Dumped: Will They Ever Get the Karma They Deserve? @SusanWinter

Have you been so hurt, burnt, and played that all you crave is retribution? Will your ex’s karma ever come back to haunt them?

Anurag writes, “Hi, Susan. My ex promised me a future together marriage and all the other stuff. Then she suddenly cheated on me with somebody else and left me for that somebody else. She used to convince me a lot for the future. She even cried that she can't live without me and told please don't ever leave. Yet I got cheated on and left. Please tell me would they ever get the karma? And how do I move on?”

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[TheLUCYCAT]

We don't always need to wish bad karma for people who have wronged us.Sometimes we have to be grateful they showed us who they really are.

[besse]

The old saying: The greatest revenge is to have a happy life without them.
Sounds like this man had a lucky escape from a player. The sooner you discover your partner has this level of emotional lies and manipulation, the sooner you can break free and have a happy life elsewhere. Learn, heal, and move on, she was a time-waster. Don't let her waste any more of your time.
❤

[jnc]

No one escapes bad karma. In my opinion, it’s inevitable. It can takes a long time before it strikes. Also, we all have good days and bad days, while others experience extreme peaks and valleys. Just know that the person that did you dirty will not escape unscathed. There’s always that invisible trip wire.

[TimeIdle]

The karma *is* playing in real time. It's them living with their miserable self at the moment.

[janep]

Wishing karma on someone means you’ve internalised anger. Anger isn’t good to hold onto. Diseases can manifest from fear and anger.
Wave them bye bye and be glad the person done you a favour by leaving your life.
The best revenge is living your best life and being happy ❤

[Sunshine-gmdc]

So true! I just want to forget and let go of them mentally and emotionally. I don't want anything to do with this person as if his existence doesn't matter anymore. I hope I get that mental peace. I have already moved on and doing great in my life. Just want that last mental attachment to break off from this person.

[fatcatontario]

Usually the pain someone causes is not personal...once you realize it things are much easier to forgive and let go of.

[bonniechampagne]

" you are NEVER SAFE!" boy does that
hit home with me!

[desertrose]

Another way is to embrace it, by silently transmuting all your pain and anger to transforming your life in all areas. Sometimes it takes a life event for us to realize we must focus on ourselves instead of relying on another broken person to fill our void. Throw away that crutch. Some transformation can only be done when alone.

[musictomyears]

Love this. The greatest karma is them not being with you, and not being able to have the capacity to see how amazing and worth it you are.

[JACKPOTTT]

When someone intentionally hurts you badly and breaks your heart the very same and even more will happen to then sooner or later... its a universal law of this planet which u can never escape from.Ive experienced it myself... may not be tomorrow or next week but you will pay for it and u gonna feel the very same anount of pain that u caused to somebody else ...

[judyb]

God takes care of it just let go. They will regret losing you. After they try to replace you and fail.

[MissSarahGM]

My ex dumped me because of his mental issues, OCD, ADHD, and attachment wounds he is not aware of. He chose to project onto me, and to see me as the cause of his unease. I don't wish him karma, he's the one who has to live with volatility, self-loathing, pushing away someone who really loved him.. I wish him healing. And for me too!

[debralondon]

In truth, you are lucky she left and you didn’t marry her. Lucky.

[lilitLun]

Susan you are like a little angel sitting on shoulders, whispering words of truths from the mind of reason. ❤

[wwt]

Hi Susan, I’ve spent so much time watching all of your videos because they have given me strength. But this video particularly hits home because I think about whether the other person gets what he deserves so often… and this video has given me so much hope and to reframe my thinking that I didn’t lose anything despite the other person ending things horribly

[carthy]

Yes i have felt that way before via karma etc, being forgotten by someone who i cant forget is the worst, vengence is futile really, great topic this vid helped thanks for posting

[youssoufcameroon]

I don't wish any karma to my ex. Leaving me was a relief from a huge financial burden, a great opportunity to move to a new country for better job and life.

[brego]

Thanks for the video and the topic. I thought this many times. And as you said, the best thing to happen to you was the fact that they left. It's hard sometimes but your own personal happiness outweighs anything they could have given to you.

[debbie]

Omg..I have always wondered about this. I don't believe in Karma as I have never witnessed it.All I believe in: is me. I have to pick up myself, dust myself off,
and take baby steps to move on and be happy again. Of course it hurts but that's part of the gamble of Love