How to Approach Women | Kshitij's 3 Golden Laws with Examples | Hindi

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Imagine it is a fine sunny winter afternoon,

And you put on your favorite clothes and stepped out feeling good.

You noticed a girl standing right across the street.

You felt the instant connection, you liked her.

You wanted to go and talk to her.

But your approach anxiety took over.

And after a while, you’re still standing there feeling sad about yourself,

While the girl has left without even noticing you.

We all have been in this situation.

So today I am sharing with you guys my top 3 laws for approaching a girl.

In the video, I’ll talk about the mistakes men make while approaching a girl.

And my top 3 rules to help you get over the approach-anxiety and get more dates.

# 1 The 3 Seconds Rule

My top rule and the best advice to approaching a girl are to go and break the ice under 3 seconds after you have noticed her.

The longer you wait, the harder it gets for you to approach her.

Imagine a scenario where you noticed a girl, But your approach anxiety took over.

And you’re waiting for the “right” moment to approach her.

But let me tell you the right moment never comes.

When you keep waiting, your mind starts playing games with you.

You can’t help but think of unfortunate scenarios,

Such as what happens if I approach the girl and her husband shows up.

And now that you’re wasting time thinking about all that could go wrong,

You fail to approach. And before you know it, the girl has left the place.

My advice is don’t waste time worrying about what will happen.

Go on, take the risk, say hello, and get it over with.

Worst case scenario, if her boyfriend or parents or husband shows up,

You can learn from our other videos about how to act in such situations.

I have talked about the 3 seconds rule in-depth in the video.

#2 Say Something, Say Anything

The second rule of approaching a girl is all about breaking the ice.

Don’t think too much about what your opener should be.

At times, it could be something awesome,

Other times, it could be something silly.

But understand that an opener is just something to start a conversation.

Once, you’ve started an interesting conversation with a girl, Neither of you is going to remember what your opener was.

My advice is to be just confident and get over your fear of approach.

Again, it relates to rule number #1.

Do not waste much time wondering about a killer opener, Else the moment will be over and you won’t get that girl. I have talked about this rule in detail. I have explained everything about how to open and strike a great conversation in other videos.

#3 Calibrate After The Fact

In the video, I share some examples based on these three laws. If you face approach anxiety, then you can start putting these three laws into action.

You’ll start to see results shining through.

Love,

Kshitij 💖

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I started this channel and my coaching to help shy men overcome their inhibitions to be able to talk to women and have meaningful consensual relationships.
Consent is very important, and if the person in front of you does not feel comfortable, and expresses the same either by actions, words, or gestures, you should immediately back off and leave the conversation.

[GaganDeep-lmzr]

Remember guys, rejection is better than regret

[sharada]

LAW1: Approach in 3 seconds.
LAW2 : Say something, Say anything. (THE Icebreaker) . (THE WAY of Talking MATTERS)
LAW3: Stop calibrating.

[veganmanofficial]

Rejection would never mean that you are unworthy or not lovable, have empathy, suppose same happens to you by a grl you don't expected to be with. Build respect for yourself.

[justcodeitbro]

There are only 2 rules
1) Be attractive
2) Don't be unattractive

[theaverageindianguy]

Me having goosebumps, reimagining the whole senario

[swamirajnaik]

Bro I approached 1st time with stranger girl without any common things it's little awkward but bcoz of you my fear reduced much more times now

[aakashprat]

Bruhh I picked up my teacher in college

[sanjaytandulkar]

Perfect video, cover almost all point ❤👍🔥

[Shomnath_Das]

Definitely Kshitij Sir, ask even it's a silly question when you approaching someone... remember that girl is stranger and you are unknown person also for her 🙂

[amitkumarsah]

-Dekhte he approch karo:jyada socho mat about results, dar ko nikal ke jao, at least try, Jaldi karo nahi to chali jayegi, jo hoga dekha jayega, agar us vakt uska koe apna aajaye then handle them at any cost, this you will to handle any situation
-say something or anything: don't wait for sequence: the way you are saying that matters, not what you are saying
-dont think about the sequence of the way you will speak and reply and then again your reply to her(calibration), learn to calibrate after the conversation (fact)
-try to be on the spot ( this will improve your skill set )
-never calibration before conversation(sequence of your saying and reply then reply to reply....) this will increase your fear

[vlogger]

Thnx Bhaiya Kal Jaunga Approach Karne ❤️‍🔥😤

[kushsrivastava]

A video on how to approach a girl in a group.

A more detailed one, please?

[swapnildabholkar]

Thanks a lot bro. It’s really great to listen you out! 😮

[anshulkumarmishra]

I wish this comment will be helpful for someone. So, I am an engineer and a fitness freak. So every morning I go to gym to get my mind relaxed and focused for the day. And gradually I started to notice a cute girl in my gym and wanted to make her my workout buddy. But I observed that she was whole time talking to her trainer. As a man I started assuming that he’s her bf and tried to focus on my workout rather than her. But things kept getting worse and I totally lost focus due to jealousy. Then I got this video recommendation, watched it and decided to give a try. It went well and today we worked out together for an hour ❤

[sumitgaming]

I have seen many videos on YouTube but u're the best bhut aagay jaoge Bhai 1M subs hone mai zyada tym nhi lgega...Carry On 😊

[studywithpiePriya]

I'm a girl. Indian society shows approaching, like what the heck, no manners? So we tend get tied up with those thinkings. But we actually want genuine men to approach seriously. We too are afraid, if this is gonna be right. First interaction me kitna hi janoge right? If she is open to dating, may be she'll share her insta and all. Actually i want to approach men as well. But afraid of being judged and all other consequences.

[akashsarkar]

this video is about "seedhi baat no bakwaas" .🤣🤣

[GovindPaswan-nu]

Superb first time jo mai kr skta hu esa knowledge mile❤

[pmvibe]

How many of you only watching video but never tried or applied in real life😂😂

[debduttadas-m.e]

I'm in Kolkata now for durgapuja . So today when I was out with my friend, I saw a stunning girl & instantly approached her . Although i'm an extrovert, this was really hard for me too....I got to know her name &vwe parted ways then