I just tried to make plans to see a movie with a DA and he said no and then I was feeling bad about myself on the car ride home and then when I got home I open up YT and see this video, lol.

[johnlewis]

I was with the DA for 8 months. Things moved way too quick within the first month we were saying I love you and moved in together. It seemed like we were made for each other everything felt so right. But then I noticed the pushing away, the lack of affection, the lack of intimacy, it was very difficult. We would be laying in bed and I still feel like I was so alone, constantly on eggshells not knowing if she was in a good mood or a bad mood because she would never tell me anything. I absolutely adored her, and the breakup has been very difficult for me. It seems like it's no problem at all for her but I know deep down inside she's feeling the pain also.

[tucky]

2:30-3:00 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 wow, such a compassionate and great, helpful point! I love how your teachings help me feel confident and loving toward myself and others! Feels so healthy and right. Thank you!

[newyearsproject]

Another great video. Thank you. I’m an AP in a relationship with a DA. Can you please make a video on grief and the DA? It’s been a struggle to know how to be there for him with the passing of his father a year ago. He talks about him but hardly emotionally (they had a great relationship) and almost never what he’s feeling at the time.

[sophiafara]

As adults, we have choices, including returning back to ourselves.

[thoughtsideas]

I was seeing a textbook DA (who thought they were Securely Attached) for 4 months. It created tons of misunderstanding bc I was thinking a securely attached person who acts like this is not interested - Although he was adamant to the end that he cared for me.

In watching these videos, I realize he did show affection in most of the ways that DAs do, but he was really slow to talk about his family in any depth - even basic things - which was super confusing and yet another sign that he wasn’t interested.

Idk if I can date a DA again, or at least in the future I won’t ask men their attachment style - so far, 2 DAs I’ve dated thought they were SA and it caused MAJOR confusion for me around their levels of interest as compared to the other men I’ve dated who were FA or AP.

[Geekdom]

Working on getting a DA back after 2 years and its tough! I may consult with you personally Thais. But thanks for the video.

[barbarakrull]

Lived with my DA for 2 years. He didn't introduce me to his family. 🚩🚩🚩

[chamham]

Before I knew about attachment styles someone I liked opened up to me and I didn’t react like I should have.

[jeanjessmommysharlyn]

Ms. Thais Gibson, , I've noticed why for DA friendship are more important than being in a relationship and they take so much and longer time before they commit... others I've asked when they already got tired and walk away that's the time that a DA will tell what they feel...ahaha 😅🤦 Do you have any survey like how many years does most of the DA ready to be in a committed relationship?

[YourMoonShine]

I was dating some DA person that was showing all of these signs but after many months when I asked them if they are romantically interested in me, they said no. I walked away but I still don't understand this situation.