Why Parents Are Losing Their Adult Children #personalgrowth #ParentandAdultChild #mutualrespect

#ParentAndAdultChild #ChildrenDon'tOweParents #ParentsRespectAdultChildren
Parents in fact, DO owe their children 3 Things: reciprocated H.E.R. (honor, esteem and respect).

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[akusuaakoto]

As someone who has been estranged from their entire family for over 15 years, this is everything. I remember my mother saying 'no matter how I treat you, you will always be there for me.' Be careful how you treat us, we gon treat you like you treated us.

[Jynxxyravedoll]

The goal in parenting should not be to raise an obedient child. It should be to equip your child with the skills they will need for adulthood.

[leeboriack]

Some parents falsely believe their children are a permanent extension of themselves to express a second chance at being young, express unfulfilled dreams or unresolved subconscious emotions.

[fallenone]

A child doesn't choose to have parents. But a parent chooses to have a child. You chose to bring them into this world, You chose to treat them in a way that hurt them enough that they couldn't be around you. YOU chose that. Now they're choosing to be happy and find peace. And you have to deal with the consequences of your choices.

[DN-wyud]

So many parents don't know kids will be adults one day, free to make their own choices based on how they were treated.

[simplyzay]

Why i gotta stay around someone who be hellbent on tearing me down

[Johnny_the_]

Parents are not ready for this conversation. They will fight this to their deaths.

[AuthorJanaeMarie]

I absolutely HATE being told that I’m too sensitive. I get yelled at for crying. That’s exactly why I keep my emotions bottled in. It’s like I can’t truly be myself. If I need to vent I just keep it to myself. I’m just told to “get over it.” Parents can be so mean.

[paintproduct]

Parents will gladly put their hurt onto their child and wonder why they don’t share….

[christiesiebens]

"The child came here to teach them too..." love that line!

[emberystudios]

I’m so darn tired of parents and older generations thinking that they’re never the problem. The amount of times on this platform I’ve seen grown adults blame CHILDREN for the world’s flaws is insane.

[erinrametta]

A lot of the issues are pride/low self esteem of a parent. They cannot genuinely humble themselves before a child. and say ‘I’m sorry. Please don’t hurt yourself because I hurt you.’ True nurture is putting a child’s emotions before your own. Not many have this maturity.

[RUTHGroup]

I've learned the simplicity of it: 2 things can be true at the same time. You will always be my Mother, but you will not make me feel guilty for choosing to protect my heart.

[andreahu]

"You're gonna thank me one day for (insert unacceptable behavior)" has been the biggest cap of all time too

[sarahc.]

Sometimes honoring our parents means going no contact to avoid toxic chaos, stress, and disrespect.

[Kristen-]

The 4th Commandment
“Honor your mother & father” got me every time…until my trauma therapist told me God doesn’t want you staying in a situation that causes you trauma.
It’s ok to let go of toxic relationships even if it’s with your mom & dad
I am wide awake now!

[tacocat]

"I don't owe them anything"...you do. You made your child. They didn't chose to be created. You decided to create them, therefore you are responsible to treat them well. Fix your own trauma and handle your own feelings so you can give your child the love they need.

[PinkieAmyRoseTheREALone]

My mom closed her door immediately when she heard me playing this. Goes to show her true intentions.

[tc]

Absolutely. I hate when they use guilt and gaslighting when you tell them that they aren't treating you right. It's really evil and disgusting. They use God's commandment to honor them but they can treat you badly. The Bible also says to not provoke your children to anger right after that verse that they conviently ignore.

[Rainjojo]

I won’t stay around people who make me miserable and only use me when it makes them look good