BREAKING POINT.

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Welcome back to our Camp Series with Lucinda Fredericks! In this video, we get real about the ups and downs of equestrianism, as the effects of Bicton finally boil over.

As a rider, I know that falling is part of the game. But when I took a hard tumble at Bicton, I didn't expect it to have such a lasting impact on me. In this video, I share my raw emotions as I struggle to come to terms with jumping my ponies again.

I am so grateful for Ellie, who stepped in to ride Dee for me when I just couldn't. Her's and Lucinda's support and understanding helped me through one of the toughest moments of my equestrian journey.

I was reluctant to share this, as I do worry about the comments and my reputation in the industry. However, this day I was genuinely terrified to come to a fence on my own horse, and I think it's so important to air this to the equestrian world.

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[elphick.event.ponies]

Thank you so much for these lovely comments guys, really means a lot ❤

[jelphick]

As Meg's Mum (the Hobbit) I just wanted to say how difficult & upsetting this was to watch 😪 However, I also wanted to say a HUGE 'Thank You' to everyone who has written a message of support or sent a few kind words. I'm so grateful that Meg has such a lovely, kind & supportive community behind her, without you all it would be so much harder. Thank you xx

[georgiaadams]

I love how Lucinda can be tough but was so understanding and supportive when you were struggling.

[mollynicholson]

Thank you for showing an honest, authentic representation of the difficult parts of this sport. Riding can be dangerous and scary, and it is refreshing to have that side of things shown by a rider we all look up to. This is going to make a lot of riders feel less alone ❤️

[feichannel]

It’s mentally, physically and emotionally challenging. Being open about that and understanding it is a huge part of making progress 👏

[crystalbrewster]

It’s going to be okay Meg. Everyone who rides long enough has times like this.

You are so brave for filming it and you’re going to help so many people who are going through the PTSD of a fall.

Just remember all that adrenaline/anxiety is your body trying to protect you. You aren’t crazy, or overreacting, you experienced a dangerous and scary fall and you are having to convince your body that it isn’t going to happen again.

[GraceandRocky]

I absolutely love Lucinda as a coach. She's ruthless and SO gentle at exactly the right moments.

[WAMama]

Meg. This sort of content is SO needed. We all have confidence issues. Fear. Hardly anyone shows the hard stuff, so it is so nice to see such a talented rider and horse struggle and work through it. Incredibly incredibly valuable content. Seriously.

[Indianna-vu]

I always feel like I’m the only rider that struggles with my nerves after a fall. Because I’m always surrounded by confident, accomplished riders. Thank you for posting this

[shadue]

Meg, we all cried with you. What a credit you are to your horses. Lucinda is absolutely right. You just need a little help right now, which everyone needs from time to time - no matter which stream of life. You haven't given up, that is why you are still on this journey and why you are with Lucinda - you have have stopped at a fence but you are progressing through and that is important. What courage you are showing. A lot of people would call it quits but you aren't, you are facing your fears and we are all rooting for you. Dee has a wonderful heart and is bursting with natural ability and class. And isnt Lucinda and Ellie wonderful. I always love the vlogs with Lucinda as she is so genuine, so passionate. You are so lucky to be surrounded by these people who care for you and support you - You'll get through this.

[Cecrophia]

Crying is emotional release, it's good for you. I think it's great that you got to see Dee jumped, she looked absolutely amazing and like she was enjoying herself. This is the horse you've trained and she's got real talent. I see this and I see a great foundation to build your confidence on.

[problemofevil_]

"You can't train bravery" this is going to be my life quote from now on cause I do recognize myself in you so much! No matter how much we love our horses, one thing going wrong can make us lose confidence, but eventually we'll get our confidence back with time and getting used to things not going wrong. I'm really glad you shared this with us, Meg ♥

[chloecotton]

Oh meg, I'm sobbing, exactly how I feel after my accident, constantly imagining it happening again, it's so nice to share and know that we all feel the same, we are all routing for you! Proud of you for knowing when to take a minute and put your pony first 💗

[annejarvis]

Dear Meg, firstly thank you for your honesty & bravery. Your fall was brutal & clearly your concern isn't just for you, but mostly for your horse (typical of your loving care of your ponies). My trauma came from a car accident, but I had some falls from horses previously. Take the positives: you have got back in the saddle; you have successfully ridden not only your ponies but other people's horses. Furthermore, consider the complement from Lucinda when Ellie rode Dee - "Dee is such a credit to you & how you have produced her". I hope this experience with Lucinda, & all the emotions, form a positive start to your healing & the rebuilding of your confidence in yourself & your abilities & confidence in the awesome ponies you have so brilliantly produced. Never apologise for being truthful - there is no shame in that - entirely the opposite - it shows bravery, truthfulness & your awesome character. That's why you have such faithful followers & respect from us (& your sponsors). Much love, be well - it will get better - I know🤗x

[vickiehodges]

I so appreciate the honesty of this video, it takes real guts to share something like this.

[madlyneventing]

Meg. You are so brave for showing this. I think many Equestrians struggle with this. I feel like we are just under an assumption that in horses we have to be brave all the time and not let anyone see our weak spots... That's not how it should be at all. This video is so honest and authentic for me, I feel like its very real of how riding is. Not everything is always sunshine and rainbows. I for one can understand exactly where you're coming from. I applaud you big time! This video means a lot.

[agentk]

I do appreicate you being raw, although I know how hard these vlogs are for you to make; being a rider who frequently struggled with confidence I feel a lot less alone when those who I look up to feel the same way. ❤

[vintagetors]

Mental blocks and anxiety are a huge part of the equestrian sport that tends to be overlooked. We have all been there. Thank you for sharing!

[ellenbell-mcmanus]

i love how honest lucinda is but shes also so lovely

[zarawilson]

Omg I’m just watching this again after watching the new DD stallion reveal, at around 19:50 Lucinda said “look at her legs, she’ll be amazing with Marley.” No one even knew that there was a spoiler! It’s so funny how it was so obvious but no one knew it. So exited for her little foal xx