Some Women Secretly Love Rejecting Men

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[TheKcupholder]

My cousin is in his 40s and is single after moving around. He said dating is a NIGHTMARE now because he’s used to meeting women in person, but now that’s considered “creepy” and everyone just meets on an app now. Which is weird because when he dated in his 20s, it was weird and sketchy to meet someone online.

I hate the direction we’re going in. Lack of human connection and socialization not behind a screen is really damaging. I’m so grateful I started dating my husband a week before I learned what Tinder was because I could not handle the dating app BS.

[mr.exeggutor]

I got investigated for sexual harassment at my work when i asked a girl out who DIDNT EVEN WORK THERE!! she even told me yes and we exchanged information. Never again.

[silentshadows]

As a women who dose want a happy, healthy, and traditional relationship someday, it's actually quite sad seeing all this. I might not be able to see this from a male's perspective, but it is unfortunate seeing both sides being so scared to approach someone, that neither side ends up approaching anyone at all, which then makes it where people have to find a partner online because it's starting to become the only option, and it genuinely sucks! Meeting people in real life is a lot more fun and exciting than just swiping through some stupid dating app.

[frosthammer]

Last time I went out to a bar I had a lady go off on me. She called me an asshole and a creep when I tapped her arm to let her know her purse fell on the floor.

[cherryhazard]

I struggled a lot with male attention and dating when I was a teenager, most of my classmates were lookers and I wasn't, got teased because of it too, they even implied I was a dude. I genuinely thought I wasn't ever gonna be loved, but I had something they didn't have...openness. They were usually looking for the best guys out there and not looking within the heart of the person they wanted, and I remember them always initiating the break ups. In the end, I found my soulmate...someone who I think has a beautiful soul and is willing to be a father and husband. I had openness, and this is what it brought me. This is what those women, lack...openness.

[positivelynegative]

In addition to the risk of being labeled and/or accused of wrongdoing, men are constantly receiving the message that they aren't needed or wanted.

[insertfunnyhandlehere]

This right here is exactly why I stopped dating. I'm a civilized human being I get tired of being treated like I'm a monster.

[Razzy-sroq]

Courtesy and kindness cost people nothing but it means everything and we've abandoned that in favor of sensationalized social media clout.

[markgrnyer]

The difference between flirting and being creepy is if they find him attractive.

[DarvakSondrath]

It's a power play. Having dozens of men interested in her, turning them down, and then complaining about it makes them feel like:
A: A high value, attractive woman, desired by countless men
Thus,
B: A strong, independent girl boss who doesn't need men and can turn down countless guys (because they can easily get one whenever they want).

[lolabloo]

I agree but you gotta admit, there is a time and a place. At a bar, yes. In a parking lot at night, maybe not 😅

[michaelmartz]

I have stories of encountering such women. They think they can cause a scene and get away with it in public. Unfortunately, it turns off every man in the vicinity.

They can stay single and unattenchioned.

[ProjectTV]

This is why you always let someone down gently. You say something like Thank you, I'm truly flattered, though I am going to politely decline. I appreciate the courage it takes to put yourself out there, and I wish you a great day/evening. This has never not worked for me.

[BryhenBea]

Yep. These are such pretentious and twisted times now.

[carly]

Feminism has impacted my dating experience in my 20s because of examples such as this. We should allow people to approach us and if we’re not interested, kindly reject them. Swiping for everything online (romantic or platonic) is getting old.

[skdietschXOXO]

In my view it's a matter of women wanting to be in control over men and not just being seen as equal

[welcometorenland]

I am so grateful that I grew up in an era where it was flattering and gave you a rush of joy when a man approached you. It's sad that young people won't be able to enjoy that feeling

[NightingaleSpica]

The only place I don't want to be bothered is the gym because I am self conscious and don't have confidence in myself. Everywhere else I am fine with it. I am now even talking to guys at restaurant bars just trying to meet anyone. Plus, men if I am wearing a skirt or a dress, it is me trying to get the male attention.

[qthirteen]

The unspoken part of their sentence

I don’t wanna be looked at by men that I don’t find attractive

Pretty simple

[ced]

When I was a bartender, I could always tell who the women were who needed validation from men. They would always try to catch you looking at them. When I wouldn't, they'd start to doubt themselves. After 15 minutes, I would yawn. It would trigger their yawn response, and that's when I'd look back with a wink. Now they knew THEY were looking at ME, and it flipped their mindset around. After that, getting their number and hooking up was pretty simple.