Diagnosed Sociopath Reveals How to Control and Destroy a Narcissist

Verified Diagnosed Sociopath (ASPD) Kanika Batra explains how she can easy manipulate and destroy even the most toxic of narcissists. Narcissism (NPD) can create really harmful and abusive situations and you must know how to defend yourself against it.

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Disclaimer: Please do not do use this against people with NPD trying to heal. They are going through enough as it is.

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[KanikaBatra]

If you're really in a bind, make sure to attack their insecurities. For somatic narcissists, it'll be their looks, for cerebral it'll be their intelligence. Stay safe out there.

[apocodino]

When I had to distance myself from my incredibly toxic and abusive narcissistic mother, charm and disarm is exactly what I used after very quickly moving into a hotel. I got a job with my step father and sister. I controlled the narrative, never made a peep, and made sure to only show that I was pushing forward and doing my best, while she was saying I was violent and going through psychosis. The lack of control or backlash made her go crazy, and she tried to legally keep all of my things. So I let her set up a court date, and the day before, called her crying saying I could "never go to court against my own mother, " and really fed her ego to make sure she wouldn't show up to that court date, claiming I wouldn't either, and really digging in that I felt terrible and she had won. What she didn't know is that neither of us showing to court was an automatic forfeit of the case, and she would have to put all of my things on the curb for me to come and retrieve within 24 hours. I can still remember her stunned, offended expression as I packed all my shit into my car and left, knowing I no longer had any reason to see her again. I've never seen a woman so red, and I didn't have to say a word.

I haven't spoken to her in 8 years, and they have been very, very peaceful.

[meanymouse]

kanika, i respect your words and wisdom here but as someone who has gone through this twice, the literal best thing you can do is to simply block them everywhere and focus on you and your happiness--they do NOT like to see you fulfilled. no need to triangulate or put any additional energy. truly malignant narcissists are legitimately scary people and adding ANY fuel to that fire is a potentially dangerous idea.

[coltenkelso]

Self awareness is your best friend with a narcissist. You can realize when they are trying to gaslight or manipulate you. If they can’t pull you into the victim triangle then they are powerless. They hate assertiveness.

[AlSpice]

YUP. While I was crying on a Greyhound bus in the middle of the night with my child, fleeing from my narc ex, he was busy messaging everyone I knew and lying about what happened - making me the abuser instead of the abused.

3 years later, there are some friendships I have never been able to heal and regain, but luckily most people ignored his crazy ass

[smorozinho]

Tips to find "the narc" at work: when you start a job pay attention to the person (can be more than one), that will welcome you in an exagerated way and that will speak baddly about every co-worker to you. Your first step is to smile and charm the person but dont validate them. For ex give them answers like "oh really?" which are ambigous. Make sure you dont openly take a side. Make sure you dont socialise out of work with the person. Never never tell them about an happy event and when they ask you are ok, again give them ambigous answers " ah you know it could be better". Dont validate any of their self compliments just smile. This is the best way to make them conprehend you wont be their ego buster and leave you alone (you didnt directly antagonise them). Be safe

[cindygiesbrecht]

Here's what I would and have done.
I don't defend myself at all.
I am already volunteering and living an honest life.
I won't lie or be charming just to gain some friends.
I would rather be rejected for being my authentic self than accepted for being fake

[JessiJamesRideOrDie]

"NOT ALL NARCISSISTS ARE SOCIOPATHS, BUT ALL SOCIOPATHS ARE NARCISSISTS" Dr. Ramani

[MrAristotelianattic]

You are so cool. Everyone else ignores these questions. They say, "Move on. The key is to forget." But you actually had the guts to give the advice we're really looking for. I love this.

[successmanifestation]

Being indifferent is key. I remember me and my ex was invited to a mutual friend party but we broke up 2 weeks before the party bc he cheated on me. I still decided I was going to go by myself and he brought the girl he cheated on me with to the party which I already expected he was going to do. Everybody else was mad he did that but I just acted nonchalant and unbothered. Due to me acting like that, he kept following me around the party, asking me if I was okay the whole time, kept trying to give me a hug, staring at me like a creep, kept doing favors for me, while he literally left his girlfriend in the corner by herself the whole party. If he would’ve known he was getting to me, he would’ve used his gf to make me jealous but since I played it cool, he did the opposite. And I looked wayyyy better than his new gf which made him feel even worse. Even his homeboys was laughing at him and said he downgraded extremely. And right after I left the party, he kept texting me saying he wanted to leave her for me and he made the hugest mistake and I declined him. Like no.

[aaron]

Listening to you talk about how to break the most notorious of domestic abusers without batting an eye makes you sound like such a hardcore BOSS

[_____]

I have a person in my life who is a narcissist and abuses me but is higher than the Virgin Mary in the eyes of others around us. But everything you described as a way to combat them, that person has already done to me.
Perfect in front of others, abusive behind closed doors. Appears frail and meek, is actually vicious.
So when I snap after weeks of abuse and do as much as back talk, I am the aggressive angry monster lashing out at a poor innocent narc. I’m sick of it all.

[STAR-LIGHT.]

Let toxic people battle and trick each other, I'm out such a waste of time.

[KaylaNoelle]

Controlling the narrative is SO vital. When I finally left my emotionally and financially abusive ex I reached out to all of our mutual friends and told them EVERYTHING. Then in the few weeks between our nearly 8yr relationship ending and him finding a new, very mentally ill, woman to be his supply he started treating everyone in his life the way he treated me because I wasn’t there to absorb that abuse anymore. So he did a lot of the work for me! 😂 Now he’s mistreated his youngest sister so badly that SHE will tell anyone who listens how hurt and disrespected he makes her feel. I wish I left so much sooner. I really had nothing to be afraid of in terms of my reputation because his nice-guy veneer was SO a weak and brittle that it shattered the moment he realized I was gone for good.

[gatorcrys]

When you said this level of toxicity is not normal, I think I really needed to hear that.

[cancerqueen]

They can see our energy, so no matter what you pretend they know how you really feel, when you genuinely don't care anymore that's what hurts them, they only have the power we give them from our reactions and how we feel, when our feelings are gone they can feel it. And that hurts them more than anything knowing we really don't give a f

[zaidarivas]

This depression is also known as a narcissistic collapse or nervous breakdown. I can’t imagine.

My narc sister had 3 of these and tried to blame me for these.

I cut her out of my life. Don’t have to worry about the crazy. Go no contact. This is a personality disorder. You can’t heal this. They are forever damaged. Run and run far.

[sophiaharvard]

Not a sociopath but already did all of that and it works guys. Appear strong when weak and appear weak when strong.

[knzay]

So basically, focus on being a good person and showing kindness to others, don't stoop to their level. ;)

[Nkkii]

I am a girl who is a really big empath. Soft and vulnerable. I attract narcissistic people without knowing. One even put me into a coma. They know I'll do anything for love, and make me believe everything is my fault. It's horrible the things I've been through. Been gaslit so much. Still being that.

I think this will help me. So thank you 🖤