“My brother and I… took things too far…”

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[lanawilson]

"Was i too harsh" girl i spit out my tea, sis would be waking up in a dumpster somewhere if i walked in on that

[elizabethcochran]

My oldest brother and I got mistaken for a couple a few times. We hung out together when we were both single. Christmas shopping, movies, group social events (usually every one there would know we were siblings), a few meals out (like for my birthday). I always figured my brother was practicing for how to be a gentleman with a future girlfriend, it was never weird. And it wasn't that embarrassing when a few people assumed we were together. People just assume you would not hang out with your sibling I guess? Anyone worth dating will find out you are siblings, and maybe people you would not want to approach you will leave you alone because they assume you are with someone. You don't have to be doing anything weird for people to assume you are a couple, but if someone wants to ask when the wedding is, you need to consider what led to that question.

[person]

First girl, definitely needs to tell parents. It's obvious what's going on they are using her to get away with doing things. You can tell by the personality they knew parents would feel safe letting a boy be alone with her. This is darker then it seems

[thehuffmans]

My brother and I did everything together until I was in a relationship and got married. There was never anything weird going on. My parents were truck drivers and weren’t home often and so when we started going to a new church a lot of the people who didn’t know us and had never met my parents just assumed we were a young married couple, even though we look fairly alike. I think a lot of people just don’t assume that siblings can have really close relationships anymore. Usually after we explained we were siblings, people would say “Oh! I see the resemblance!” I don’t blame them for having made the assumption, I mean, I would probably assume the same thing if two young adult people started coming to our church with no other family members.

[Outtacontextouttatime]

To the first girl, if your reading this, BREAK UP! As Conan Gray once said “somebody who loves wouldn’t do this.” That boy is bad news. You deserve better. As your sister she should absolutely be ashamed of herself. I would NEVER do that to my sister. I wouldn’t even do that to my WORST ENEMY! Thats how awful this situation is.

[eurekahope]

As awful as this feels, you may eventually thank your sister for preventing you from marrying a cheater. Of course, your sister is guilty, too. She deserves being confronted and hopefully she repents.

[quickattackfilms]

“Your sister needs to beg for mercy” hahaha



…But for real, it’s insane that she wouldn’t be sorry. These kids today act like they’re the main characters in a rom-com

[psychowierdiac]

About people thinking you're dating your brother. . . I have two younger brothers, but they're massive. I really don't look anything like them, and they look quite a bit older than me. Recently, I met a guy, and really hit it off with him. No idea if he was interested that way or not, but I was😅. Anyway, I mentioned that I have two younger brothers who are a lot bigger than me, but I didn't wave them over to introduce them or anything. . . Later that day, I was walking by him with my "little" brother, and smiled at him, about to introduce them to each other, and he got a pained smile on his face and hurried away. Y'all, at this rate, I think I am doomed to be single forever!😂😭

[Michiganman]

" you're not harsh enough!"
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[emilywelsh]

Guys I totally relate to the second message - my brother and I went on a trip out west and everyone thought we were dating. It was frustrating but we both just thought it was funny 😂 it’s sad that more siblings aren’t good friends!

[Alexa-mduk]

That title is spicy but I'm glad that Messyges is still keeping it mild to medium heat 😂

[gracek]

First girl: Stay away from the boy. He does not love you and sounds like absolute trouble. Follow Jordan’s advice and tell your parents what happened between your sister and him if you think they will wonder what happened to him, not just for your sake but your sister’s sake. This boy sounds like trouble and I wouldn’t trust him around either of you.

Second girl: I wouldn’t worry about those comments too much. It is great that you’re close with your brother. If you want to meet someone, maybe opt for more solo dates. Take yourself out to eat, shop, or go to community events. Ask your friends if they know anyone looking to date. Good luck.

[catherinesiler]

To the girl, “Honey, he’s just not that in to you.” As for the sister, I don’t even know how long it would take me to talk to my sister again.

[KAyLA_K]

To the sibling getting mixed up as a couple, this is somewhat relatable 😂
Never had people ask when the wedding is coming or things similar to that😂, but people will assume sometimes we’re dating, because we hang out a lot together and don’t fight lol. Something that helps for me is when we’re in a group of people, we just talk to them and mention each other as siblings, like “Ohh yeah, my brother really likes playing chess, etc…” Like in conversations, bring up your brother to clarify and then word will get around. Also you gotta think, if you’re genuinely getting along and that’s why people think you’re dating, the people who genuinely are interested in you will find a way to figure out if y’all are siblings or dating lol. Some may not be as direct or daring, but if someone’s genuinely interested if you’re dating or he’s your brother, they’ll likely ask questions like “How did y’all meet?” or like “How long have you know each other?” “How are y’all related?” To indirectly figure out if y’all are dating. So don’t worry about it to much, because sometimes it helps weed out the guys that don’t really care and just want to randomly ask a girl out vs a guy who’ll go out of his way, because he’s genuinely interested in you 😊

[lori]

Lol my younger brother and I were mistaken for a couple ALL the time in college (we went to the same university). Usually people assumed we were dating, and once someone assumed we were married (that person was a stranger). After we realized that people were assuming we were a couple we started saying stuff like "Joe, my brother..." if we were talking about the other. My brother is 3 years younger than me, but I look younger than him. And we get along well together, we behave more like friends than siblings. It doesn't really happen to us now that he's married, since I usually hang out with him and his wife together. But yes it was always really uncomfortable when people assumed that we were dating, and to this day I have no idea what about our behavior gave off that vibe 🤷🏼‍♀️

[calebmarcoux]

Getting mixed up as in a relationship every now and then isn't weird. I have had people think I am in a relationship with my sister and my cousin.
Don't worry, you're probably not crossing the line, and don't worry, if you know a guy well enough to consider a relationship, he will know you are siblings. If there is a girl I think I might want a relationship with, I just make sure to throw in a comment saying "my sister likes doing... Etc" so they will know.
You could also ask your brother to help you with guys, because it's less awkward for him to approach and befriend a guy you like than for you to do it. Don't be dismayed by the situation, take advantage of it.

[TrafficJamByCam]

“From the things they were doing, I’m glad they were siblings.” - Jake Triplett

[nathaniddings]

I clicked on this video, and then switched to a new tab; I left the room and thought I left it on this tab, so after seeing “My brother and I… took things too far…” with zero context, the first words I saw on my screen when I came back followed up with "These are all 100% real interactions" and the shock factor just went WAY up.

And then I watched the video and laughed until I cried. I try to keep it subdued for the other people in the house, but I just lost it this time.

[alsmith]

I'm 20 and my younger brother is 14, and we're pretty much the same height. A while back I started walking around the neighborhood for exercise, and I invited him to come along. We have a great time talking about random things. One of our neighbors had never met me and he assumed that I was my brother's girlfriend. I think it's just rare for people to see siblings actually get along and enjoy one another's company.

[jbsbrickkiln]

I was at a family amusement park with my wife and daughter and my sister and her family. She dropped her tickets and they handed them to me and said “your wife dropped these.” We definitely weren’t doing anything sus. People just assume some times.