Best Place To Meet Women (Update: I changed my mind some. Read description!)

This video was a little delusional thinking "girls would just fall into your lap" if you just "up your energy". If your life is really cool, sure attractive women will probably flow into your life. But for the average guy out there... probably not very often haha. On occasions, sure. But I wouldn't bet on it. If you want something in life, put some effort into it!

There is lots of "self-improvement" and development that comes from putting yourself out there! Getting out of your comfort zone. Growing your courage. Trying out new things you wouldn't normally try. Expanding your social circle. Becoming curious of new things. Getting to know new people. Exploring the world. etc. Just expanding yourself!

If you are not "putting yourself out there", that could be a weak point in your personal development / individuation!

And I'd say "improving your life" is probably more important than "excitement or facing fears". Often improving our life is a grind, and isn't exciting... it's hard consistent work. But it's whats for the best for the long-term of upping our energy, circumstances, and self-esteem.

The good part about this video is the basic message of "upping your energy" is solid. Very important. And at times, the best thing for a man to do is to not focus on women at all, but to purely focus on himself. Perhaps after a breakup, or going through a depression, etc. There are times in a man's life where he should purely focus on himself, getting his life together, "self-improvement", and getting back into a solid place of enjoying and being proud of his life. And this video is perfect for guys who needed to go through that stage of life. Of getting their "core" together. And then once they feel that they are at a decent place, then they can start putting yourself out there with women again. :)

However, "self-improvement" is like climbing an infinite ladder. You can always improve your life. So make sure "getting your life together" isn't an excuse or rationalization to not start putting yourself out there when you feel the time is right to get back into the land of women!

[GoldJacketLuke]

This video was a little delusional thinking "girls would just fall into your lap" if you just "up your energy". If your life is really cool, sure attractive women will probably flow into your life. But for the average guy out there... probably not very often haha. On occasions, sure. But I wouldn't bet on it. If you want something in life, put some effort into it!

There is lots of "self-improvement" and development that comes from putting yourself out there! Getting out of your comfort zone. Growing your courage. Trying out new things you wouldn't normally try. Expanding your social circle. Becoming curious of new things. Getting to know new people. Exploring the world. etc. Just expanding yourself!

If you are not "putting yourself out there", that could be a weak point in your personal development / individuation!

And I'd say "improving your life" is probably more important than "excitement or facing fears". Often improving our life is a grind, and isn't exciting... it's hard consistent work. But it's whats for the best for the long-term of upping our energy, circumstances, and self-esteem.

The good part about this video is the basic message of "upping your energy" is solid. Very important. And at times, the best thing for a man to do is to not focus on women at all, but to purely focus on himself. Perhaps after a breakup, or going through a depression, etc. There are times in a man's life where he should purely focus on himself, getting his life together, "self-improvement", and getting back into a solid place of enjoying and being proud of his life. And this video is perfect for guys who needed to go through that stage of life. Of getting their "core" together. And then once they feel that they are at a decent place, then they can start putting yourself out there with women again. :)

However, "self-improvement" is like climbing an infinite ladder. You can always improve your life. So make sure "getting your life together" isn't an excuse or rationalization to not start putting yourself out there when you feel the time is right to get back into the land of women!

[lukekryt]

Dawg you do not get enough credit for the shit you do. Thank you. You've made such an impact on mine and so many others lives. Don't stop doing you. Expansion. Stay elevated.

[toshibasap]

Your videos make me think so different about the simple things in life. Thanks luke your the man!

[michaeldonoghue]

Really great video Luke just what I needed. As Elliot hulse says "the sentiment from which you proceed is more important than what you do"

[SocialAwkwardness]

Find what places work for you guys! 
I tend to meet a lot of girls at club/bars....I'm actually dating a girl that i met at a nightclub and she is awesome. 
Go out there and find what places u enjoy and find a connection with a girl that enjoys that place as well. 

[jrobmakeitrain]

I agree with everything you said luke, but i think that method of taking action and facing anxieties should be going out and being social and obviously talking to girls. This correlates with going out and say moving or taking a solo trip. But on these trips, or when moving one must also face their fear and talk to women. Sitting their and just waiting for a girl to fall in your lap just because you chased a challenge or excitement. Yes chase the challenge and excitement while being social and talking to women and failing over and over to gain that confidence. Along with not being needy like what you said.

[redrum]

its weird I can meet women and make a really strong relationship with them, but I don't see them as a partner or a "lover" and in the end have more of a friend relationship.

[gædeling]

"Almost nothing important ever happens to you happens because you engineer it. Destiny has no beeper; destiny always leans trenchcoated out of an alley with some sort of a 'psst' that you usually can't even hear because you're in such a rush to or from something important you've tried to engineer." -- David Foster Wallace.

[AmericazGotTalentYT]

Your videos always have the best backgrounds.

[damianosky]

That ''peace'' at the end was so hesitated haha! liked the video though :)

[JamesTsividis]

Awesome. I have been realising this too. If I'm feeling scared to express myself one day, I feel better after I've taken action on something I feel like doing like asking someone to use their microwave in their office. The more I do this, the more momentum I get

[lettheliquortellit]

I've seen all your videos, and I think this is the best. Thank you

[randomnumbers]

Very interesting! I think I'm starting to finally get this synchronicity thing you're jabbering about all the time.

[heyitshorse]

I totally agree with this video Luke. I am in the same position and age as you right now. But to put it in less poetic terms, opening the flow for me, would just be about opening opportunities and creating a greater likelihood of more events to occur, whether good or bad. Of course if your intentions are good then its more probable for good events to come your way.

I guess narrowing your opportunity by having a specific goal of getting one girl so that you can date her, eg. " i will go to the club, not do anything else and focus on basing my fun on how much girls i can pick up" opens less opportunity then for example a broader goal, eg. "I'm going to go play some volleyball, which I enjoy, where there happens to be girls, then i will eat dinner with my buddies, where it happens that these girls will bring her friends that are girls." There's less pressure to try to be someone you're not, and picking her up also

[PiaCorleone]

I started going to various dance classes last month where there are many women...I only go there for the fun experience and to learn how to dance...but last week I noticed a girl checking me out during class...there were like 20 girls ages 18-25 and I was the only guy...anyways after class she approached me and it was pretty obvious...she is really pretty and has a great body...
if I saw her on the street I would think she is way out of my league...the morale of the story go to places where there are many girls and few if any guys...some girl is gonna find you attractive

[TAVideos]

Thanks Luke for this productive video. I don't have any one who could help me in finding a life partner, so I decided to find a life partner by myself. For that purpose I went to a party few years ago where I met a beautiful girl and by mistake I actually told her that I was there to find a life partner or wife, so she simply walked away from me and joined back her friends there. Don't you think that it was funny?

[ImCheat]

Hey man, nice hair cut! Really liked it.

[chrishodge]

Okay, here's a corollary question for ya. I'm not really excited by anything -- life kinda vacillates between neutral and miserable. Needless to say, I'm not very successful at anything I do regardless of the effort I put in, and my motivation in life is pretty much, "There will be bills. They must be paid. I'm supposed to keep my heart beating. Whatever." How do I get rid of this self-loathing BS and get this excitement stuff? Conquering fears hasn't done it for me.

[sohaibahmed]

Wow man that is such an interesting video put out man.

[andrewc]

there's 2 sides to this, instead of viewing it as going to venue to get girls, you should focus on offering value instead of taking it. there's a really big difference cause some guys try too hard and others are more chill and in their reality, they make it a fun experience for the girls and end up w them