The Best Way For KIDS To Totally MANIPULATE Their Parents

Parents, don't freak out! Today's episode is dedicated to your children, your preteens and teenagers who would like to know what the best way is to manipulate their parents. Believe us, we'll be giving tips that work really well!

00:18 Note to parents
00:30 Try telling them what they want to hear?
01:14 How about by doing whatever your parents want you to do?
02:27 Get better at sneaking around?
03:25 Using your very best debating skills?
05:03 The number 1 way
07:47 Here's something about banks

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Dr. Paul Jenkins

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[akvilekarnauskaite]

What if you have parents that manipulate you, for an example: they take everything you have ( your contact's with your friends, you stuff that you bought, the money that you tried saving up for a thing that you always wanted, etc.) and after they do that, then they say they love you, they start saying how their parents "hated" them, so they are trying their "best". I know that's manipulating because when I do my best to be accepted, they just say it's bad and I'm doing everything wrong, without telling me what I'm doing wrong. I don't think that earning trust will be a good way to manipulate them because they are the ones that destroy the trust between us. There must be another way to manipulate them, right?

[karendaniel]

Sweet debating skills: My 4 year old stated her reasoning and transitioned to "therefore, mommy" before asking for whatever it was she wanted (she's 30, so that's the only detail I remember). I had to go along at that point. You know, a 4 year old uses some form of logic and correctly uses the word "therefore, " they win.

[salmandabwan]

Parents telling us how to manipulate parents, mindblowing

[JL-vxrb]

My 6 year old likes to make me a deal with win win options

[walton]

Pro tip: we kids were being manipulated throughout the video to be better as a child.

[just-rezz]

so it means do anything for your parents (like they want you to do) and you can maybe go out when you´re 18 and do what you want not a nice method

[myopinion]

I don't know if is the lockdown or what but my daughter gets upset with me and is starting to hit. She is five years old, and I try to stay calm but it's getting old and painful. I try staying calm and not give in but it isn't working. The only way to calm her down is by scaring her but I don't want to traumatized her.

[mysteepulcine]

You never stated why debate your reasoning is wrong - sometimes kids are right, and them debating their perspective really informs the parents, and can change circumstances. As a parent, i like my kids using this tactic. It is good for their brain development, and sometimes they have good points.

[Gtteka]

What if I have religious parents and they not let me meet my boyfriend beacuse they say its bad for me, and its not going to be healthy if I stay with him for days
I always meet him secretly and its getting annoying
They always bring up their christian thing if I say I wanna stay with him

[logannlaney]

I knew this video was for the parents right from the start. But some of what they say is true, that trust is the best asset you can have if you're trying to get away with something. I employed some of these tactics and they all worked well for me. I told my parents what they wanted to hear, did what they wanted me to do, but I wasn't dumb about it, when I did it, it wasn't unnatural, it was normal, no stench of deceit. I controlled my body language, my expressions, my tone, my face believed what I was saying but my mind silently held the truth. I gave off the appearance of compliance, ignorance, I made them underestimate me and that was my strength. I had cover as well, I was a great student, athlete and friend, my time was being used for productive things, they thought I had no time for nefarious activities.
They found out what I was doing, but by complete chance, they were suspicious of me, but no hard leads, unil a fed ex truck turned around in our driveway. My sister lied and said she thought I ordered something and hid the package, so my parents searched my room to look for it. They unknowingly stumbled upon my operation, they were stunned, no idea what I was doing and no idea of how I did it. They were so baffled they couldn't tell contraband from regular stuff in my closet. They didn't know what they were looking at, but all they knew was that it was bad. I got in trouble and ruined that trust, so I could never really do something that impressive again. But I didn't even have a car back then, I still can't belive I pulled it off. I broke no laws and operated smooth, never spoke a word of my double life to anyone I knew and couldn't trust 100%. But after that defeat, I got smarter, adapted and learned new ways to achieve the same goal. Maintaining a code of secrecy is the most important part of getting away with anything, if you can't do that, you wont get away with anything. To get away with something you must identify vulnerability, cracks in the system, and use them. Only attempt deceit if you're sure you're gonna be able to get away with it. There's no point in doing it in the first place if you get caught. leave nothing to chance if you can help it, make sure every variable is identified and accounted for as best you can.
I fooled my parents for years, it's doable, you just have to be smart enough, if you're not smart, you won't stand a chance. Decit is not a game for dumb people. Appearances are vital, appear as docile and dumb as possible, and you'll be underestimated, and that is a great advantage.
Don't know why i wrote this, but I did.
When my parents asked me why i did it, I didn't even know the answer myself, I still don't know why I did it.

[sarasalasgraff]

How do I adjust to my dads new house after they divorced I’m 11 years old and I need help I know you can help me please😭❤️❤️

[GoddessGebrina]

Is this a video about gas lighting kids to think you are on their side lol

[pipg]

You never explained why persuasion doesn’t work. Why not?

[sarasalasgraff]

That is cool also the phone one totally helped me well kinda I have to wait 7 months

[almay]

I just stay in my room and they forget about me and leave me alone.

[moisesclintbalbuena]

My parents wont let me buy a bicycle (with my own money) they wouldn't let me because they think it's dangerous (I think its because they dont know how to ride one, so they think its difficult) what should i do, just agree to them?