Inequality is the rule in relationships

Humans are only equal in the abstract.

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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

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[deutscherfischer]

Society has gone so far off the rails he’s getting paid to explain something my Grandfather already knew lol

[jp-beard]

The Dating market is the true test of social hierarchy

[avib]

Very simple, logical thought but articulated amazingly well. Great video as always. Keep it up Orion love your stuff.

[Mattheus]

Problems arise, though when you are committed to growing and rising higher but are with someone who isn’t. Who wants to coast, play the victim, demand you pour into them way more than they want to give you.

They will use shame, guilt, manipulation, criticism, emasculation, gaslighting to pull you down because they are jealous and envious and don’t like themselves.

So it didn’t work out. Not everyone is compatible. Move on with healing and growth. The world is full of abundance, find people who add to your life, reject drama.

[kimjong-du]

It's rather obvious and it's puzzling that this needs to be explained to anyone.

[Khan-rzqi]

Also, doc said this before, those “good traits” you worked so hard to cultivate are virtually useless in our modern world. Trust me, most women don’t care whether you’re “good” or not when you don’t meet their attractiveness scale. This is why I always tell the guys, working on your physique and staying groomed and sharp will bring you farrr better results then strictly being a “good man” will. Those traits were specifically in high demand because women were perpetually living in a state of need, therefore any good man would be enough. That’s no longer the case today, now it’s genetics—>money—>personality. Work on the first 2 and you’ll realize how irrelevant the last one is for acquiring women. I’m not telling you to be a jerk though, I’m telling you being a good dude ain’t enough, and the other two are more important.

[ScarredRomeo]

Yes, non-equality in attributes is an obvious reality. That’s why when equality is implied, it is contextually to rights and opportunity. The male/female relationship can never be equal because both bring to the table different things. It can only be complimentary and equitable.

[bryanhood]

This is brilliant! There is an effort in society to eliminate inequalities of all types, for example by saying that women can do anything a man can do and vice versa, but it is our inequalities that give each of us our unique talents and gifts, a great artist or chef has talents and abilities that are different than a brain surgeon, plumber or truck driver; we need all of these different people in society and the inequalities are what society values; uoi probably wouldn't want an great chef doing brain surgery even though he's good with a knife!

[WilliamMartinez-vqbn]

This dr is so real and spot on the devil is affiad. of him and his couch. Hes out here SMOKEING THE BEST IN HIS FIELD. HIS DEEP AND TRUE INSIGHTS ARE MIND SHATTERING AND INESCAPEPABLE. STRONG LOGIC, , ,

[kaydirling]

"Equal" means "equal before the law" and "with respect to human dignity." It has nothing to do with skills, social status, etc.

[lsporter]

His logic is undeniable. I would even say irrefutable (about this). Great video.

[KulwantSingh-xrsi]

When I discovered this man was a Persona fan my respect for him went up 1000x.

[JohnieKumar]

I found The Shadow Game of Attraction by Atruve and didn’t think much of it at first. But as I read, I realized how much we are never taught about attraction, influence, and power. It reveals why some men make women chase them effortlessly while others go unnoticed. Once you understand it, there’s no going back. Everything just clicks.

[bdtrap]

"Hey, <person>, question for you... all things being equal, would you rather choose <X> or <Y> option?" <<--- okay but the very question that you're asking means that all things are not equal.

[rajsel]

Hence why women DESIRE/WANT a man
TALLER, RICHER, WEALTHIER, HIGHER INCOME, MORE INTELLIGENCE, STRONGER

[doyourbest]

Decision making in a relationship without personal experience freezes a person to not make a mistake. Consider a therapist if you cannot get the answers elsewhere. The thing about therapy is the answer is now when you don’t have time or experience. Therapy is not just for when your life is in ruins and there has been a great loss. If you are going through a divorce or will go through one that is a life event that will by definition end badly for everyone. Life is short, so don’t stew and loose years and opportunities.

[whodefan]

It's a long-winded way of saying people discriminate; which is something we should all embrace about ourselves.

[LisaCulton]

We have equal rights as humans, but that doesn't mean that men are equal to women and vice versa. And children aren't equal to adults.

[lraoux]

For once, I’m not so sure that I agree. Looks, status, wealth are only the very base. Personality can trump all of those and how do you quantify that?

[VaronPlateando]

well... the major point that many (at least us.americ. native + ideologized speakers / thinkers) do seem to miss is 'equivalence' of complements and/or 'equivaluation' of differenceswere to be practised for any alike to make sense, from any observer concerned. 'equality' however would trace back whatever to ontological attributes of whatever things concerned. Whatever, though.