Fighting for my DREAMS & winning against ALL ODDS | Brenda Mtambo

Brenda Mtambo shares her journey of overcoming personal hardships and loss to pursue her musical dreams, reflecting on the challenges of her upbringing and the impact of missed opportunities. She discusses the importance of spirituality and resilience in navigating life's difficulties and highlights her growth from past experiences. Her story emphasises the transformative power of embracing fearlessness and pursuing one's passion despite obstacles.

[00:00] Brenda Mtambo shares her journey of resilience, emphasising the importance of overcoming failures and personal struggles while maintaining a positive spirit.
- Brenda reflects on the lessons learned from failure and loss in life.
- Brenda introduces herself and expresses her admiration for a particular song that uplifts her spirit.
- Brenda candidly discusses her current emotional state, acknowledging the challenges and changes she faces.
- Despite feeling low, Brenda emphasises her commitment to give her best during performances, showcasing her dedication to her craft.

[17:52] Brenda Mtambo shares her challenging journey of overcoming obstacles in her life, particularly focusing on her experiences with her mother and the impact on her aspirations as a singer.
- Brenda reflects on her relationship with her mother, acknowledging the difficulties of parenting and suggesting that her mother was not adequately prepared for the role.
- She discusses missed opportunities in her youth, including a chance to study in the States and how her mother's actions hindered her dreams.
- Brenda reveals her struggles after being placed in an Indian school and the subsequent emotional and physical abuse she faced, leading to her dropping out.

[35:46] Brenda Mtambo shares her emotional journey of leaving her home, the struggles she faced, and her determination to create a better life while remembering her past.
- She reflects on her deep connection to her grandmother and the pain of leaving loved ones behind.
- Brenda opens up about her traumatic experiences growing up, including abuse and the emotional scars that linger.

[53:44] Brenda Mtambo shares her personal experiences with the challenges faced by young parents, particularly focusing on the complexities of familial relationships and the impact of past traumas on her current parenting approach.
- Brenda discusses the mistakes made by young mothers and fathers.
- She reflects on her own childhood experiences with her father, revealing the emotional distance and lack of knowledge about him.

[01:11:39]Brenda Mtambo reflects on her experiences in the entertainment industry, discussing her relationships, casting decisions, and the impact of friendship on her career.
- Brenda acknowledges the hard work and success of others in the industry, demonstrating respect and admiration for their achievements.
- Brenda humorously recounts being cast for a role that she ultimately declined, highlighting the light-hearted nature of her career decisions.
- She clarifies that there were no negative stories or conflicts regarding her relationships, indicating a positive outlook on her past friendships.

[01:29:57] Brenda Mtambo shares her journey from humble beginnings to a successful music career, emphasising the importance of resilience and adaptability in pursuing dreams.
- Brenda reflects on her early experiences and the supportive community that surrounded her during challenging times.
- She discusses the significance of her initial performances and how they shaped her as an artist, highlighting her growth and learning.
- Brenda recalls the launch of her own show in 2010, marking a pivotal moment in her career where she began to take control of her musical journey.

[01:47:22] Brenda Mtambo shares her journey of overcoming fear and hardship to pursue her dreams, emphasising the importance of taking risks and believing in oneself.
- Brenda reflects on her initial steps in her music career, highlighting the significance of taking a leap of faith.
- She discusses her transition from living in fear and pain to embracing bravery and new opportunities
- Brenda acknowledges that many people plan and talk about their dreams without taking action, which can create a false sense of progress.

[02:05:13] Brenda Mtambo discusses the unique cultural identity and musical heritage of South Africa, emphasising the importance of recognising and celebrating this identity amidst global influences.
- Brenda highlights the need to address social inequalities and the importance of discussing these issues openly.
- She reflects on the distinct 'mood' and 'sound' of different countries, particularly noting how South Africa's cultural energy is often better recognised globally than by its own citizens.
- Brenda expresses her desire for South Africans to embrace their musical identity while incorporating diverse influences, celebrating who they are.

[bemesuelly]

I love Brenda, she sang at my wedding while she was still at Zwelibanzi❤❤

[nonhlanhlamokoena]

I don't know of anyone who could have handled this interview with as much empathy and sensitivity as David did. Thank you for taking your guests to a place of vulnerability where no one else can.

[poshy]

I love her spirit, her tears soon becomes her lotion and she glows. She is not her problems

[Zandile]

Listening to your story Brenda makes me LOVE and APPRECIATE my mama even more 💗 so painful and truly
sorry about your upbringing

[EngineerYourLifePodcast]

What a soul-shifting conversation. Thank you for sharing Brenda & Brother David for facilitating it with so much care.

[leratosehoole]

Oh Brenda😢I am trying to be strong but this interview is so deep and I just want to hug you

[PhindyTikwayo]

True indeed Brenda, Mr Mthembu really had such a huge impact in our lives. I used to enjoy assembly because of the learning we received. Proper foundation was built on us to become the people we are. I always brag about Mr Mthembu and Maseko.

It's unbelievable to hear Brenda went through so much heartache while she healed and blessed us with her voice at assembly. Big hugs to you Sis, God is your strength 💕

[mphoramokolo]

Brenda' story is a story of most of us. Most times it is strangers that gives out a helping hand.

[DineoDinnyDee]

Chopping onions. Such a strong woman. So inspired, this shows there's always someone who went through the worst than you and them still standing and even flying high is very motivating

[mmabathomakapan]

Brenda gives me goosebumps, her singing, her voice is just healing. I hope her story inspire a young individual who wants to give up. We all have a purpose in life!

[masegomokhine]

I have been delaying to watch this episode for this reason I am crying profusely damn.... Love it.

[malumskhulu]

Childhood traumas are something else, man. I pray Brenda to cope with hers. By coming to this show she continues her therapy. Kuzolunga. May everyone reading this and has their own childhood skeletons to find healing❤

[poppyful]

The first half of this interview was sad. She came across as someone in pain. I do relate to her story and it also reminds me of Iyanla Vanzant's book: Yesterday I cried. Very intelligent, mindful, self-aware lady. I wish her success in all areas of her life❤

[KelebogileRapulana]

I am forever watching Obuti David's interviews but this is the saddest interview I have ever watched 💔💔💔 I have never seen a person in so much pain at the same time so strong ❤❤❤#superwoman

[ntombikambule]

Askies baby girl. Hitting rock bottom is the best place for a bounce back. When there is no lower to go any pressure forces a ball up. Bounce my girl we are rooting for you❤

[thabobotopela]

After hearing her story I love her even more. My crush 🥰 and musical Queen 👑😍

[naumiyomi]

In all honesty, how many people are in the same place emotionally and can accept it? The power is in acknowledgement, Brenda.

Wishing you all the best, because you are the best and deserve all of the best ❤

[sthembilethanjekwayo_za]

I don't think she has even scraped the suffice yet....she's still gonna go far. Her voice is deep in every way. I love her. 🥰😍

[sibusisosangweni]

a phenomenal and outstanding soul she
i will never forget watching that mam Winnie perfomance, i literally cried

[thatolekgau]

“I’m not gonna live my life in pain forever”! I love you Brenda, may all that you wish for become a reality. Your story inspires and reminds us we are all humans.