How To GET Game - My Process for Getting Good With Girls

As much as I teach game technique in nearly every video. It's the PROCESS of game that will really get you good. Think of it like the difference between being informed of new discoveries in science versus LEARNING THE SCIENTIFIC METHOD... the latter is the key to long-term progress. Here is my method for practicing game to make sure you get outstanding results.

[Stealth]

I don't really see other Pick Up gurus talking about this super specific practical stuff anymore... s/o to Todd for continuing on what the old school Pick Up community started.

[aluumina]

Summary/notes

Recommendations:
- 3x approaches at least in 1 go
- 3 days a week minimum
- ex: Friday, sat, Tuesday (3x3)
- reasoning: good frequency for analysis, and prevents rusty ness
- warnings:
- don't go out and do a ton of approaches a day like 10+, because u want to have a life LOL, and to bring good vibes to a set (so u don't hate the game)

What do you focus on when you go out?
- figure out what ur success criteria is (ex: get a date, or finish a full set)
- make sure you succeed 30% of the time, ideally 50-70% of the time or else it'll be frustrating. Don't make it too high or else it's gonna be too boring - get to flow
- TRACK RESULTS AND NOT EMOTIONS.
- come up with a hypothesis for why you're failing. Then test it - change something related and see if it improves
- be very specific with this change (i.e. girls aren't reciprocal of my cold approach because I come off too strong, add more pull than push for ex)

[Texas]

This video speaks volumes regarding fundamentals. Back in Feb 2018 I made a 30-day commitment to approach at least 1 woman per day and wrote down my results in a journal. One year later I've continued the process with amazing results by my standards. This video takes me back to the drawing board. Approaching women consistently and keeping a journal has helped immensely. Thank you Todd.

[DJVibeDubstep]

When he said “if level 1 was too hard you’d probably give up” and I immediately thought of Dark Souls 3 and laughed. I almost did give up, but I kept trying. Eventually I beat that first “tutorial” boss and was overwhelmed in a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. It was because through repetition I started to learn the patterns of my opponent (the girl, even though seeing a girl as an opponent isn’t a good frame but you get my point) and I learned, adapted and then dominated. I imagine this is how game is. Like Dark Souls 3, it appears VERY daunting at first until you become more experienced.. then you continue on through the game excited for the next big challenge knowing you faced knee weakening adversity and anxiety before and overcame it. I guess this is like how you start with 6’s and work your way up to smoking hot 10’s to really put your skills to the test after you sharpened your sword enough.

[ggpauser]

I love that "do not judge your results by your emotions ..." I am from Argentina and I think that's the most powerful advice of game, because if you judge the results incorrectly, you will never improve in any area of your entire life. We need to mantein control of our emotions or they will take control of our lives. I have to add that is important to be cold in this because if we analyze things and add what we feel to what it simply is, we will lose the north and consequently it will take much longer to solve our mistakes. This is something that I did wrong despite having taken a lot of action. And that's also why a mentor helps so much because that person is not feeling what we feel, he only sees what's wrong and does say how to fix it. Pd: JP is the CJ versión of pickup (GTA SA)

[stephenhughes]

Also, I like you put the caution about approaching TOO much. Not only can lead to, as you say, becoming stale, losing interest in doing it. But it’s also the fact that that time could be better spent increasing your SMV in other ways. I’ve come across a few guys that think that all they have to do to get results is approach, approach, approach- yet they don’t even go to the gym, which I think could do a lot more for their results.

[ninjazx]

If anyone is reading this. There is also very practical addition to the 3x3 approaches a week routine that Todd mention, in a new video, that I found very useful. He mentioned that 2 out of the 3 days can be replaced by dates/instant dates/longs sets. But you have to have atleast one day where you do your 3 approaches that week. So for e.g. you could have 2 dates and a day with 3 approaches a week. Or you could have 1 instand date and 2 days with 3 aproaches for example. I found this helps to keep you from burning out. Motivates you to actualy get dates because they are more relaxed (burn less social calories) and they dont take more of your time on top of the 9 approaches you are already doing. It also motivates you to stay in set and push for instand dates and long sets. All of this is great becuase these things (atlest for me) are the ones that get you results the most. If you wanna hear exatctly how he said it, the video is "Advanced Conversation Techniques that Actually Work"

[hodeneofficial]

Analasys: welcome all results, even failiure. Don't focus on how i felt. Be thinking and study game.
Form a hypothesis from my results. Why i am getting my failiures?
Come up with a suggested change. What can i change?
Put it into practice.
Get incrementally closer to perfection but accept it will never be perfect.
Make tiny changes and twikes and measure the effectiveness.

[fredpierce]

Damn I needed this video I’ve been going out 3-4 times/week for the last 6 months but have just been getting drunk so I don’t feel nervous about when I approach. Not gonna lie have had some success this way but have only noticed very little improvement in my game overall and have yet to bang a 9 or 10 or even an 8. I’m gonna start holding myself to staying sober and building momentum so I can analyze my results effectively. Thanks Todd!

[melshakobyan]

He basically explained Deep Reinforcement Learning for humans

[MrHavk]

RSD will be out of business in 3 years max if Todd keeps pumping out this level of content. Incredible.

[hodeneofficial]

Frequency: don't do it like a chore and a job. Enjoy it.

[emanuelecorvino]

I think you're the most reliable pick up "guru", I've never seen a video explaining how much you should go out an approaching, it feels like a workout schedule and it makes approaching more tangible for me, I think I'm gonna buy your program, as soon as I get the money for that

[harshtiwari]

This man just explained Machine Learning to me while talking about chicks! Legend!

[oscsavage]

This is pretty simple. It's like running a business. You do the work, you stay engaged, you analyze results

[aloncwolonc]

This is like so obvious, However i have never applied it or think about it. Thank you todd for making game easier 💕.

[Frederick]

The Toddfather is the thinking man’s pimp!

[romarioosborne]

If I could get 1% better everyday for a year, I will be 3800% or 38x better by the end of the year. Wow, that statement just opened up my eyes to a whole new perspective. Great video

[arpitbinjwa]

I had to watch this video 3 times 1st time i picked up 1st point (3×3) 2 nd time i picked up 3rd point (analysis) and now I'm picking up 2nd point (making it engaging). Thanks todd.

[SuperSymbiote]

Todd you are literally a legend, thanks.