How To FLIRT And Get A Man's Attention // 5 Tips!

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Today I'm sharing how to flirt and get a man's attention! Flirting is not the easiest thing in the world, so today I want to share a few feminine tips. Make sure to leave me a comment with your thoughts!

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[Sophie-dnn]

"It's a hard thing to accept as women that we don't get to choose who we date"... girl what?!

[birdinacan]

I do agree that being forward is not often what is desirable by most, but if that is truly your personality don't reign it in! I'm kind of a pushy person... and that's how I started talking to my husband!
I will concede once we started talking I tried to give him more opportunities to let him chase me but I am happy I didn't wait for him because he's the most important person in my life!
Anyway, good luck! I hope everyone finds love!! 😍 💕💕

[SoManyThingsToEnjoy]

I’m a man, so I’ve watched this video just for fun and for knowing what’s going on the other side, so to say, and am impressed by the way the topic is handled. Great advice on not being obsessed with flirting (the way I‘ve interpreted it) and paying attention to the right fit 👍 Thank you!

[michaeldalton]

One of the frustrations this video hits on is "why isn't the guy I like, responding?"

The fact is, not every woman who flirts has good intentions. If your a guy who gets flirted with often you have to be able to tell the difference between a woman flirting for an ego stroke, or to male her friend jealous, or her friend likes you and she's just feeling you out, because she doesn't know how else to interact with men, so on and so on. Addtionally, there is always the fear that if you give in too early, she will think you just chase anything that comes your way.

So part of that is to add a little resistance, not to respond right away just because someone gave you eyes.

Also, the way I have seen things is there is the initial "invite" where the girl gives you the signal "come talk to me" then after you approach, good flirting is about testing to see where the boundaries are. Sparing is to boxing what flirting is to sex. Its more about ebb and flow, than anything.

[gaby]

The part about realizing when a guy is just not interested and moving on is SO important! I think a lot of us women have a tendency to try to "turn" a man, and we often have this annoying tendency to be attracted to the emotionally distant guys and the guys that aren't interested over the guys that ARE interested. I think based on my own experiences, it's an ego problem- like it's flattering when all the other guys seem to like you but you get obsessed with the one guy who doesn't seem interested. He's more mysterious. And it's like some kind of subconscious urge to need to get his attention and interest in order to still feel desirable. I have been so guilty of this, and I'm glad you're warning other women of it cuz it's a nasty and painful trap to fall into.

[LovesDarkBlue]

A good follow up for this would be a video of flirty but subtle/modest outfits, perfume recommendations, flirty jewelry recommendations, maybe even hair style recommendations! ?

[thatexcalifornian]

I’m with you on the making eye contact and smiling.

[leahhale]

Thank you so much! I kinda struggle with the letting the guy pursue part. This was very helpful thanks!

[sophieghaffari]

Yes l love these! I love how even though you’re married and pregnant you haven’t forgotten about your single followers! 😂

[gamingwithpiper]

There's this guy that I like and I kinda thing he likes me too but in this class I'm taking about psychology we did this game thing where we had to like pass eye contact across the room and we were next to each other so I just kinda stared into his eyes and we both blushed and smiled it was so cute :))

[lydiaclements]

Thank you for making this video! It would be incredibly embarrassing to ask my mom or another woman in my life about this.

I am naturally outgoing, especially when I’m around fellow Catholics. So thank you for reminding me about the man wanting to pursue the woman, that’ll remind me to reign in my take charge personality a bit.

I also agree about the makeup thing. A lot of woman look beautiful without any eyeliner.

[chibbi]

I'm 18 and my generation is very inappropriate in terms of flirting. Thank for these tips from an aspirant classic teen!!

[emilyrose]

Hey there♥️ so thankful for your content! There aren’t many feminine, solid influencers out there and am glad you are sticking to your convictions. Keep doing what you are doing! I recently started watching your videos and love what you put out. You have a beautiful heart and am thankful for you!!

[greysaber]

Can we also get a male version of this. Women are pretty good at telling us men how to flirt as well or bring Jacob in to talk to us. Then where is an ideal place to meet someone?

[sofiabravo]

I came to a revelation! I never realized I was chasing after the guy since I was in school, it was cute once in 8th grade but as I got a bit older I noticed guys didn’t seem to respond to my quest or would let me down gently, I was always chasing guys that were not interested (probably because I wasn’t cute 😂) anyways my mom was quite the 2nd wave feminist but she would always tell me to let men approach me, it looks desperate and needy the other way around. I would get “angsty” and say girls can choose now mom! Grrr you’re so old fashioned! I ignored a lot of her good advice and behold I was heartbroken a lot! 🥴 I was in a rush to have romantic experiences because I wanted to know what it was like to have a guy love me and to love back. It was always portrayed as perfect on tv but that’s whole different dilemma. Anyways I was always going after the man up into my 20th year. When I met my husband he was always coming to me I don’t recall ever going to him…I was still very immature but I was starting to grasp on some things. I’m 27 now been married over 5 years and Abby is right. Sometimes it’s the old fashioned way of approaching things that work most often. Girls don’t chase him if you’re not getting him to at least come up and say hi after you initiated interest then move on…trust me you aren’t losing anything.

[aayushpatel]

I can see you put in effort to making this video. As a boy, I agree with your tips. One of the big things I want is a person to be themselves. If I was dating a woman, I would want her to be herself. Please do not pretend to be a person you are not, because you will always be you. And yes, tip 5 is 100% agreeable. Everyone looks good naturally, but what matters is your character. Makeup is just a money grab for beauty campaigns. I can guarantee that using Abby’s tips will help. Keep up the good work, Abby :)

[ayo_k]

I totally agree, it's never a good idea to pursue a man! You want him to at least show interest in you first.

[sunntie]

"don't dress for men" but then "how to get a mans validation"

[andreaparsons]

Hi Abby! Not to do with this particular video, but would you do a video where you show pregnancy friendly workouts? Congrats to you, and Jacob, so happy for you both!

[hereyougo]

Your style lately has been such a pretty, classic mom look.