How do you create a love you’ve never experienced? — Susan Winter

You want meaningful connection and a love that’s real. But what if you've never experienced how that looks or feels? Here’s how to sync up your vision with reality and create the prototype for your unique love experience.

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[CorporateQueen]

What a great video.
It's heartbreaking loving someone who doesn't know what love is. 😔

[MrBoy-qjbs]

You strike me as a genuine person. You defy the "relationship guru" stereotype.

[letellier]

I have come to the realization I have never been a priority in my husbands life. After a 28 year marriage (35 years together)He has decided that he no longer wants to work on our marriage. I have been with him since I was 15 years old. He was my one and only love. I do know know that I want to be a priority in someone’s life. Do you have any videos or anticipate creating a video on the loss of a long term love. My heart hurts and I am grieving what I thought my future was going to be.

[Nutritionistheanswer]

I somehow was able to create love that I never experienced but was everything I needed. I didn’t realize it was happening. I started by learning about healthy love and studying about healthy relationships and I just stumbled upon this. We had both been in narcissistic relationships and just started with friendship. Then I realized I really love talking to this person and he shared all of my values and he believes in all this things and I am so happy every time we talk. I told him I wanted a relationship and he wasn’t so sure but said he would think about it. He came back and said he wanted it to start as a friendship and it went from there. I have never felt so heard and listened to and valued. If I ask his opinion he devotes 100% of his time to really look into it. I have never experienced anything like this. I am so excited to see how this chapter unfolds.

[ToluHarounAdamu]

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‘Attention’ is a trap for a lot of people.

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“Attention” is not love

[sharathsuma]

Dear Susan, I can't stay away from this channel for too long . You keep amazing me how you articulate your ideas with such precise examples and contexts . When passion drives what a teacher is teaching, then the students are bound to experience miracle in their hearts . How beautiful and expressive are these phrases ? "You create it here, before it manifests out there " .." Do you need to fall sick everytime you feel the need to be loved ? " . Needless to say I am a big fan of you and your teachings . Thank you, Susan . Your advices were turning point in my life that has shaped who I am today. It has helped me better understand the feelings of others . It has shaped my personal passion for and philosophy of connecting new ideas to empathy for others. And it is why I am deeply committed to pushing the bounds on what love and compassion combined with human ingenuity and passion to have impact can accomplish with my dearest Suma . Indeed, I too love to meet you and thank you for making my life wonderful . May be when I come to US, I surely will . It may take time as I need to settle in my job first, but if I get a chance I surely will . I'll keep an eye on your website . It is always and always has been great to discuss our queries and problems with you here and surely it would be a dream come true to sit face to face with you and have a chat . Have a wonderful day Susan, Take care :)
Sharath

[dollymyfolly]

Great timing, this was something I am actually going through in the moment and I even asked myself the question, "What should real love even look/feel like?" I'm thankful to see this video, I feel that soon the answer is going to come to me! :)

[ritashaba]

I can’t get enough of you. I’ve never had a real authentic relationship and now I’m learning so much everyday from you. God bless you for this channel 💕

[msdepree]

THIS WAS THE PART ABOUT CREATING OUR OWN OUTLINE FOR LOVE! THANK YOU!!!

[junebug]

You are beyond amazing Susan and I admire you immensely. I am at a low point right now and when I listen to you it gives me hope but also wise guidance on how to master my problem. Thank you so much

[DayaTom]

OMG I had this whole dynamic in my 20's, getting attention from my Narc mother only when ill!
Sick parents are a lifetime nightmare for the kid.
Incredible advice and depth :)
Thankful for your wisdom!

[stephenciotti]

Good morning Susan.
Of course this is worth doing.
Your insight is priceless.
Thanks once again...

[timheidel]

Susan, your videos are very helpful and you get to the point. I know that I am going to get useful information in a short period of time.

[vero_ibz]

Thank you Susan, you are a true blessing. Beyond words. I am grateful for you popping up in my feed. You’ve learnt me lots 💫💜😘

[anibrito]

I recently discovered your channel Susan and absolutely love your perspective. Thanks for all the great info!

[briannab]

You are so inspiring! What a role model.

[jamesrobertcrofts]

Hello Susan I've followed you for a long time and always found your videos informative and helpful but a small point I wish to say about this video you can't create love it's a FEELING you either feel love or you don't I'm an eighty year old gentleman who was married for over 35 years until my ex divorced me then many years later I met a lady I used to work with and we shared dates etc and spent over 10 years together eventually I fell in love with her and told her so we seemed to get along just fine and I thought she loved me in fact I remember she actually told me she did but in the end it became more difficult( she was too independent and had never been married before) so six months ago I had to end our togetherness unfortunately but we were going nowhere and time was and is precious sorry to ramble on a bit keep up your wonderful work your videos are very inspiring Jim in. Burbage England

[johng.]

Susan, absolutely brilliant. Thank you for providing such a great service and doing such an excellent job explaining how to accomplish this. It's very very true that one should know what they don't want to eventually find what they do want. Thank you!👍

[timepeace]

I can relate! Same here for me! Yet, I know love. So a huge topic of importance Susan! Thank you! You look so pretty!

[haroldguerrero]

Thank you very much for answers all my questions.