C&N TALKS: HOW OLD IS TOO OLD? | 40 YR AGE GAP RELATIONSHIP | Nikki O

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[NikkiO]

Let's discuss. How old is too old? Should she be afraid to introduce him to her family? How much of a person's past would affect your decision in being with them?

[trinityeliz]

My mom always says a relationship that starts off on a lie, will continue to be a lie, and most likely will end in a lie. She needs to run! The age isn't the issue, but the lies are.

[raelindashoates]

As a person born to an age gap relationship, my parents were a little over 30 years apart. My mother who was younger, passed away before my father did so you're right. There are no guarantees who's going to pass away first regardless of age

[nedraenglish]

RUN!!! He lied. The trust factor is already tarnished. Gun charges. Still married. Mob affiliation. RUN LIKE THE WIND! And keep running. You are 20 years old. You still have so much of life ahead of you to experience. This is a dangerous adventure you've gotten yourself into. But at the end, the decision is yours and yours alone.

[wandayates]

Nikki you are absolutely gorgeous. I think 20 is to young to get involved with a 60 year old. Of course age is just a number but when I was 20, I didn't know what I wanted yet in life. I think she should have fun and enjoy life right now. She will definitely have a different outlook when she's 30.

[michelleelizabeth]

Age is the least of their problems, that man sounds like trouble, too much baggage, lying from the get-go etc. She needs to run!

[marshalynn]

Nikki O, You and Chris are what a true relationship should be between a man and a woman. Your relationship is based on trust, honesty, and love. Also both of you are full of life and energy.

[alphaandomega]

The age difference is huge, but I can’t be hypocritical ( you’ll catch that later). The lies and trust issues would be a deal breaker and the past is the past BUT when your past involves the MAFIA, that can be dangerous !!!

[mattiegoudeau]

Nikki you are so blessed, your husband Love's you dearly!!! Nothing happens by accident or age everything is by the Divine order and will of God... God bless you and your family... I really am blessed by your relationship and the Love you two share🌼

[actressmeganrochon]

I really love y’all . I’m in 22 year age gap with my fiancé. It feels good not to feel alone . Thank you so much for your videos.

[WeAreDalesFamily]

My husband is 34yrs older than me. I may have a problem in the future but I will take the risks. I will love my husband each day in every way until that future comes! 🥰🥰🥰

[henriettaiwuji]

My question is 'when was he going to tell you the truth about himself?' If you hadn't googled him, would he have mentioned all these things you found out about him? That's deceptive in my opinion, and you shouldn't take it lightly. Besides, your relationship with him is still too early. Don't rush into anything too serious with him. He should be able to move at your own pace if he really cares about you, otherwise he is just being manipulative.

[jetlee]

Love the advice you gave her. Yes, 10 years from now she will think differently.

[MysticgrannyMc_]

Age does matter, and 40 years is too old. This guy past speaks volumes of him. I wouldn't date him. Once a liar always a Liar.. Past behavior can predict future behavior. What does someone that old have in common with a young woman.

I love you guys relationship, but everyone is not a match. Great video, and sound advice.

[LifeLive]

Throughout life I was always against dating older men. But after all these years and coming across beautiful people like y’all, that all has changed!
At this point in my life and with the situation I’ve been living for the past 8years. How I feel about this NOW
I just want something REAL! I don’t care how young or old. Just something TRUE! No games, no playin, no lies, no cheating, no BS! STRAIGHT PURE LOVE 100%! ❤️
I agree NO SUGAR COATING NOTHING AT ALL! Just something REAL AND TRUE!
If he lied... he’s a liar! Not worth it. Who knows what else he’s lying about or gonna lie about!

[wrinklesandsprinkles]

Honestly you two have a one in a million relationship! At 60yrs one has allot of life experiences, yet at 20yrs one has little life experiences. The age gap is to far apart, when one partner is so young. The criminal involvement and lies would be a hell no!
Hope you're feeling good after the surgery Nikki!

[ouijiwade]

I have a 20 year old daughter and I would have a cow if she bring home a man older than me and her dad. That's a no from a parent's perspective. Plus he's already lying....oh hell nawl!!!

[jetlee]

Love you guys. In my opinion she already knows whether it's good or bad for her even before she asked you guys. She should be honest with herself, and listen to her gut feelings.

[lovelysosweet]

Lying is a problem, but y'all are a beautiful couple

[daviddelarosa]

Age doesn't matter nor does race matter you guys rock