THEY TRIED TO SILENCE ME (solo female van life)

They tried to silence me, but I refuse to be silenced! I travel solo in my van and share my experiences - the good, the bad, the ugly. I guess some people only want the glossy, glamorized version of van life, so if that's you, you might want to click off and find someone else. I'm authentic, real, and vulnerable. Sometimes I cry. I'm overweight. I'm getting older. I'm growing my silver strands out. I have problems. I have insecurities. I have anxiety. But ....BUT. I also have a lot of goodness in me. Positivity. Intelligence. Ambition. Heart. Compassion. Love. Mentor. I'm a strong independent woman! I'm not ashamed to say what my positive features are and neither should you!

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RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED:

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★ Travel Vlog Season 6, Episode 8: Southern California (solo female van life)
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★ Seasons and Videos to Binge
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© StoryChasing - Create. Do. Live!
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#solofemalevanlife #vanlife #inspiration

[onebird]

Amber, we rarely make comments on YouTube videos because we watch great content like yours on our television through a Roku device. We wanted to express the heartfelt content shared by you in a very loving way. Even though this was very personal it may be the best human story you have produced! Sharing your story of triumph over fears and hate goes beyond your own healing but is extremely valuable to others who have experienced disrespect. Our goal has been to encourage and celebrate the independence of women like our daughters, granddaughters, and individuals like you. We encourage you to continue with your storytelling which is a blessing to all of us.

[msvg]

It wasn’t long ago that vanlife creators were being criticized for creating an illusion that misled people with the “Instagram images”. …. I so admire you and others who share the realities, the ups and downs. I feel that I’ve encountered someone who has invested in their audience with vulnerability and authenticity. Thank you, you lovely lady.

[ChristianSchaffer]

“Surround yourself with people who celebrate you, not tolerate you” I remember when you first told me that and it hit me like a ton of bricks. Such powerful words. I love that you live your truth, both wholeheartedly and unapologetically. You inspire me 🤍

[karmahill]

I started following you about 3 years ago because your stories gave me freedom from my mundane days and helped me dream of adventure. Through watching your stories I fell in love with Lily, your appreciation of nature, the way you love and honor your friendships, how smart you are and how you navigate problems and solve them. I admire that you started a business and teach others how to live this life. Your size and hair are just the way you were made by your creator. Why do people think they need to judge other by their size, shape, hair, skin color or who they love? It boggles my mind. Them judging you has more to do about them and their flaws than you. I lost my best friend almost 20 years ago to cancer and I still mourn her loss. No one can tell you how to grieve your losses or childhood abuses. You go on and live your best life and let the haters' comments fade away. You are special to so many people and celebrated by your true followers/friends.

[sandrap]

Good for you for having the guts to stand up to the negative people & make this video! I’ve found that negative people are just people that are miserable with their own lives & have to say cruel things to others to make themselves feel better! None of us are perfect! We are all getting older & fatter! lol We all know your heart Amber! You share your story to help all of us! Yes I deserve to be celebrated & so do you! Move on unhappy people! Hugs to you & sweet Lilly! ❤

[NJeanB]

You go girl! Always ask yourself “Will this matter to me in 50 years?” LO! Time will heal a broken heart.

[greyghostjay]

I’m sorry for the mean people. I love your channel and support you 100%.
❤️

[kristiharman]

I love your grey and I love that you're showing we can embrace that! And your weight changes NOTHING about who you are and it shouldn't matter to anyone but yourself. Miserable people want everyone else to be miserable too. Please keep telling your stories and keeping it real on your channel! I love your content and your honesty. Love to you and Lily

[jcaspen]

As a woman who experienced abuse in her marriage (divorced now, thank god), my heart goes out to you. It’s hard to remember that their words only have power if we give them power…something I’m still working on. You are special and deserve to be celebrated, as do I. Wishing you find peace of heart. Hugs

[ForeverWhereAfter]

This is one of the best videos you’ve done, not just in visuals and editing but in content. It takes a lot of courage to publicly talk about these things. Thanks 🙏.

[ellenhartley]

Amber, I am touched by this story. You seem like a very nice, interesting, kind person. I have social anxiety. Just by the fact that you are brave enough to travel by yourself via van life is proof that you ARE a strong woman. Little Lily is so dear. ❤

[Jonty_and_Chantal]

Like I've told you once before: You rock the grey! Don't let them kill the brightness of your spirit. I'm sorry to hear you've had a tough childhood. We, the people who regularly watch your videos, are here to celebrate you. Your videos are beautiful and inspiring. You go girl!

[leegd]

Yes, I deserve to be celebrated! Thank you for posting this. Am also an ESP and I so admire your courageous life journey via van-life. It's why I always watch your videos. I tell myself, "Look what Amber can do!" And your gray hair is very attractive. To hell with the weight issues. Most of us go up and down throughout our lives, but aren't we still the same wonderful people on the inside? That soul part? Yes! So what if the packaging varies. It's the content that matters. And your loyal followers know what's on the inside. That's why we subscribe.

[heatherlucero]

Never do we have to give explanations to those who choose not to have understanding or compassion. When one finger points at another, there are three pointing back at ourselves. Thank you for being authentic in a crazy world. With each season in our lives we have gained growth and wisdom whether it’s good or bad. We gain a love for ourselves! What a blessing it is to being open to know and love who we have been created to be. Keep on keeping on girl!!! 🥰

[kennethbailey]

You have already established yourself as a truly Wonderful Person. Thankyou and your sweet puppy for enriching my life.

[bikermama]

Amber, your channel has been so honest about everything. The challenges are something we need to know about if we’re going to educate ourselves.
I’ve learned a ton from your channel.

And trust me when I say “people who have to make negative comments are Jealous of your strength. They couldn’t beat their way out of a wet paper bag”.

Do what you need to do to heal.

[goddesspetina]

nobody sticks amber in the corner!!!! you are perfect just the way you are.. let the haters hate, its all about what they dont like about themselves.. thank you for sharing the up as well as the downs.. great vid!!!

[karinealami]

Yes! I deserve to be celebrated! You're awesome Amber!

[stevewillson]

My mom, God rest her soul, would have said, "They're just jealous."
Keep being you, and live the way you want to! God bless you 🙏

[kimbrewis]

Yes, I deserve to be celebrated!
Eloquently stated Amber. I pray your healing continues.