8 Negative Effects Of Having An Affair

Hi, my name Is Stacey, and I'm an infidelity coach. I take the same tools that changed my life after my affair and help you regain control over your thoughts emotions and life.
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My affair was a turning point for me in that I learned my life was spinning out of control and I didn't even realize it.
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Infidelity does not have to be the end, you can regain control over your emotions and begin to build the life God created for you to have.
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DISCLAIMER: The content in this video is intended for informational purposes only and should not be used in place of professional therapy.

I know the thoughts and plans I have for you says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11I know the thoughts and plans I have for you says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11

[staceychenevert]

The destructive effects of infidelity are not felt in the beginning but are sure to come.

[jonbanks]

You really give food for thought. Thanks for not being judgemental but just laying it out there.

[raduticu]

thank you Stacey im learning a lot from your videos /
God bless you

[sylvineyrolles]

Clear message, clear structure, easy to understand, thank you

[Adam-mzmt]

This was very helpful though.. helped me understand how she felt. I didn’t want to hurt her It just felt right to go with it and I didn’t understand it’s not a real or healthy relationship we had. I guess it was selfish of me and her to know she had a boyfriend and still made moves to advance etc. I justified it by saying things like “she’s the one in a relationship”. I always had positive intent when with her and the reason I wouldn’t commit to her when she brought up exclusivity is because she was cheating on her boyfriend with me and I thought why would i put myself in his position. My mom was manipulative and deceiving and that might be part of the reason I felt attracted. She reminded me of my ex too

[lakepond]

Cheaters don't have a core value, Otherwise they would not have cheated

[johnward]

This is important work that you are doing.

[niallsgirl]

Can you make a video for the affair partner who entered into the affair being single and broken hearted after the end of the affair. It’ll be helpful for the ones who are not married and single.

[yesfreak]

You wanted a big house=got it

You wanted kids=got it

When you always want more, it’s a sign of being broken! (Fix the trauma)

When they say “I don’t know myself “ ….they don’t want to be accountable for the events

This goes under “ I don’t remember, I forgot, I was drunk, they did it not me, it only happened once, we didn’t even do anything, it really didn’t mean anything”

The father figure in a child’s home. Will help correct a lot of nonsense.

Lying/Betrayal= Manifestation of other issues much deeper

[Adam-mzmt]

Nobody makes videos for the person who breaks up a marriage. The one who’s not in a relationship. We need healing too

[HoneyboyDes]

i lost my hobbies top. And the confusion is real

[Yemi]

Thank you Stacy. Does your husband really love you now and are you guys truly doing better. How many years is it after your affair? How long did he take before he started to trust you. What are the things you did? can you discuss the questions he had and how you responded. My affair got emotional n physical. Please talk about how much information you tell your partner that is healthy. When your partner is graciously accepting to continue the marraige but he is asking lots and lots of details.

[jeanrippeon]

How did you become an infidelity coach? I would be interested in becoming a coach. Any advice would be appreciated.

[denisships]

Hi Stacey! I'd like your advise in case I have 3 kids with my wife but she got pregnant of her affaire partner and we don't want to end the marriage.
How shall we navigate.... should we tell the truth and keep the AP with pension and visitation or push him aside and get the kid under my name and tell the truth later on cause the AP is from a different race with a heavy gene mark. My wife talked ro him and he told her that he likes to be involved but she tells me he is surely to flake

[simfora]

Is it okay if I email my story, because I have no one to turn too.

[simfora]

I have a question, can limerence make you question your former relationship

[CoolTheLover]

Why would an unfaithful wife believe that her ap knew them so well and were all they needed? For ex. They think that their ap knows them more or just as much their husband who they've been with for 9+ years.

[Freedom-hvvm]

After your affair ended how long did it take you to reconnect with your children?

[honey-feeney]

Why do people seek out affair partners ?

[raybon]

When a woman is having an affair or affair fog. Everyone else is grabage. And who ever is garbadge is like less than garbage.women get into an affair fog much deeper than men my guess.