Narcissistic Rage Types and What You're dealing With

I know it's a bit shaky, sorry for that. In this video, I examine the 4 narcissistic rage types and give you the critical information you need to identify them. The 4 types are: Aggressive Type, Suppressive/Silent Type, Passive-Aggressive Type, and Violent/Explosive Type. These rage types often come out of the individual having experienced a narcissistic wound.

Daniel J. Fox, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist in Texas, international speaker, and a multi-award winning author. He has been specializing in the treatment and assessment of individuals with personality disorders for over 15 years in the state and federal prison system, universities, and in private practice. His specialty areas include personality disorders, ethics, burnout prevention, and emotional intelligence.

He has published several articles in these areas and is the author of:

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[Sunny]

I’ve learned to NEVER challenge a narcissist. It’s a complete waste of time because they will Never change their minds no matter what proven facts are laid out before them. Good series Thank you Dr. Fox

[notsheepish]

Unbelievable how they can go into an explosive rage, then they go out and smoke a cigarette and come back in and act like nothing happened. 😒

[sunnylady]

I like the fact that you mention that the rage is not always screaming and loud fits but also very passive aggressive. This should be a wake up call for anyone because it is very obvious and it comes out of nowhere and from the smallest critique or hardly even a critique.

[palesarobyn]

They lack motivation to change because of lack of consequences they are never held accountable for the damage they cause

[Chris-unns]

Every time a narcissist gets around me I gratefully play this video and set my phone down and act like I'm busy doing nothing.

[KimPosteryournewpenpal]

The passive aggressive type really triggers me the most

[jewelmathewson]

I was with a diagnosed NPD for 11 years. At some of his most vulnerable moments, he would say that he always felt rage. "Not always the kind of rage that makes you hit a wall, but something always raged inside of him"
He was a silent treatment, shut down and leave type, but he was also passive aggressive, manipulative and a pathological liar.
He had no idea how cruel this behavior was. It was torture.

[TheCissero]

I heard narcissism only get worse with age.

[bluebird]

Really appreciate hearing from a doctor about NPD. I was married to a man with NPD for 18 years, had three children. He isolated me from family and home state, friends, took away the joy of Holidays and birthdays etc. He was always angry and irritated. The neighbors were scared of him. Things became worse and worse. I attempted to get help from pastors. One pastor had a degree in psychology. Always the same thing. No one told me what it was. Two said they would counsel me, but not him. Another one had no idea what I was trying to explain to him and said I sounded “needy, ” and that if there were no bruises, I was not being abused. Oy vey. I think narcissism has exploded today. This happened with my divorce in 1993. Very very grateful to have run across these helpful videos three or four years ago. To finally know what I was dealing with. Healing complete. These videos are extremely important as many people may not be able to find a counselor or pastor or psychiatrist who is knowledgeable about narcissistic personality disorder. Thank you.

[Noname-hiyg]

To any woman watching this, my narcissist cornered me for 2 hours last night until I slept with him and was incredibly aggressive, do not stay. I only gets worse ❤️

[joanofarc]

These personality disorders are difficult to get away from. They are everywhere. My entire family have a spectrum of each. Passive aggressive is the main with aggressive tendency when I stand up for myself. They are not loving in anyway. 1 sister “act” like she’s so nice because she gives money or gifts. Yet, she is passive and to me that’s manipulation. I’ve sent them different family videos for recovering dysfunctional relating so we can heal as a family. No reaction, silent dismissive avoidance. I haven’t spoken to them in over a year and that was for the Christmas FAKE appearance. No one is heart felt in my family.

[thrivingnow]

My ex was extreme and violent, often from nowhere. I realise I was there to regulate his emotions, so the unexplained immediate violence was because of events with others outside of the home and I got the brunt of that. Two years out, no contact, still stalking me and smear campaigning to avoid exposure of what he is. A dark, demonic entity with no soul.

[barbaramarshall]

My mother is an angry narcissist who even at 70 is absolutely terrifying. My family is Greek and mum has this way of taking over entirely so it's impossible to talk to her or stop her.

[tangerinefizz]

My ex-stepdad is a narcissist. He was often very verbally abusive towards me. He has a quick temper and is usually very aggressive and violent-explosive when he's angry. However, since he was situationally limited in the ways he could unleash his aggression towards me, he would often give me the silent treatment. I'm so glad he's out of the picture now.

[ericnorthman]

The narcs I 've known all are too steeped in their behavior to EVER think about changing - least going to a counselor. They would NEVER consider that action. I experienced that rage today for just exposing truth about his actions that he has been subjecting me to for years. And he got Very angry about it. While he usually is in the suppressive mode and I am just supposed to go along like it's normal and it's fine - without complaining. The jig has been up for awhile and it's just a matter of time for me to go silent

[specialstone]

You can give a person the benefit of the doubt (you can be helpful but with healthy boundaries) When you witness various abnormal behaviors, and you gently warn, address in love, but sometimes you just have to ghost the angry, bitter, false accusing, jealous meanspirited person who won't apologize and aware of their wrong behavior.

[ozzyhokozy]

My mother is a narcissist and I was diagnosed with BPD. I am trying to understand more. Thank you for this video :-)

[colivri]

I fell in love with the cutest guy on Earth. But he raged. He always denied it, said it was his Middle Eastern culture. Blamed society at large for making him rage. Strange luck for me, I had previously married a raging Narcissist so I knew I had to end it and I did end it. But these people really take a part of our hearts with them, because I WISH I could have helped him. But you can't help if they don't see that they have a problem, if they're always the victim. And then you go out into the world thinking: hey I was a victim of a Narcissist! The whole experience is very draining and mentally exhausting. I really hope that I am done with the heartbreak and the many depressive episodes I had after that last bf. But one good thing that came out of it is that now if I see red flags, I believe myself.

[ninarodriguez]

I see that my mild narc always exploded when I was encouraging him. And I didn't understand why me being supportive but also challenging him triggered his wound. I thought I was a burden when talking to him because I never knew when a good conversation would flip on me. He just doesn't thing he could be challenged. He's perfect as he is.

[mel-tooqueertokaren]

Thank you for this info, I'm currently in a cold war. Barricaded in my room while I look for a job. The last rage hit on Thursday and I'm done. 7 years