The 5 MAJOR Differences in How Men & Women SELECT Partners

[kays]

1) Men don't value your social status 2:18
2) He wants aliveness & connection before security 3:33
3) Visual Attraction through your Energy 4:53
4)Being Needed vs Being Resourceful 8:04
5) Being admired vs being desired 9:34

[MsGigi]

It’s always been SO difficult for me to ask for help of any kind so I could totally see men never feeling needed with me. However, I once had a man accuse me of being “needy” which only reaffirms a woman’s desire to retreat inside herself & remain independent. I think I do want a relationship, but it feels exhausting navigating it all.

[cal-tex]

What a great video. All true. My husband was very financially stable when we met...I on the other hand had very little. He made it very clear to me it mattered not a whit to him. We are very happy, he is truly a good man and I adore him.

[kkaufmann]

Ladies... he is spot on!! Activate a man's 'hero' and he is yours forever!!

[katemiller]

So grateful for men like you, who help us to understand men better, in a straightforward and thoughtful way. Thank you ❤

[fnffnchfhc]

Is it really true about the social status though? Men might not care about a women’s career but they probably do care about what others think of her. Men care about their own status so they most likely also care about how a women’s status will influence his status

[nica]

I find it interesting that I knew this inherently. I’ve been happily married to a great man for 15 yrs who IS and has been MY HERO

[Ellada-hutx]

Most men I have met not only wanted to know my social status, but also the social status of my family...More, most men I know would not date and even socialize out of their social class.

[HeavenlyWaltz]

Sometimes if you just don’t find the right one, just leave. For example, praising men sincerely for being a hero or make him feel needed is a good way for connecting, but doing it to the wrong person, it just boosts his ego and leads him to being a narcissist. Another issue is, being with a fake or wrong hero, if a woman tries to talk things through to build connection, as narcissistic as the guy is, he will think the woman is needy or immature. Not every man is right for you. When a man is not being a man, just leave. Just be a woman who creates connection with the one that seems right.

[Mushroom-]

A guy i met is self aware, empathetic, & his cuteness brings it out EVEN more ! 😊

Yes, i want him to feel valued !!,
Thank you bern !! 😃

[tarjahietajarvi]

Thank you! I am raised by a single parenting mother, who was always very proud of her surviving alone after my father early death. I am strong, educated, independent woman. I have to change my attitude for men. Eyes-opening video!

[KayQhosa]

You deserve more likes. It's extremely helpful and useful. Thank you!

[ChaplainChristineMercy]

This is wisdom personified! Thank you so much for sharing these beneficial insights, which sincerely help us to understand how men think, and what they want and need. ❤

[aditichandrasekar]

Ooops... I am the independent badass 😂!!
I don't think I "need" any of these guys. Some of them are admirable, yes. I can't fake need anyway because I am not fake.
As for me, I would rather be friends with a man who can be my equal, than romantic with one who needs to be "needed". He himself is needy! 😉
Nevertheless, in general I appreciate your empathy for women. Your words and expressions are heartfelt.

[AmmaLove]

I agree with this, but the problem for me is that I really don't need anyone. I can admire and love people, but I am so independent (and that is something natural that I can't change) that I don't really need a man. Do I like and appreciate what someone contributes? Absolutely. But I don't need a hero and I can't really force that.

[ruthresetar]

I have lost my energy, and I don't think I will get back.

[JaniceCross-ns]

I'm not sure I can buy into being admired being the woman's responsibility. I have no problem admiring a man who is admirable. HE plays a role in whether or not I admire him. He needs to have quality to his character and do the right thing. Just like I don't trust someone who is not trustworthy. So guys, you play part in all this.

[saynotohookups]

If a man wants me to need him then he has to be a provider. He has to have strengths where I am weak.

[mariepetterson]

Energy and radiance are also rooted in DNA. Good video.

[lalalalaland]

I was fun, made him feel alive, and he was very attracted to me. However he turned around and picked the boring stable girl with financial status who didn't need him. So i guess he was an exceptional case - the gold digger?